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Postby baby4me2012 » Sat Jun 16, 2012 7:58 pm

Hi ladies, looks like it's a BFN and I am still waiting on AF, she's 3 days late. I kinda knew this was coming. Me & my fiance have both been under a tremendous amount of stress this month. It still doesn't change the fact that I am really disappointed.

@lcp710 Yeah my SIL was awful to me and then she calls around here and acts as if she has done nothing. I was a customer service rep for a major bank. I really hated it there. The reason I got fired was because of my statistics on the call, but they have been laying alot of people off, so I think they were just looking for an excuse. I really think it is for the best because I have been really wanting to finish college. I was going to be a teacher. I really hope you enjoy your trip and get your BFP this time.

@nevergivingup so I did get that BFN I was afraid of. I really wished it would have been positive, but I think that I will try again this month. I got laid off so I will be at home and be able to relax and rest, so maybe that will do the trick. I had so much stress this past month there's no wonder it didn't turn out positive. Anyway, I hope you get your BFP this time to. Keep us updated.
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Postby lcp710 » Sun Jun 17, 2012 9:56 am

@baby4me - so sorry about the BFN :-( And I can't believe AF is 3 days late! I'm hoping she stays away and then the BFP pops up!!! And I'm glad you're staying positive about being laid off. Sometimes, that's the best thing to happen to a person, allowing you to finally do whatever you want to do as a career. If you're still interested in becoming a teacher, there are some schools that offer career switcher programs and you can get your degree pretty quickly. I know Old Dominion University in Norfolk, VA does that - they're about an hour away from me. I was a high school English teacher for 10 years so I can definitely talk to you about it if you want :-)

@nevergivingup - I'm definitely enjoying this down time! DH and I went to Va Beach yesterday and then grilled out with some friends on the beach. It was amazing! We're doing our best to stay busy doing things we want to do, like going to the beach, the pool, cooking out, going hiking, etc. I have been monitoring my CM and I did take an opk today (negative), but I'm not temping or taking the Clomid this month. And I'm actually okay if we don't get pregnant this month - I'm not expecting to anyway. I'm just glad I have this time off to just be with my hubby and relax :-)

Well, I do have my follow-up appointment with my gyno tomorrow so we'll see what she says. Should be interesting... Hope you both have a great Sunday :-)
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Postby baby4me2012 » Mon Jun 18, 2012 10:08 am

@lcp710: Looks like I'm still waiting. Af still has not shown up. I am trying my best to stay positive. I still have my fx for all of us. I would be really interested in those career switcher programs to get my degree more quickly. Private message it to me after you get back from your vacation. How's it going, by the way? Wishing you good luck and I hope we hear an update on what your gyno says. Hope to hear from you soon.
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Postby nevergivingup » Mon Jun 18, 2012 10:33 am

Hi Ladies! Im a traveling wife so excuse my absences sometimes.....wherever the DH sperm go i have to go too :wink:

Babyforme, im still def staying SUPER POSITIVE FOR U, since AF hasnt shown yet, we def can't give in yet. You may have "O" later than you thought...at least i hope that's it! So my :fingers crossed: that you def have it. Keep us posted and It's Great that you're def doing career change, im yelling "GO BABYFORME!!" Going bk to school is always awesome for bettering yourself esp. in becoming a teacher. I always wanted to become an English teacher bc of my 12th grade English teacher was so incredicle and passionate about her job and made english so enjoyable. Go for it ma'am!

Lcp710 Def Good for you, all your activites seems very Exciting. I only dream of doing those things like hiking and cooking out and enjoying the family, Dh and i be on the road so much bc of his job and my schooling we have no time to even see our home but maybe twice a month and that's only for 2 days. You're def blessed in many ways ma'am. Enjoy your DH, that's alll that really matters, bc mine really do hate seeing me depressed and sad esp, about babies. Def opk so you can have a clue of "O" but taking a break from clomid is a good idea, seems like your body is saying i will get prego when im ready. Keep us updated on your gyno appt :wink:

As for me, no symptons except gas, sooo im just staying POSITIVE for these 9 days.

GL LADIES AND HAVE FUN AND STAY POSITIVE!!! We're def on this rollercoaster together!!
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Postby lcp710 » Mon Jun 18, 2012 2:22 pm

Hey ladies. Well, th doc says it's time for us to go see a specialist. I probably need to have an HSG done to see if my tubes are blocked since th Clomid made me ovulate but not pregnant. She's putting me back on Clomid for three more cycles, which should give us enough time to make an appointment with a specialist. DH and I really don't have the money right now for IVF, but financing is available at the two specialists she recommended so we'll see. I feel okay about it, not too upset. Just glad we have some answers, but there is still a long way to go.

Hope you're both doing well :)

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We have a chocolate lab mix, Bailey, 5 yrs. old :-)
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Me 34, DH 35
March 2013 - Follistim 75, Ovidrel, Progesterone, BFP on April 11, 2013!!!!!
Beta #1 April 15, 2013 - 714
Beta #2 April 17, 2013 - 1641
5/6/13: TWO heartbeats!!! Baby #1 - 135 and Baby #2 - 154!!!
5/22: Still have strong heartbeats and fraternal twins! Baby A - 179, and Baby B - 174!!!!
6/12: Baby A (164) and Baby B (162) doing great! Finally out of the first trimester :)
8/8: BOY & GIRL!!!!!! So freaking excited :)
9/21: Luke Allen born at 8:54 p.m.
9/22: Emily Jean born at 12:02 a.m.
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Postby baby4me2012 » Mon Jun 18, 2012 6:22 pm

@nevergivingup: It's perfectly ok about the absences. We all have busy lives (well, at least I used to when I was working). I am trying to stay positive. Afterall, no period is definately a good sign for a BFP. Thanks so much for all the support. I also have my fx for you and Lcp710 as well. I am definately wanting to finish my teaching degree and further my education. What is so interesting is that I want to be an english teacher as well. You're right we are all on this rollercoaster together. I'm so glad that I have your ladies concern and support as well. Thanks for being such great friends.

Babydust for us all. Hope to hear from you soon.
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Postby nevergivingup » Tue Jun 19, 2012 8:02 am

:hugs: babyforme Ur totally welcome but We're def here for each other ma'am!! It's great that we have soo many things in common. we were destined to be friends!! :D

Lcp710, its great that your going to have answers very soon. Def dont give up, if you're okay with going bk on clomid and getting IVF than that's great. Just as long as you're ok with it and feel comfortable about it then go for it. Esp if it's something you really want. Im sure the docs are trying really hard and doing what they think is best to give you want your heart really desires, so go for it ma'am. An of course we are def here for you and def praying for you.

Im keeping my :fingers crossed: that this will hopefully be my month bc i do go for testing on the 26th of this month to see whats wrong with me and i really dont want them to find anythng so hopefully this is our month. Bc i really dont have the funds to do all that medical stuff like you all since we're saving for our new home and we travel weekly AND of course everything else....like life :wink: So GL to us all ladies!!
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Postby baby4me2012 » Wed Jun 20, 2012 1:10 pm

@nevergivingup: I think we all have alot in common too. I feel so fortunate that I met both you ladies.

@lcp710: I agree with nevergiving up, you will get your answers soon and never give up, stay positive. It will happen for us.

AFM, I am still late for Af with no symptoms at all. I really am getting frustrated. Oh, and if I have to hear one more facebook post from my cousin complaining about being sick because she is pregnant, I might just delete her. She is driving me crazy. Anyway, hope to hear from you really soon. Take care.
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Postby nevergivingup » Wed Jun 20, 2012 1:37 pm

Babyforme, LOL, that was really hilarious about your cousin complaining!! Dont worry you're not alone, my cousin is 12wks prego and the same way, but since im not on FB she contacts me on the phone. And o yea lets not forget my BFF whose 30wk prego, i mean i guess she has that right. But everyday she calls me and informs me of every single movement her baby is doing. So of course its driving me crazy bc i want to feel that too. ughhh, but other than that, i think u may have that BFP, no show of aunt flo, that's the best sign/sympton ever. :fingers crossed: def for you!!! Keep us updated!!!

AFM: still in TWW, having a bit of symtons soo im hoping for the best.

LCP710 how is everything going ma'am?
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Postby lcp710 » Wed Jun 20, 2012 2:23 pm

Hey ladies! Sorry I've been MIA. DH and I went to the Phish concert last night in Portsmouth, VA, and then I was at the pool all day with my nieces. We're about to go watch DH play softball, should be fun :-)

@baby4me - Yeah, I'd be pretty annoyed with my cousin if she were posting about how sick she was. At least she's pregnant! Ugh. But, she probably doesn't mean to be insensitive. At least, I hope she doesn't...

AFM, things are going well! I actually got a positive OPK (smiley face on the digital one) this morning so DH and I BDed yesterday and today. I was really surprised, especially since I didn't take Clomid this month. So we'll see. I'm not getting my hopes up since the doc said we probably need to see a specialist at this point, but it doesn't hurt to cover our bases :-) And I'll tell ya, that man is a rock star! I think he actually likes all this BDing, doesn't matter that it's timed or anything. He is one happy man :-)
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March 2013 - Follistim 75, Ovidrel, Progesterone, BFP on April 11, 2013!!!!!
Beta #1 April 15, 2013 - 714
Beta #2 April 17, 2013 - 1641
5/6/13: TWO heartbeats!!! Baby #1 - 135 and Baby #2 - 154!!!
5/22: Still have strong heartbeats and fraternal twins! Baby A - 179, and Baby B - 174!!!!
6/12: Baby A (164) and Baby B (162) doing great! Finally out of the first trimester :)
8/8: BOY & GIRL!!!!!! So freaking excited :)
9/21: Luke Allen born at 8:54 p.m.
9/22: Emily Jean born at 12:02 a.m.
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Postby nevergivingup » Wed Jun 20, 2012 2:54 pm

Yayyyyyyy for you LCP710, U are def staying BUSY and its sounds like alot of FUN!!!!! U r really lucky!! Im bored out my mind, my DH is working in NC and we're 5 miles from the beach and i've been stuck in the hotel for 2 days now bc i left my vehicle in storage and we just drove his bc we didnt need two but i havent seen the beach yet bc when he gets off he is dreadfully tired so i cant argue with my breadwinner, so hopefully we'll go today, until then LCP710 please have enough fun for me too :wink: Im def happy for your + OPK without the clomid, that is amazing, i knew your body would do what it wanted to when it was ready, i def hope JULY is your BFP, im feeling awesome vibes for you now ma'am, so all i can say now is BD,BD,BD,BD. Those DH's never complain ab the sex part at least ours dont, so BD your ROCK STAR crazy ma'am. Heehee, im soo happy that you're happy and relaxing and having family fun. GOOD FOR U MA'AM, cant wait for u to be in the TWW!!!!
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Postby baby4me2012 » Wed Jun 20, 2012 5:48 pm

@nevergivingup: my cousin totaly drives me crazy, everyday I log onto fb she is always complaining either about her tiredness, cravings, and most of all nausea. I really feel like deleting her, but I'm trying to make it through her next nine months. I really hope it is a BFP, but of course I was late last month by 2 weeks. Usually I am always on time. So, if I'm not I'm a little worried about the reason for Af's. But still am keeping my fx for all of us.

@lcp710: I'm not sure if her intentions are to be insensitive or not, but I'm starting to get used to my family's insensitivity. I have a big family and they can be insensitive, they're always asking me when I'm going to have a baby or when I'm going to make my mother a grandmother. Uugghh they kill me with that. I am very happy that you got a + on your OPK that's really great, maybe this will be your month. I am really keeping my fx for you.
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Postby lcp710 » Sat Jun 23, 2012 8:41 am

Hey gals! Hope you have both been well. DH and I have been busy babysitting our nieces, going to the pool, just enjoying summer :-) I'm 1 or 2 dpo now, but not holding out much hope since the gyno said we need to see a specialist next. So I'm hoping I won't obsess during this TWW. But, knowing myself, I'm sure I'll be symptom checking :-)

Hope you're both doing well!

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We have a chocolate lab mix, Bailey, 5 yrs. old :-)
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Me 34, DH 35
March 2013 - Follistim 75, Ovidrel, Progesterone, BFP on April 11, 2013!!!!!
Beta #1 April 15, 2013 - 714
Beta #2 April 17, 2013 - 1641
5/6/13: TWO heartbeats!!! Baby #1 - 135 and Baby #2 - 154!!!
5/22: Still have strong heartbeats and fraternal twins! Baby A - 179, and Baby B - 174!!!!
6/12: Baby A (164) and Baby B (162) doing great! Finally out of the first trimester :)
8/8: BOY & GIRL!!!!!! So freaking excited :)
9/21: Luke Allen born at 8:54 p.m.
9/22: Emily Jean born at 12:02 a.m.
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Postby nevergivingup » Mon Jul 02, 2012 10:35 am

babyforme: how is everything going so far, i chatted with our lovely LCp710 already but not you, how is everything, i hope well.
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Postby baby4me2012 » Mon Jul 02, 2012 4:45 pm

@ nevergivingup: Sorry I have been MIA. I have not been feeling up to talking lately. Things arent going well for me at all. Between, being laid off from work and now my car is broke down I am stressed out. Plus, my Af has never showed up. I am now 20 days late and worried about what is going on. So how have you been? Hope to hear from you soon.
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We have been ttc for 6 months
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