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Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Ladybug&babybugs » Mon Dec 02, 2013 1:59 pm

I'm starting my third cycle since my miscarriage in September. Last month I did SMEP but I think I misinterpreted when my actual ovulation was. I guess I thought that I would for sure have a bfp by now. I read so many stories about how easy it is to get pregnant after a miscarriage. I'm disappointed and frustrated. If I hadn't lost my baby I would be far enough song by now to find out the gender. I need a little pep talk. Anyone in a similar situation who went on to get a bfp? Anyone get one using sperm meets egg? :(
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby B Michaelson » Mon Dec 02, 2013 5:19 pm

Sorry for your loss Ladybug.

I am only on cycle 2 since my ectopic so we haven't TTC again yet, but I have also heard of many women who get pg right away.

I hope you get a bfp soon! Sending good thoughts your way.
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Babybear16 » Mon Dec 02, 2013 5:19 pm

hi Hun I read your post and I'm so sorry for your loss... I also had a loss in September to and last month I would of Been able to find out what we were gonna have.. after surgery 30 days to be exact I had a normal period lasting 7 days and figured well crap maybe next month... well this month came and when I was suppose to get my period I only had light pink spotting! urgh figured ok af is on the way but never had this happen before.. so as the days went on nothing! only twinges bloating and some nausea it's now been 7 days and no sign of af coming period I've tested earlier this week day after thanksgiving and neg! my frustration went through the roof! I can't tell you I got a positive or that's what I think cuz I don't but husband does... but I understand your frustration about all of it!!! what cycle day are you or dpo? I'm 22dpo and 7 days late :( to scared to test
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Ladybug&babybugs » Tue Dec 03, 2013 12:25 am

Thanks B Michaelson, I hope we all do! Babybear, I feel ya, I was three days late for af and kept getting negatives but hoping it would turn into a positive. AF came on the 29th so I guess that makes it CD 5 for me. I hope you get a bfp! It's sad thinking of the ones we lost. Where we would be with them today. I don't think I have even properly grieved about it. Not sure I know how :( All I know is I want my BFP! I'm so hoping to get it for Christmas!
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Babybear16 » Tue Dec 03, 2013 11:02 am

me to! I had some light brown spotting again lastnight but nothing since... and ya I totally understand I still haven't fully grieved my angel babe like u said I think most of it is I don't know how to... my dh swears up am down we are again but I don't believe it... I'm thinking about testing tomorrow and then making a appt with dr to figure out what's up....
I get nausea headaches tiredness sometimes Metallic taste and watery mouth but I think it's due to other hormones I PRAY WE ALL GET OUR BFP FOR CHRISTMAS!!!! babydust to us all and sticky vibes
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby B Michaelson » Tue Dec 03, 2013 3:21 pm

Sometimes I feel like I got over it too quickly to really greive but I am not sure. It's a strange thing to have happen and I am not sure I know how to process it at all sometimes.
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Babybear16 » Tue Dec 03, 2013 4:08 pm

totally understand I don't think anyone really knows how to deal with it but u just gotta take one day at a time ya know af is on her way I think :(
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby B Michaelson » Tue Dec 03, 2013 4:20 pm

:(. Sorry bear.
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Babybear16 » Tue Dec 03, 2013 5:18 pm

well today is cycle day 1 thank goddess I'm sad in a sense but feel so relived that everything is some what normal and we can start trying again this month! I was at 40 days with no af I was getting worried :( well here's to December bfp!!!! come ladies we can do this!
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby B Michaelson » Tue Dec 03, 2013 5:25 pm

It's a relief when things finally start moving along.

Can't wait for those bfp's!
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Babybear16 » Tue Dec 03, 2013 5:34 pm

me either!!! ladybugs, how are you anything new? finally got af after a 40day cycle! here's to us ladies getting our bfp!!!! ill be praying and sending babydust everyone's way!
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby B Michaelson » Tue Dec 03, 2013 9:37 pm

Later the same day as my first post we got the clear from the surgeon to ttc again, so I will be trying along with you ladies.

Also sending lots of dust in hopes none of us have to try much longer.
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Ladybug&babybugs » Tue Dec 03, 2013 11:14 pm

I'm so glad we will be on this journey together! You have all been so supportive and kind to me. B Michaelson I'm glad you got the go ahead to join us this month. Sorry you got AF babybear :( Here's hoping for some bright pink BFP's for Christmas this year!!! It's good to have some buddies on here who know what its like to miscarry. I think talking about it with all of you will help me move on in a healthy way.
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby B Michaelson » Tue Dec 03, 2013 11:42 pm

It definately helped me to have people on here who understood. Part of me thinks thats maybe why it was easier. Also my sister had gone through a recent loss as well so I had a lot of support from my family.

But I don't discount the immense amount of support I get on here. It's nice to have people to share the journey with. DH doesn't get nearly as excited over a pos opk as we do, so everytime I have good news I come running here lol.
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Babybear16 » Wed Dec 04, 2013 9:53 am

hey ladies,
thanks for all the support and it's nice to be able to support others to! maybe our sticky vibes and babydust wear off on each other and we can see some pinks lines! I've gotta get opks cuz I'm not sure when ill ovulate this month since af was all weird this cycle I've got my fingers and toes crossed tho that we all get pink lines! I'm glad you got the go ahead on trying again that's great news! I hope gods got something planned for us the new year... maybe a belly ;)... I would of been 10 weeks when we lost our longed for angel but everything happens for a reason is my motto, well ladies keep in touch! and soon enough we'll be back in the tww again!!!!
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