I can't have "the BIG O" to save my life. :( !!??

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I can't have "the BIG O" to save my life. :( !!??

Postby WantToBeASingleMom » Thu Feb 28, 2013 12:00 pm

First off, this O I'm referring to is not ovulation. :oops: I've never been able to O via just sex. I need outer stimulation. Well the past two months (ever since TTC) I can't even do that...by myself...with the help of my toys! :( I used to be able to lie down, put it on, and 10-15 later, I'm done. Now? I just can't! I want to bc after donor comes I want to help the seed out a bit, but I can't climax. I even tried when it wasn't donor time and for way long periods of time. You think I just have baby on the brain SO much that I just can't? :cry: Anyone have this problem. Help. :?
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Postby Veralyn » Sun Mar 03, 2013 11:10 pm

Well, I'm not shy so I will bite! I can't get off from penetration alone. Never have, and unless I use toys (which doesn't always work), never will. I don't know if it is because I've never searched it, but I've never seen that an orgasm is a good way to aid in fertilization. However, I've heard a lot of good comes from using Mucinex to thin your CM and using Preseed can help by making it easier for the little guys to swim. I haven't tried this yet because we're waiting to see if our first Clomid cycle works, though.
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Postby WantToBeASingleMom » Wed Mar 06, 2013 6:08 pm

Lol thanks for biting! Actually, I finally got over my hump! Lmao!
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Postby Shawta » Wed May 08, 2013 1:24 pm

haha. I have this too. Cant without outer stimulation so the best way to do this...Sorry TMi maybe but doggy style with your arm underneath and rubbing it. Sorry TMI but i even went to a doctor. Young and stupid is what i bet they said. LOL
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Postby ArmyWife623 » Wed May 08, 2013 9:24 pm

Hope you dont mind if i butt in and bite! Lol, but I just wanted to say the majority of women can't O without clitoral stimulation. Its very common! Lol, the doggy style and rubbing is a fav of mine! Lol
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Postby chattyallie » Tue Jun 11, 2013 6:40 pm

Just scrolled and wanted to say I've never O'd...like ever.
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Postby Thully_1980 » Fri Jul 19, 2013 3:59 am

Wow...so I'm not the only one!!!!! Can I butt in as well...am aware its an old post but just HAD to comment :D
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