don't lose hope

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Re: don't lose hope

Postby ekkotack » Wed Jun 18, 2014 5:38 am

gosh i see both those lines! I really hope AF stays away.....
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Re: don't lose hope

Postby Happyfroggy » Wed Jun 18, 2014 10:48 am

...stalking for bfps...

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Re: don't lose hope

Postby LadycatZ » Thu Jun 19, 2014 8:29 pm

Rhonda, I'm sorry. I never thought TTC would be such a controlling factor in my life. I completely understand and sympathize with what you're going through.

BichonFrise I did not take baby asprin or progesterone. My levels were good so we did not think it was necessary but next time I will ask for it for sure. I'm pretty sure I'm losing the babies due to chromosomal issues.

Im on a mission to boost my egg quality- i believe its possible from all the reading ive been doing. My current sups include, wheatgrass, co-q10, folic acid, prenatal, dhea(10mg), vit e, vit c, vit b complex, spurilina, maca (every other day), I think that's it...

I'm also exercising regularly and gave myself a uterine massage tonight. Kinda strange, I started crying huge tears and sobbing when close to the right ovary. Something is happening- hopefully deep healing and blood flow.

Happy, lurk away! Hopefully I'll have a sticky one here soon! Cleaning out the cobwebs and doing all I can to rejuvenate my eggs. Recently read to jump rope 300xs pre-ovulation. My DH said, ok that's just too much...but seriously,why not! Im going to do it!
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DH - 43
DD - 3
TTC #2 since April 2013. With AEB center since march 2015, autoimmune issues, TTC on hold until Sept/Oct 2015 while undergoing immune treatments for elevated killer cells and clotting disorders.

6 CPs July, 2014 - June, 2015
Angel - natural MMC at 11 weeks 6/4/14, cause unknown
Boy Angel - natural MMC at 12.5 weeks 1/18/14 trisomy 21
Boy Angel - d&c, MMC at 13 weeks 7/31/13 trisomy 13
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Re: don't lose hope

Postby Rhondalynn77 » Thu Jun 19, 2014 10:39 pm

ana, what does an uterine massage entail? I have been having the WORST cramps with this af. last time it wasnt bad, but i definitely have noticed changes since my m/c. I have ovulation spotting, and i feel like i can feel everything that is going on down there. Where before i never noticed.

I truly thought i was pregnant this month. I guess i have been more optimistic since m/c. I almost feel like we are starting to ttc all over, if you know what i mean. Its been a while since i have been discouraged with ttc since i was preg in january. Now i feel like its the beginning again, although i feel much more experienced, i was super excited to think that i was preg, then a HUGE let down when af came at at 11dpo. I guess i thought that since i oed 5-7 days earlier that my cycles were regulating and i would have a normal lp. i think that is what made me more depressed after i figured i was only seeing indents on my tests, i knew i wasnt preg, but i expected to have a longer than 10 day lp... im not sure if i should go back on vitex or not, as i am on metformin. I also am taking bcomplex, prenatals, vit d, magnesium, calcium, baby asprine and iron. i acutally bawled when dh came home late on tuesday, I had made dinner (i dont very often) and he was late and af hit... not my best day. I was less upset with dh being late than af coming and short lp, sorry if i sound like a broke record. I also had an awesome chart... :/ oh well, on to the next. praying i ovulate cd 15 like last month.
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DH: 38, Brian
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:angel: early m/c May 23, '14
BFP: Feb 9, 2014 :angel: m/c Ap '14
:angel: early m/c 2/12
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PCOS 1500mg Met. Male Factor: 1% Morph prob due to type 1 diabetes

Nov 4 100mg Clomid (1 egg)-BFN
Dec 14 100mg Clo (1) and IUI-BFN
Jan 15 100mg Clo (1) and IUI- BFN
Feb 15 150mg Clo (2) and IUI- BFN
March 15 delay:cyst. Bravelle (FSH) Inj Cancelled: Cyst
April 15-Natural: BFP!!!
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Re: don't lose hope

Postby BichonFrise » Fri Jun 20, 2014 9:59 am

Ana, I also think that my 2 previous losses are chromosonal. I also massaged my uterus after my 2nd MC and I was told by my yoga teacher to do inversion everyday. Google inversion for fertility. This will help the blood flow to your uterus. I did it every day up to 3 DPO. I am not sure if it helps or not but my egg seems good so far. Best of luck!

Rhonda, still pulling and stalking for you. I am sure it will come soon Rhonda but I know how you feel. *hugs*
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BFP #1: 10/01/2013 MC: 10/15/2013 (7 weeks)
BFP #2: 12/24/2013 MC: 01/01/2014 (5 weeks 1 day)
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Re: don't lose hope

Postby LadycatZ » Sun Jun 29, 2014 7:22 pm

Well believe it or not we are cautiously expecting again. We were super safe 2 out of 3 times we had sex the past few weeks and last Friday must've been O! It was sweet spontaneous sex and I realized later I even had a hickey! I assume I am anywhere bt 8-10 dpo. My symptoms are more in line with what I felt with my DD so that is comforting.

Rhonda, I looked up uterine massage and found some Mayan PDF doc I followed. Google uterine massage, I bet something comes up.

Grateful I didn't have to do the 300 jump ropes!

I am nervous as heck though and don't even want to go to OB until 10 weeks! I'm taking baby asprin for hell of it. God I hope this is my rainbow...staying hopeful!
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DH - 43
DD - 3
TTC #2 since April 2013. With AEB center since march 2015, autoimmune issues, TTC on hold until Sept/Oct 2015 while undergoing immune treatments for elevated killer cells and clotting disorders.

6 CPs July, 2014 - June, 2015
Angel - natural MMC at 11 weeks 6/4/14, cause unknown
Boy Angel - natural MMC at 12.5 weeks 1/18/14 trisomy 21
Boy Angel - d&c, MMC at 13 weeks 7/31/13 trisomy 13
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Re: don't lose hope

Postby Rhondalynn77 » Sun Jun 29, 2014 9:14 pm

:happyforyou: :happyforyou: :happyforyou: :happyforyou: :happyforyou: :happyforyou:
Ana, I am so happy for your. Praying that everything is normal and sticky! and perfect chromosomes :D :D :ptl: :ptl: :praying: :praying: :praying:
Me: 37, Rhonda
DH: 38, Brian
DS: 6, Elijah
:angel: early m/c May 23, '14
BFP: Feb 9, 2014 :angel: m/c Ap '14
:angel: early m/c 2/12
TTC since June '13

PCOS 1500mg Met. Male Factor: 1% Morph prob due to type 1 diabetes

Nov 4 100mg Clomid (1 egg)-BFN
Dec 14 100mg Clo (1) and IUI-BFN
Jan 15 100mg Clo (1) and IUI- BFN
Feb 15 150mg Clo (2) and IUI- BFN
March 15 delay:cyst. Bravelle (FSH) Inj Cancelled: Cyst
April 15-Natural: BFP!!!
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Re: don't lose hope

Postby mountainbaby » Mon Jun 30, 2014 9:53 am

:yay:

So happy for you Lady. Hoping this is your sticky bean.
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BFP - Feb 2014, Natural MC 18 March, 8 weeks, 4 days.

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Re: don't lose hope

Postby BichonFrise » Mon Jun 30, 2014 7:07 pm

:happyforyou: :sticky: :sticky:

So happy for you. Wish you a happy & healthy 9 months, a lot of sticky vibes. Please baby, stick!
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TTC #1 since June 2013. Married for 10 years.

BFP #1: 10/01/2013 MC: 10/15/2013 (7 weeks)
BFP #2: 12/24/2013 MC: 01/01/2014 (5 weeks 1 day)
BFP #3: 02/08/2014 Ethan was born 6 lbs 9 Oz on Oct 17th, 2014.

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Re: don't lose hope

Postby LadycatZ » Mon Jun 30, 2014 8:17 pm

Thank you ladies! I feel really positive about things this time! Maybe bc it was spontaneous good sex or maybe bc my sumptoms are more like they were with my DD? Not sure, probably both!

Going for my bloods tmrw and Thursday...
Ana (me) - 37
DH - 43
DD - 3
TTC #2 since April 2013. With AEB center since march 2015, autoimmune issues, TTC on hold until Sept/Oct 2015 while undergoing immune treatments for elevated killer cells and clotting disorders.

6 CPs July, 2014 - June, 2015
Angel - natural MMC at 11 weeks 6/4/14, cause unknown
Boy Angel - natural MMC at 12.5 weeks 1/18/14 trisomy 21
Boy Angel - d&c, MMC at 13 weeks 7/31/13 trisomy 13
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Re: don't lose hope

Postby LadycatZ » Wed Jul 09, 2014 9:24 pm

Well, it turned out to be a chemical pregnancy. Started bleeding a week ago and still waiting for hcg to get to zero. Saw an RE Monday and had a bunch of tests run. My guess is that my lining wasn't thick enough to support the pregnancy coming off of my previous miscarriage. I'm giving myself an off month to have a full mestral cycle and then I'll be back at it bc I will not give up!! I will hold my rainbow!
Ana (me) - 37
DH - 43
DD - 3
TTC #2 since April 2013. With AEB center since march 2015, autoimmune issues, TTC on hold until Sept/Oct 2015 while undergoing immune treatments for elevated killer cells and clotting disorders.

6 CPs July, 2014 - June, 2015
Angel - natural MMC at 11 weeks 6/4/14, cause unknown
Boy Angel - natural MMC at 12.5 weeks 1/18/14 trisomy 21
Boy Angel - d&c, MMC at 13 weeks 7/31/13 trisomy 13
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Re: don't lose hope

Postby B Michaelson » Mon Jul 14, 2014 2:28 pm

Aww damn, sorry Ana. You are such a toughie, I love it! I hope your tests give you some answers and I have no doubt you will get your rainbow!!

Hugs hugs hugs xxx
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TTC #1 Aug 2012 - May 2014
DS - Born Jan 2015
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May 2017 :bfp:

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Oct 2013 - 6w6d ruptured ectopic
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Re: don't lose hope

Postby BichonFrise » Wed Jul 16, 2014 12:19 pm

Hi Ana. I am so sorry. Count me as your believer that you will have your rainbow baby soon. Please take care and have a lot of rest. I am rooting for you.
Me (39) DH (41)

TTC #1 since June 2013. Married for 10 years.

BFP #1: 10/01/2013 MC: 10/15/2013 (7 weeks)
BFP #2: 12/24/2013 MC: 01/01/2014 (5 weeks 1 day)
BFP #3: 02/08/2014 Ethan was born 6 lbs 9 Oz on Oct 17th, 2014.

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Re: don't lose hope

Postby LadycatZ » Thu Jul 17, 2014 8:24 pm

Thank you both. Kinda interesting to go through ovulation and start TWW knowing there is no way I'm pg (we didn't have sex once). It's really different and probably much needed. I will keep updating, I'm going to try again next cycle. So far nothing interesting from RE except to just keep trying.
Ana (me) - 37
DH - 43
DD - 3
TTC #2 since April 2013. With AEB center since march 2015, autoimmune issues, TTC on hold until Sept/Oct 2015 while undergoing immune treatments for elevated killer cells and clotting disorders.

6 CPs July, 2014 - June, 2015
Angel - natural MMC at 11 weeks 6/4/14, cause unknown
Boy Angel - natural MMC at 12.5 weeks 1/18/14 trisomy 21
Boy Angel - d&c, MMC at 13 weeks 7/31/13 trisomy 13
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Re: don't lose hope

Postby Rhondalynn77 » Thu Jul 17, 2014 8:40 pm

Ana, how long are you waiting, just one cycle or longer?
Me: 37, Rhonda
DH: 38, Brian
DS: 6, Elijah
:angel: early m/c May 23, '14
BFP: Feb 9, 2014 :angel: m/c Ap '14
:angel: early m/c 2/12
TTC since June '13

PCOS 1500mg Met. Male Factor: 1% Morph prob due to type 1 diabetes

Nov 4 100mg Clomid (1 egg)-BFN
Dec 14 100mg Clo (1) and IUI-BFN
Jan 15 100mg Clo (1) and IUI- BFN
Feb 15 150mg Clo (2) and IUI- BFN
March 15 delay:cyst. Bravelle (FSH) Inj Cancelled: Cyst
April 15-Natural: BFP!!!
TEAM PINK!!

"Delight yourself also in the Lord,
And He shall give you the desires of your heart."
Psalm 37:4


"Trust in the Lord with all your heart,
And lean not on your own understanding;
In all your ways acknowledge Him,
And He shall direct your paths."
Proverbs 3:5&6


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