Should I try for #3?

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Should I try for #3?

Postby Mrsdarveaux » Sun Jun 28, 2015 4:14 pm

I want #3 and my hubby doesnt. He has some valid reasons such as lack ofmoney and such. I can see his points but can't shake the desire for another.mine are 3yo and 22mo.

What made you decide to try for #3?
Did you worry you couldn't give the current 2 enough attention?

I'm trying to make the right decision and not make a selfish one.
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Re: Should I try for #3?

Postby kingh84 » Wed Jul 08, 2015 1:13 am

Maybe you could plan to revisit the idea in a few months and your hubby might feel differently? You could ask him if he will agree to discuss it again (after Christmas for example) and maybe you'll be in a better financial situation by then anyway and he will be up for it :) I know what you mean about attention as I was concerned about trying for #2 for similar reasons. I was (and still am) worried about coping with 2 and I'm worried about my ds being jealous as he is only 22 months at the mo also. How did your first cope with the arrival of your second? I hope you and dh come to a mutual decision soon that suits both of you :)
ME - 31
DH - 27
DS - 1
BFP #2 17/03/2015 (10dpo)
EDD #2 28/11/2015


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