Returning to a normal cycle after m/c

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Re: Returning to a normal cycle after m/c

Postby eribear » Sun Jul 07, 2013 4:08 pm

Back from a long, fun weekend. 4-5 dpo, waiting for the TWW to end!

Any updates ladies!?!
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Re: Returning to a normal cycle after m/c

Postby radkitten » Sun Jul 07, 2013 5:39 pm

I'm probably 1 or 2 DPO right now. Doctor confirmed I would O from both sides this month on Thursday. I had a complete meltdown that ended in me using my last vacation day of the year on Friday. Doctor wanted to do an IUI on Friday, but we'd spent any money we had for that on bloodwork over the past week. So I was upset on that. Then he said to come in for a post coital Friday morning to check my mucus, and DH had major problems Friday morning from us BD'ing back to back the 2 days leading up to that. We ended up yelling at each other and I just lost it. Things were back to normal and fine again by Friday night, thank god.

Not going to get my hopes up, but I for sure O'd by Friday night or Saturday morning. So we BD all the days leading up to O, took Saturday off, then will BD tonight just to be safe. So FX.
Me (31) - Homozygous MTHFR A1298C, Endometriosis, Left Fallopian Tube removed
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First ever :bfp: 5/6/13
5-17-13 - D&C and ectopic pregnancy removal at 5w5d. Lost left fallopian tube. Right ovarian cyst removed.

Aug 2013 - 1st clomid cycle (50mg CD3-7). 5 follies, missed ovulation, timed intercourse. BFN
Nov 2013 - Jan 2014 - Follicles all on the left.
Feb 2014 - 5mg Femara CD3-7 - Cyst on left ovary, 18mm follie right ovary! Trigger 2/20, IUI 2/22 BFN
October 2014 - IVF #1. Retrieval October 22nd?


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Re: Returning to a normal cycle after m/c

Postby eribear » Mon Jul 08, 2013 4:31 pm

FX!
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Re: Returning to a normal cycle after m/c

Postby eribear » Tue Jul 09, 2013 3:02 pm

Just stopping in to vent-- just having a bad day. In-laws found out the sex of their baby, just found out an ex-friend is pg with number 2 and number 1 just turned 1. BF is due any day now. They're everywhere! And I know this, but for whatever reason it's bumming me out today. BLAH.
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Re: Returning to a normal cycle after m/c

Postby radkitten » Wed Jul 10, 2013 9:21 am

So sorry hun :(. I seem to be having a bad WEEK. *hugs*
Me (31) - Homozygous MTHFR A1298C, Endometriosis, Left Fallopian Tube removed
DH (33) - Normal
Married - 09/09/09

First ever :bfp: 5/6/13
5-17-13 - D&C and ectopic pregnancy removal at 5w5d. Lost left fallopian tube. Right ovarian cyst removed.

Aug 2013 - 1st clomid cycle (50mg CD3-7). 5 follies, missed ovulation, timed intercourse. BFN
Nov 2013 - Jan 2014 - Follicles all on the left.
Feb 2014 - 5mg Femara CD3-7 - Cyst on left ovary, 18mm follie right ovary! Trigger 2/20, IUI 2/22 BFN
October 2014 - IVF #1. Retrieval October 22nd?


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Re: Returning to a normal cycle after m/c

Postby eribear » Wed Jul 10, 2013 3:38 pm

how's your week going? today was a lot better fo rme. thank goodness!!!
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Re: Returning to a normal cycle after m/c

Postby radkitten » Fri Jul 12, 2013 11:28 am

Mine is crawling by sadly =(. Always does in the TWW. I am 6 or 7 DPO right now and already climbing the walls wanting to test. I'm never usually a symptom spotter, but I have been cramping since O, and now my right nipple is getting tender when erect, and I am feeling full. Could be nasty AF symptoms or O symptoms, who knows. I just want it to be 10+ DPO so I would feel better about POAS =(. I told my DH I was gonna POAS on Sunday since I would be 8 or 9 DPO then, but I know that is still too early >.<
Me (31) - Homozygous MTHFR A1298C, Endometriosis, Left Fallopian Tube removed
DH (33) - Normal
Married - 09/09/09

First ever :bfp: 5/6/13
5-17-13 - D&C and ectopic pregnancy removal at 5w5d. Lost left fallopian tube. Right ovarian cyst removed.

Aug 2013 - 1st clomid cycle (50mg CD3-7). 5 follies, missed ovulation, timed intercourse. BFN
Nov 2013 - Jan 2014 - Follicles all on the left.
Feb 2014 - 5mg Femara CD3-7 - Cyst on left ovary, 18mm follie right ovary! Trigger 2/20, IUI 2/22 BFN
October 2014 - IVF #1. Retrieval October 22nd?


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Re: Returning to a normal cycle after m/c

Postby eribear » Fri Jul 12, 2013 12:59 pm

I'm hoping to wait until Sunday (AF due based on usual cycle) but might cave tomorrow. My temp dipped a bit this AM but I also woke up in the middle of the night with no blankets on!!

I am super exhausted today- busy day at work, but it's ridiculous! Have a sore throat today, too and still lots of creamy/lotiony/EW/stretchy CM. Hoping for the best!!!

Good luck holding out!!!
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Re: Returning to a normal cycle after m/c

Postby radkitten » Fri Jul 12, 2013 1:28 pm

I will keep my FX for you!
Me (31) - Homozygous MTHFR A1298C, Endometriosis, Left Fallopian Tube removed
DH (33) - Normal
Married - 09/09/09

First ever :bfp: 5/6/13
5-17-13 - D&C and ectopic pregnancy removal at 5w5d. Lost left fallopian tube. Right ovarian cyst removed.

Aug 2013 - 1st clomid cycle (50mg CD3-7). 5 follies, missed ovulation, timed intercourse. BFN
Nov 2013 - Jan 2014 - Follicles all on the left.
Feb 2014 - 5mg Femara CD3-7 - Cyst on left ovary, 18mm follie right ovary! Trigger 2/20, IUI 2/22 BFN
October 2014 - IVF #1. Retrieval October 22nd?


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Re: Returning to a normal cycle after m/c

Postby eribear » Thu Jul 18, 2013 8:33 am

How goes it RK?

Blah. No BFP here- AF came and is killing me right now.

I feel like things are just going in circles-- waiting to try to get pregnant, waiting to find out if I am, starting all over again when I'm not, and it's exhausting. And what sucks even more is DH doesn't get it- he thinks I'm getting too upset and shouldn't, that we haven't really tried yet. I don't care how long we have or haven't been trying, we had it once and I want it back. Because now every time we're not pregnant I think about where our lil baby would be now- heart beat, sonograms, gender reveal, all that stuff.

We're going to our nephew's birthday next weekend (out of town) and I'm already having anxiety over it. The entire family knows what happened (good job, DH) and I really don't want to deal with it. So help me if anyone brings it up or asks when we are having kids. Not to mention it is the weekend we planned on telling everyone we were having a baby, so I can't help but think of that.
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Re: Returning to a normal cycle after m/c

Postby radkitten » Thu Jul 18, 2013 3:18 pm

CD 1 today for me. I had an appointment for BW that was supposed to be 2-3 days from today, but the past 2 months I have had horrible cramping ever since my surgery from ) onward till AF and he brushed me off. No ultrasound, just BW and a consult office visit where he basically told me absolutely nothing. Won't pinpoint a diagnosis, won't tell me what my chances are with IUI as opposed to IVF, etc. So I made an appointment for the 30th with a different RE because I'm sick to death of waiting around. It took me 7 years to have a BFP and I didn't get to keep that baby and I think I deserve someone to tell me why.
Me (31) - Homozygous MTHFR A1298C, Endometriosis, Left Fallopian Tube removed
DH (33) - Normal
Married - 09/09/09

First ever :bfp: 5/6/13
5-17-13 - D&C and ectopic pregnancy removal at 5w5d. Lost left fallopian tube. Right ovarian cyst removed.

Aug 2013 - 1st clomid cycle (50mg CD3-7). 5 follies, missed ovulation, timed intercourse. BFN
Nov 2013 - Jan 2014 - Follicles all on the left.
Feb 2014 - 5mg Femara CD3-7 - Cyst on left ovary, 18mm follie right ovary! Trigger 2/20, IUI 2/22 BFN
October 2014 - IVF #1. Retrieval October 22nd?


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Re: Returning to a normal cycle after m/c

Postby eribear » Thu Jul 18, 2013 4:44 pm

you definitely do. best of luck with finding and seeing a new doctor. i just feel like doctors are being densensitized to the emotional side of all of this....
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Re: Returning to a normal cycle after m/c

Postby radkitten » Thu Jul 18, 2013 5:02 pm

I'm sure they are, which I get. But I need to have a real gameplan since this isn't covered by my insurance and I don't just have $3000 laying around. I was damn near devastated that I couldn't afford the $250 for an IUI this month after paying $350 out of pocket for bloodwork and HSG supplies.
Me (31) - Homozygous MTHFR A1298C, Endometriosis, Left Fallopian Tube removed
DH (33) - Normal
Married - 09/09/09

First ever :bfp: 5/6/13
5-17-13 - D&C and ectopic pregnancy removal at 5w5d. Lost left fallopian tube. Right ovarian cyst removed.

Aug 2013 - 1st clomid cycle (50mg CD3-7). 5 follies, missed ovulation, timed intercourse. BFN
Nov 2013 - Jan 2014 - Follicles all on the left.
Feb 2014 - 5mg Femara CD3-7 - Cyst on left ovary, 18mm follie right ovary! Trigger 2/20, IUI 2/22 BFN
October 2014 - IVF #1. Retrieval October 22nd?


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Re: Returning to a normal cycle after m/c

Postby pjju » Mon Sep 30, 2013 5:18 pm

Hi guys I hope you dont mind if I join in >.<. I had a m/c in April and spotted for 3 months like everyday after it. I got myself back on nuva ring for 2 months (which made me break out realllly bad) and then 1 month on Ocella b/c pills. Well. I just got back OFF my b/c pills after I finished that pack and me n my hubby are TTC again. I am hoping that my periods will return back to normal again. this is my 11th day off the pill and my right ovary is hurting every now and then and I keep getting headaches. I am sure it is just my hormones trying to get back in sync w/o birth control, but I wish I was ovulating this early! :p

I think that if yall are having are hard time starting your periods again, maybe go to the doctor and ask if they can prescribe you provera? Thats how I got pregnant. I took provera b/c I wasn't having periods for like months and took the provera and got pregnant.
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