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Re: No heartbeat

Postby prayers12 » Wed Sep 18, 2013 6:39 am

He just wants to make sure that everything is back to normal I guess. My husband is going strictly by the doctors so I guess we will be waiting. I'm just sick and tired of waiting while everyone else is having their kids.
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Re: No heartbeat

Postby mexicanchick718 » Wed Sep 18, 2013 8:25 am

Ay prayers..i totally feel your frustration. They told me to wait one cycle and i did but wouldnt have if had known what the hell my body was doing. After the m/c things are a bit different. I had a natural m/c though, not d&c. DH was almost scared to come near me after the whole m/c since he saw the blood and pain I was going through. For two weeks he actually said forget it were adopting. I finally convinced him for us to try again. We will more than happy with having one and adopting another.

All i can say is try to stay strong. There were days id come home from work and have oj and vodka to help me forget what happened. I know that's bad but I was drowning in my own emotions. I was angry, sad and all the above. Im still a bit angry since I look around at all those women who have kids and dont care about them. Whats worse is seeing a pregnant lady smoking and drinking. I actually confronted a lady (stranger) not to long ago and told her what a POC she was and she should be ashamed of herself.
Me: 26 DH: 28
IUD removed: 9/12/12
BFP 5/28/2013
:angel: @ 9wks on 7/11/13
BFP#2 9/23/2013

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Re: No heartbeat

Postby prayers12 » Fri Sep 20, 2013 12:06 pm

Thank you mexicanchick718. I still find myself fighting the emotions. I know that the hurt will never really go away, but I'm tired of being angry, hurt, sad, and frustrated. Like you, I see several women with children or pregnant that don't care about them or all they do is complain about their kids and how they don;t have a life anymore. I have a friend that is do any day and all she has done is complain about being in pain. I understand that it's uncomfortable, but what she doesn't realize is that I would give anything to change places with her and have a baby. What I would give to be pregnant and knowing that I would see his or her face anyday would be a dream come true.
Sorry for the rant. Right now, it just gets my last nerve going and makes me so angry with them.
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