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Postby goobermom » Mon Jan 03, 2011 6:37 pm

the sadness is really visiting me this week :( i think i put on the strong face to make it through the holidays, but now i am sad. AF came also, which is good, but also means it is back to square one....trying to conceive. it has 2 1/2 years.....i am tired. i want to be big and pregnant....i want to have a little baby of my own to hold. :cry:
Thanks for listening!
((hugs)) to all those feeling similar things!
me (34) husband (41)
son (14), spoiled cat
TTC since August '08
Clomid/IUI x3; Follistim/IUI x3
natural BFP- M/C :(
Low Vitamin D, High FSH
Letrozole, TI, progesterone, estrace- BFN (x4)
High FSH, RE recommending donor egg
End of our TTC journey???
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Postby TeacherMommy » Tue Jan 04, 2011 8:53 pm

I'm SO sorry! It's horrible, isn't it?! Sending lots of hugs your way. Just think - when it does happen, it's going to be that much sweeter! :)
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Postby goobermom » Thu Jan 06, 2011 7:47 pm

thanks!! i think i am close to O...gonna BD tonight!! :)
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son (14), spoiled cat
TTC since August '08
Clomid/IUI x3; Follistim/IUI x3
natural BFP- M/C :(
Low Vitamin D, High FSH
Letrozole, TI, progesterone, estrace- BFN (x4)
High FSH, RE recommending donor egg
End of our TTC journey???
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Postby angeevans86 » Tue Jan 11, 2011 8:06 am

Sorry for your loss, I know exactly how you feel, we lost our baby on our second wedding anniversary at 10weeks 2 days, got through th holidays ok but had a mini break down on Saturday when packing decorations up.

Just hit home that instead of storing the tree etc, we would have had the sexing scan and been decorating the nursery :cry:

It does get easier with time but I dont think the pain will go away until we all have our own little baby in our arms, but we will always remember.

I hope you get your BFP when you are ready :D
Me - 25 DH - 34 TTC #1 with PCOS since June 2009, loss @ 10 wks 1day 27/9/10 chemical December 2010 Faint BFP 9DPO 16/1/11 Natural BFP!!!
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So sorry

Postby San-Mari » Sun Mar 27, 2011 2:19 am

I am so sorry for your loss. We were ttc for a year when I fell pregnant, but miscarried on 11 weeks. Doctor told me I was only 7 weeks along, when baby died. It has been 3 years of ttc this past Jan. It has been a tiring time of emotions, but it will happen. For you, me and all the other woman that is ttc after a MC. Good luck. :hugs:
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Postby 35ttc » Sun Mar 27, 2011 6:33 am

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Postby eh_ep » Thu Mar 31, 2011 9:57 am

I'm so sorry, I'm praying for your sticky bean
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Postby goobermom » Thu Mar 31, 2011 8:11 pm

thanks!!! :) i am still trying....once again in the two week wait!!!
me (34) husband (41)
son (14), spoiled cat
TTC since August '08
Clomid/IUI x3; Follistim/IUI x3
natural BFP- M/C :(
Low Vitamin D, High FSH
Letrozole, TI, progesterone, estrace- BFN (x4)
High FSH, RE recommending donor egg
End of our TTC journey???
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Postby waitingtobemommy » Fri Apr 01, 2011 8:05 am

Hope this is your lucky month!! I have good vibes about April for you!!! :luck:
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Postby goobermom » Fri Apr 08, 2011 2:43 pm

thanks waitingtobemommy! waiting on AF...no spotting yet but a bit crampy :(
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son (14), spoiled cat
TTC since August '08
Clomid/IUI x3; Follistim/IUI x3
natural BFP- M/C :(
Low Vitamin D, High FSH
Letrozole, TI, progesterone, estrace- BFN (x4)
High FSH, RE recommending donor egg
End of our TTC journey???
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Postby Nique88 » Sat Apr 09, 2011 7:53 am

my eyes are watery cause i know how you feel it sucks so much im happy to know i can concieve now but that lost was so hard for me even though it only lasted a few weeks before it was all over with but a loss is a loss and no one understand until it happens to them! :(
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Postby goobermom » Sat Apr 09, 2011 8:02 am

nique- you are very right on a loss being a loss. when i had my miscarriage, my mother was firm with me, telling me i needed to grieve the loss of my little one. it was reassuring to hear, as i knew she "got it" as best she could without having been through it. i still consider it the loss of a child and it still brings tears some days!
(((hugs))) to you during this difficult time!
me (34) husband (41)
son (14), spoiled cat
TTC since August '08
Clomid/IUI x3; Follistim/IUI x3
natural BFP- M/C :(
Low Vitamin D, High FSH
Letrozole, TI, progesterone, estrace- BFN (x4)
High FSH, RE recommending donor egg
End of our TTC journey???
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