Skeptical and wanting to feel blessed... 22 with number 3

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Skeptical and wanting to feel blessed... 22 with number 3

Postby BabyCakes2010 » Thu Jun 02, 2011 2:54 pm

My first son was born in may of 08, my daughter in Oct of 2010. I lost my job and we had to downsize big time. We moved into a 2 bdrm 1bath quadplex with a little backyard. It is perfect for us right now. BUT now I am seriously thinking I may be pregnant. I am in school (pre-med) and way behind. I havent even told my husband because Im so afraid he will just be so stressed it will break him. He is SUCH an amazing man, he will work any job in the world and always puts us first. I am having a hard time seeing a 3rd child as a positive thing right now in our lives. Has anyone gone through this? IF i am pregnant, and Im not 100% sure right now, our kids will be 4 and 16months when the baby is born. Id love some advice and anecdotes. Thanks for reading :)

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Postby Scarlet_Nightshade » Fri Jun 03, 2011 6:18 am

Have you tested yet?

If you are PG with #3, school could still be done. It would be HARD and you would lose a lot of time with your LOs...but it could be done. Putting med school on hold until they're older would definitely be something to consider.

I personally believe that everything happens for a reason and even though it would be hard, another LO would be a blessing. Good luck!
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Postby BabyCakes2010 » Fri Jun 03, 2011 6:59 pm

I have been testing, not sure which way it is gonna go right now... Thinking im 3-6 days late for af. told my hubby today. he was a good sport lol... Just wants to make sure he he is coming to terms with the idea i think. I think we may be okay :) and who knows? IF im not pg right now, maybe we will end up trying for a 3rd in the near future ;)
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