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Re: Looking for ttc friends!!! :)

Postby Faith702 » Sat Nov 02, 2013 9:22 am

@randa- no my temps usually drop during period. Did your period officially come?

Char- I saw a fertility specialist We'd. She didn't really tell me any surprises.
She doesn't see anything noticeably wrong with either of us and actually said my Amh levels were the best she had seen in awhile. Basically she said that 40% of infertility issues are attributed to guys problems which we don't have.

Then 25% are from hormonal issues in the girl which it doesn't look like I have but I am getting one more blood test Monday to check progesterone.

Then 25% are due to tubal blockage or endometriosis which I have none of the signs of and my Hsg was clear, but my mom had endo so I'm at higher risk for it. So I am going to have a laparoscopy in a few weeks to see if there is any thing and clean it out.

If my labs and lap are clear which both the doc and I think they will be, then I end up in the 10% that have unexplained infertility. I guess it's not the worst but not the best either. She said 60% of people who are unexplained end of having kids naturally within 5 years.

Sorry for all the percentages but it made it a lot clearer for DH. We are going the adoption route instead of IUI or IVF. I want to start that process sooner than later but DH wants to exhaust every option we have, and frankly that exhausting to me. I just wanna be a mom whichever way it happens.

The doc thinks a lot of my infertility is due to stress which I get from work. As a result, my DH really wants me to quit at the end of the school year, and find something with less hours. I want to as well but it just scares me to be jobless, even for a little while.

Phew sorry for the long post...so much to think about.
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Re: Looking for ttc friends!!! :)

Postby randapanda » Sat Nov 02, 2013 5:10 pm

I think so but this morning it was 98.4....?

She has been light though so I think its here.
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Re: Looking for ttc friends!!! :)

Postby Newzealand » Sun Nov 03, 2013 10:09 pm

@faith that is frustrating when you can get no answers! I will be praying for your bfp! xx
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Re: Looking for ttc friends!!! :)

Postby randapanda » Fri Nov 22, 2013 7:43 am

Hey ladies any updates?
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Re: Looking for ttc friends!!! :)

Postby Faith702 » Fri Nov 22, 2013 4:22 pm

Hey,
I guess we have a pretty big update...we have started the adoption process!
I did not get the laparoscopy because we did not feel like there was enough basis for it. We are so excited to be starting the process of adoption. We know it will be long and hard but so is ttc. We have been matched with a social worker and will meet with her in a little over a week.
How r u guys?
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Re: Looking for ttc friends!!! :)

Postby Newzealand » Sat Nov 23, 2013 1:09 am

@faith that is great news hun! Keep us updated how it all goes hun! Not much news for me cd 24 after the miscarriage, may or may not have ovulated..i guess i'll know in 12-14 days. I have all the details on my blog but don't want to bore you all here. Just waiting, waiting! Ya both know how it is!Been taking a bit of a break from the boards and havent really been writing anything.

xx baby dust

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Angel Baby natural miscarriage 6 weeks 5 days, 31 October 2013. Forever in our hearts.
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Re: Looking for ttc friends!!! :)

Postby randapanda » Sat Nov 23, 2013 8:42 am

Glad to hear from you ladies. Had a dip yesterday of 97.8 but temp went up to 98.1 this morning....?

Nm here just waiting on AF by Thanksgiving or day before. On CD24 and getting frustrated. Might take a break to see what can just be will be you know?
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Re: Looking for ttc friends!!! :)

Postby Faith702 » Sun Dec 01, 2013 7:28 am

Any news @randapanda?
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Re: Looking for ttc friends!!! :)

Postby randapanda » Sun Dec 01, 2013 8:18 am

Going grocery shopping today. Will get a cheapie then at Walmart. When do you ladies think iys a good time to test as I am 19dpo......
I did have temp of 98.1 this morning so it has gone down a bit. Worried, lol.
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Re: Looking for ttc friends!!! :)

Postby Faith702 » Sun Dec 01, 2013 10:11 am

Considering I usually only have a 12 day luteal phase, 19dpo sounds really long and promising to me. How long is your LP normally? 98.1 still sounds high as well.
Fingers crossed! Keep us updated!
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Re: Looking for ttc friends!!! :)

Postby Newzealand » Sun Dec 01, 2013 12:30 pm

Are you sure you ovulated when you say you did, coz if you did I'd be testing! Good luck Hun!
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Angel Baby natural miscarriage 6 weeks 5 days, 31 October 2013. Forever in our hearts.
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Re: Looking for ttc friends!!! :)

Postby randapanda » Sun Dec 01, 2013 1:54 pm

I have been getting O dips on either CD13 or 14 and FF says I also did by my cm. I hope am but if not then going to doctor soon.
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Re: Looking for ttc friends!!! :)

Postby Newzealand » Tue Dec 03, 2013 11:17 pm

any updates panda? still no af?
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Surprise BFP on a natural cycle 12 October 2013!
Angel Baby natural miscarriage 6 weeks 5 days, 31 October 2013. Forever in our hearts.
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Re: Looking for ttc friends!!! :)

Postby randapanda » Tue Dec 03, 2013 11:33 pm

Well valled to get doc appt and some dont take my womens program or new pts. I mean really? Oh and the program I do have covers whatever I need but the doctors office on one of them I called wanted me to have to pay $40 afterwards.

I thought I had an evap this morning but my friend said no that there was nothing there. Talk about a stab in the heart. No sign of AF and no spotting either. My cm (tmi) is white, a bit thick and stringy like snot but like I said thick......I dont know. Cm is throwing me off as well as no AF...... :-(
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Re: Looking for ttc friends!!! :)

Postby Faith702 » Mon Dec 09, 2013 6:36 pm

I'm sorry this has been so confusing...did you end up going to the doc @randapanda?
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