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Postby baby4me2012 » Mon Jun 11, 2012 1:38 pm

hey ladies, I am now at 4 days before I test. I have quite the same symptoms as I do every month like stomach aches, moodiness, and fatigue. So, I feel I am out for this month. I am just unpatiently waiting to test. Hope all is well with you both. My fx for both of you.
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Postby lcp710 » Mon Jun 11, 2012 1:44 pm

@baby4me - it's not over yet! My fingers are crossed for you!!! I'm back to square one, no Clomid this month, need a break. We'll see what the doctor says next week :)
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Me 34, DH 35
March 2013 - Follistim 75, Ovidrel, Progesterone, BFP on April 11, 2013!!!!!
Beta #1 April 15, 2013 - 714
Beta #2 April 17, 2013 - 1641
5/6/13: TWO heartbeats!!! Baby #1 - 135 and Baby #2 - 154!!!
5/22: Still have strong heartbeats and fraternal twins! Baby A - 179, and Baby B - 174!!!!
6/12: Baby A (164) and Baby B (162) doing great! Finally out of the first trimester :)
8/8: BOY & GIRL!!!!!! So freaking excited :)
9/21: Luke Allen born at 8:54 p.m.
9/22: Emily Jean born at 12:02 a.m.
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Postby nevergivingup » Mon Jun 11, 2012 3:51 pm

Baby4me you are def not OUT. Unfortunately Af symptons are simliar to prego symptons. So you still may have your BFP. Lcp i see you are along with me, im sorry i was really hoping you had it bc you deserved it. Im glad that your Gyno is on it though. Well like i said im on CD14, and we're just BD everyother day and its really funny bc i think my DH is secretly TTC too bc he beats me to intiating love making and after we finish he stays in there until he gets all of it out for like 7 minutes!! Lol, i find it hilarious bc it i think he's been doing he's research as well.
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Postby lcp710 » Tue Jun 12, 2012 8:23 pm

Ha ha ha, nevergivingup that was hilarious :) My DH is loving this TTC stuff...the more the better :) Yeah, I was a bit disappointed that this was not our month, but we're taking it easy this month...no Clomid, no obsessing, no checking my cervix everyday. I'm still temping and might do opks, but that's it. I'm only on cd6 so I have a while to go until the big O.

How are you gals doing?
Married my best friend on July 10, 2010
We have a chocolate lab mix, Bailey, 5 yrs. old :-)
TTC #1 since March 2011
Me 34, DH 35
March 2013 - Follistim 75, Ovidrel, Progesterone, BFP on April 11, 2013!!!!!
Beta #1 April 15, 2013 - 714
Beta #2 April 17, 2013 - 1641
5/6/13: TWO heartbeats!!! Baby #1 - 135 and Baby #2 - 154!!!
5/22: Still have strong heartbeats and fraternal twins! Baby A - 179, and Baby B - 174!!!!
6/12: Baby A (164) and Baby B (162) doing great! Finally out of the first trimester :)
8/8: BOY & GIRL!!!!!! So freaking excited :)
9/21: Luke Allen born at 8:54 p.m.
9/22: Emily Jean born at 12:02 a.m.
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Postby nevergivingup » Tue Jun 12, 2012 8:41 pm

Hi Lcp. Im glad i could make you laugh :D Well it seems me and you are def in the same boat. I decided this time i am not going to obsess over it either. So i didnt buy any more opks or hpt. I decided i'll just BD every other day and no testing and we'll just have to wait and see if we caught the eggy or not. Either way i have to get some testing done to see about my recurrent m/cs whic is on June 26. So if anything i wont know anything going on with my body until then bc i told myself im def not testing anymore, its very exhausting to me. Well Dh and I just got finished BD, today was not meant for us to Bd, but i "ACCIDENTLY" checked my CP after showering.....and gotten myself Horny :shock: (I know, i know.....just nasty) Dont worry Lcp, im sure it will happen for you.

ps. my 32 year cousin called me today to tell me that she is 11wks prego(she had a 12wk mc the same time i had mine). And told me i need to come on board. and im thinking, "yea if it was only that easy".

Anywhoo, i figure i cant miss it by BD everyother day right. Later ladies
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Postby lcp710 » Wed Jun 13, 2012 2:07 pm

He he, you crack me up :-) Yep, doing the deed every other day is the route we're going too. I'm still thinking of doing opks, but that's it. I did temp today and yesterday, but I'm not going to do it anymore. I haven't been sleeping that well lately and it's silly for me to take my bbt if I don't get a good night's sleep.

And definitely a little knife twist in the gut when your friend tells you to jump on board with pregnancy! It's not like you're not trying! But sometimes, people just don't get it, and I'm sure she didn't mean to be insensitive or anything like that. I just saw my friend's one-day old baby this morning - such a cutie! I just keep thinking, I can't wait for that to be me!!!

Hope you're all having a great day :-)
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We have a chocolate lab mix, Bailey, 5 yrs. old :-)
TTC #1 since March 2011
Me 34, DH 35
March 2013 - Follistim 75, Ovidrel, Progesterone, BFP on April 11, 2013!!!!!
Beta #1 April 15, 2013 - 714
Beta #2 April 17, 2013 - 1641
5/6/13: TWO heartbeats!!! Baby #1 - 135 and Baby #2 - 154!!!
5/22: Still have strong heartbeats and fraternal twins! Baby A - 179, and Baby B - 174!!!!
6/12: Baby A (164) and Baby B (162) doing great! Finally out of the first trimester :)
8/8: BOY & GIRL!!!!!! So freaking excited :)
9/21: Luke Allen born at 8:54 p.m.
9/22: Emily Jean born at 12:02 a.m.
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Postby baby4me2012 » Wed Jun 13, 2012 6:08 pm

Hi Ladies,

I'm sorry that it hasn't worked out for either of you this month. Looks like I just have to make it through 1 more day and then it's time for me to test. All my symptoms have disappeared, so I'm anxious. Sorry I havent been on lately, I'm just really stressed with work and with well the obvious. And like you girls, my fiance is all about TTC too, at least he never complains about it. Hope to hear from you soon. I will let you know how the test turns out.
I am 28 years old, dp is 36
We have been ttc for 6 months
Diagnosed with PCOS May 2008
Prescribed Metformin May 2008
Lost An Angel on December 31, 2011 @ 5 weeks
Lost another Angel @ 8 weeks on August 1, 2012 due to a complete Molar Pregnancy
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Postby lcp710 » Thu Jun 14, 2012 7:42 am

@baby4me - I've got my fingers crossed for you! I really hope this is your month :)

I'm feeling okay about not getting pregnant last month. We have a dr appointment on Monday so we'll see what she says. I am not obsessing this month...at least, I will try not to :)
Married my best friend on July 10, 2010
We have a chocolate lab mix, Bailey, 5 yrs. old :-)
TTC #1 since March 2011
Me 34, DH 35
March 2013 - Follistim 75, Ovidrel, Progesterone, BFP on April 11, 2013!!!!!
Beta #1 April 15, 2013 - 714
Beta #2 April 17, 2013 - 1641
5/6/13: TWO heartbeats!!! Baby #1 - 135 and Baby #2 - 154!!!
5/22: Still have strong heartbeats and fraternal twins! Baby A - 179, and Baby B - 174!!!!
6/12: Baby A (164) and Baby B (162) doing great! Finally out of the first trimester :)
8/8: BOY & GIRL!!!!!! So freaking excited :)
9/21: Luke Allen born at 8:54 p.m.
9/22: Emily Jean born at 12:02 a.m.
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Postby nevergivingup » Thu Jun 14, 2012 2:45 pm

Hi ladies, Lcp dont worry u will def get your BFP....Hands Down!!! baby4me...ooo im extra excited for you, my :fingers crossed: that you def have your BFP soo your stressing can def Stop!!! GL ladies!!
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Postby baby4me2012 » Thu Jun 14, 2012 6:11 pm

Why are people so inconsiderate? The future SIL (who has 3 kids) and I were talking, my fiance is planning on trying to get a job in the coal mines. This would really help us financially. Well she has the nerve to say and I quote "I don't know why he just wont go get a simple job. There's just the two of you, it's not like you have kids or anything. Then it would be a different story." How rude and inconsiderate! She knows how bad I want a child, what a disappointment. My life is stressful enough without being judged and being reminded I'm such a failure when it comes to getting pregnant. Oh and I got laid off from work today. I am so stressed out.

I guess you know how my day is going, how are you ladies doing tonight?
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We have been ttc for 6 months
Diagnosed with PCOS May 2008
Prescribed Metformin May 2008
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Postby nevergivingup » Thu Jun 14, 2012 8:54 pm

O No baby4me :| I am totally sorryyy about your job laying you off!! WHAT BAD TIMING, JERKS!! I know words cant help the situation but i really hope it really gets better for you and you find alittle joy soon. I totally know how u feel about the SIL being inconsiderate, what a....(i retired from cursing so im not going to say but it def begins with a "B"!! My SIL is inconsiderate as well, you're so not alone. She makes me watch her little 4month old and then calls everyone and says she wants her baby back, bc she is not letting me keep her all day bc she misses her. And im like i didnt even ask for her....so you know that really makes me want to BD all day everyday to try to get my own. ugghhh just ignore people like that, i started ignoring my in laws along time ago. BC they're def inconsiderate and bc they also know how bad i want my own. Dont worry ma'am you will def get your little rainbow soon. have you tested yet?

ps. You and your DH business is between u and him. In laws are def not invited bc they seems to make things worser. They love giving advice and think their helping. Just ignore them ma'am and keep your head up, stay positive bc things will get better even when it seems as if the rain wont go away. POSITIVE THOUGHTS MA"AM. I know its hard. But U are def NOT a Failure, bc i know im not and we're both TTC and having a hard time doing it, nothing is wrong with us. I wish i could say something to make your days better, but you are the only one in control of that. POSITIVE THOUGHTS MA"AM!! :fingers crossed: for u!!
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Postby baby4me2012 » Fri Jun 15, 2012 6:54 am

Nevergivingup, It is really bad timing to get laid off at work, but considering the tremendous amount of stress I have been under because of stress, maybe it's for the best. Actually, everything you ladies say and the support you show have really helped me. I appreciate the support and friendship I have found here with you and Leigh. Your SIL sounds like a nightmare. Before last night, My SIL had become really close and I think that's why it hurt me so much that she would be so cruel. I have decided to ignore her, I'm not going to talk to her anymore unless it is utterly necessary. I think that is for the best. As far as testing, I am going to test tonight. I am still waiting on AF to show up, if she doesn't I will definately test tonight. Thanks so much for the advice and support. I will have an update tonight.
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We have been ttc for 6 months
Diagnosed with PCOS May 2008
Prescribed Metformin May 2008
Lost An Angel on December 31, 2011 @ 5 weeks
Lost another Angel @ 8 weeks on August 1, 2012 due to a complete Molar Pregnancy
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Postby nevergivingup » Fri Jun 15, 2012 7:45 am

GREAT NEWS, that your'e staying positive. And i agree soo much stressing deserves a break! Yes some people can def flip flop really quick, and make you wonder. Im happy that we can be supportive, bc no one really understands how we feel until they go through the it. Head Up Chin Up ma'am, i def hope you have that BFP tonite, that will make your day extra better!!! :fingers crossed: for U!!
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Postby lcp710 » Sat Jun 16, 2012 5:25 am

@baby4me - I cannot believe your SIL! How inconsiderate! And I'm so sorry you got laid off from work. I can't imagine how difficult that is for you and your husband. But you're right, maybe it's a good thing considering the amount of stress you've been dealing with. If you don't mind telling, what did you do? Did you enjoy it? I only ask because I'm in grad school to be a counselor, and one of the things we do is career counseling so I could give you some websites to check out that might help you find a job that you love :-) We are both here for you if you need anything!!! And I'm still crossing my fingers for you to get that BFP!!!

AFM, nothing new going on really. Just enjoying this "break" we're taking this month. I'm on cd10, but am not doing OPKs, checking CM, or temping. I just wanted this month to be stress-free. DH and I are going to the beach and kayaking today so we're about to head out. Hopefully the drive to Virginia Beach won't be too bad - it was awful yesterday! I had to pick up my nieces from their mom's and it took me 3 freaking hours from my house, which should only have taken an hour! AGH! Anyway, hoping today's traffic is better! Have a great day ladies :-)
Married my best friend on July 10, 2010
We have a chocolate lab mix, Bailey, 5 yrs. old :-)
TTC #1 since March 2011
Me 34, DH 35
March 2013 - Follistim 75, Ovidrel, Progesterone, BFP on April 11, 2013!!!!!
Beta #1 April 15, 2013 - 714
Beta #2 April 17, 2013 - 1641
5/6/13: TWO heartbeats!!! Baby #1 - 135 and Baby #2 - 154!!!
5/22: Still have strong heartbeats and fraternal twins! Baby A - 179, and Baby B - 174!!!!
6/12: Baby A (164) and Baby B (162) doing great! Finally out of the first trimester :)
8/8: BOY & GIRL!!!!!! So freaking excited :)
9/21: Luke Allen born at 8:54 p.m.
9/22: Emily Jean born at 12:02 a.m.
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Postby nevergivingup » Sat Jun 16, 2012 7:49 am

Hi ladies, babyforme did you test yet?

Lcp710, i agree, relaxing is def a better approach but if you're not consistent with it you will find yourself guessing when is "O" and trying to BD around that time. I thought i took the relax approach by jsut BD everyother day and not opks or checking myself, it actually didnt happen that way,although i didnt buy any opks, but it drove me crazy bc i actually had to pay attention to my body signs which wasnt fun bc i had cm for 2 days now so i was determine to BD...and it was tiresome!! Good thing you and the DH are going to be having some fun you deserve it. Yea and traffic makes me lose my mind, sometimes i wish i was the only one on the road driving, i tend to always leave out the house around 5:00pm and pay for it when im stuck in it. O well have fun ma'am!!! Dont give up yet, your time is def coming!!!!
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