Sex after MC

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Sex after MC

Postby TurtleMommaTB » Sat Jun 15, 2013 11:33 am

I was just wondering about everyone's experience with sex after miscarriage. From the major discomfort I felt while bleeding I am nervous about possible pain. Plus, I think there is a part of me that is scared to get pregnant again and experience another loss. Any experience and/or advice would be appreciated. Thanks so much.
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Re: Sex after MC

Postby jazlynn4/28 » Fri Jun 21, 2013 9:01 pm

Sorry for your loss.
my dh and I didn't bd for at least a week after mc. I felt no pain. if you are worried about getting pg again I would use birth contr until you are emotionally ready for more.

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Re: Sex after MC

Postby care327 » Tue Jun 25, 2013 7:30 am

i think we waited about 2-3 weeks after my mc. mainly because i was still bleeding/spotting n i just didnt feel comfortable.
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Re: Sex after MC

Postby mexicanchick718 » Thu Aug 01, 2013 2:46 pm

I had my m/c on 7/11/13 and we just had sex for the first time in who knows how long last night. I was so nervous but it was fine. I was put on pelvic rest from the beginning of my pregnancy.
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