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I am back here. Can't believe it.

Postby Hope4two » Thu Feb 24, 2011 3:22 pm

Wow, I am still in shock. I had a miscarriage back in August '10 and it was devastating. I was 11 weeks and found out I had a blighted ovum. I was a mess and sought therapy, etc. Then a few months later decided I was ready and confident to try again. We did and we were successful. So successful we saw a heartbeat at our 7w appt. I was hesitant but chalked it up to my previous loss causing anxiety. Went back at 10w appt and baby no longer had a heartbeat. I can't believe it. I had my d & c today and I am so numb. I don't know how to feel or what to think about our future. Sad to be here again but thankful for supportive people.
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Postby goobermom » Thu Feb 24, 2011 6:35 pm

So sorry for your losses! (((hugs))) this is definitely a great site for support and finding ladies who understand!
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natural BFP- M/C :(
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Postby BuddhaBelly » Thu Feb 24, 2011 6:52 pm

So sorry for you losses :(
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Postby Desires » Thu Feb 24, 2011 9:25 pm

I am so sorry *hugs* Just think little steps right now. Take care of yourself. Take comfort in your family right now. Hopefully you will be back on track and feeling more like yourself before too long. Maybe by that point you might be up to trying again. *hugs* I'll pray for strength for you.
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Lilah ♥12.05.11♥
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Postby MommyofAlex » Fri Feb 25, 2011 7:16 am

Me (Carolyn): 43
DS (Alex): 6
DD (Olivia): 3
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Postby lisab » Fri Feb 25, 2011 2:05 pm

Oh no, I'm so sorry :( :hugs:
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Postby RachelStarFish » Mon Mar 14, 2011 12:24 pm

I hope you're feeling better
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Postby HawkeyeGirl16 » Mon Mar 14, 2011 3:06 pm

:hugs: I'm so sorry about your losses. :( This is definitely one area of the forums that it's not fun to come back to.
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Postby kraken » Fri Mar 18, 2011 4:55 pm

I had two back to back missed m/cs a couple of years ago.. very similar situation followed by a chemical pregnancy.

take as much time as you need.. chances are still quite good that you will carry to term next time. You might ask for recurrent miscarriage testing.


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