Third cycle after miscarriage

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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Ladybug&babybugs » Wed Dec 04, 2013 7:14 pm

Good luck to us all!
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Babybear16 » Sun Dec 08, 2013 11:46 am

it's been a little bit over 2 months for us since mc and I'm the same way all I can think about is how to get pregnant again :( we've been trying so hard but everything happens for a reason is my motto... we're getting married August 26th and I'm praying god will give me my belly soon! we're all strong women! and no matter what life throws at us we will over come it! sometimes I can't help but think it was my fault in some ways but then I think I'm sadly happy about it.... what if something would of been wrong at birth or he/she would of suffered their whole life I wouldn't want that for my angel nor anyone else to have to over come that fact.... I praise and am so proud of the parents who handle that who understand what it's like to be going through that those are strong women! I pray everyday all of ladies get our bfp! I check daily to see if anyone has been blessed! ladies I admire you all we've had our hearts broken and had to over come our own tragedies but yet we've found comfort in all of our sorrows and ways to help each other cope with things and what life has thrown at us! ladies I love you all and you ladies are the best therapeutic,understanding,caring women I have come across but yet we've never seen never meet and probably never will with each other... it takes a women and courage to share our stories with random strangers across the world! I'm happy to have you ladies! here's to the new year and our surprise bellies! keep in contact!
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby B Michaelson » Sun Dec 08, 2013 12:47 pm

Bluebell, I know how you feel. I try not to blame myself but it's hard not to think "what did I do wrong?". My mom keeps telling me it won't change anything and move on, but now I am worried I will mess up the next one.

It's especially hard because I know the baby was probably just fine but it was my body that failed it. But the good news is we can still try. I talked to my best friend yesterday and her mom had an ectopic at 19 and they took out everything. She was left with no option but to adopt. I can't imagine how difficult that must have been for her, so I feel very lucky.

Bear, you said it all so well. There is such amazing support here and to be able to talk to people who understand and root for each other each month is invaluable. Before the internet it must have been a very lonely place for some ladies (like my friends mom). I suppose none of us really knows what we can handle till it happens.

I really do hope to see many bfps soon from a lot of people on here. But bfp or not I feel lucky to have you all here on this journey with me :)
Me - 36
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DS - Born Jan 2015
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Ladybug&babybugs » Sun Dec 08, 2013 11:38 pm

I just love all the support and encouragement we are giving each other. It's so great to have each other!
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Babybear16 » Mon Dec 09, 2013 12:57 am

I'm glad we can all help ladies! love ya all and babydust to everyone! I pray we all get bfp!!!!
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby B Michaelson » Mon Dec 09, 2013 4:42 am

Where is everyone in their cycle now?
Me - 36
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DS - Born Jan 2015
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Babybear16 » Mon Dec 09, 2013 10:01 am

I'm on cycle day 7 hopefully af will be ending today!!!! :)
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Ladybug&babybugs » Tue Dec 10, 2013 12:58 am

Cycle day 12 for me. Bding eod and taking ovulation tests. So far negative. Will just have to wait.
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby GWTW » Tue Dec 10, 2013 8:15 am

Cycle day 8 for me...but I have a long LP so not expecting AF until Dec 20th (though it's my second cycle after a m/c so who knows what my body will decide to do...). I won't test until I am late so Dec 21st I will test if AF doesn't show. Seems like such a long way away!
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby B Michaelson » Tue Dec 10, 2013 8:55 am

Wow you guys are all close in cd's. I am cd23/7dpo. Just playing the waiting game.

Can't wait to see some pos opk's!!
Me - 36
Hashimotos, JHS/EDS, ANA negative, 1 Fallopian tube
DH - 41
TTC #1 Aug 2012 - May 2014
DS - Born Jan 2015
TTC #2 since Aug 2016
May 2017 :bfp:

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Oct 2013 - 6w6d ruptured ectopic
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby GWTW » Tue Dec 10, 2013 9:48 am

Oops! I meant to say 8 DPO for me it's actually CD 21 not Cycle day 8 :) So B Michaelson, I am very close to your dates! I am also impatiently waiting lol
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby B Michaelson » Tue Dec 10, 2013 1:24 pm

LOL. Ok so we are half and half.
Me - 36
Hashimotos, JHS/EDS, ANA negative, 1 Fallopian tube
DH - 41
TTC #1 Aug 2012 - May 2014
DS - Born Jan 2015
TTC #2 since Aug 2016
May 2017 :bfp:

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2004 - 7.5 weeks
Oct 2013 - 6w6d ruptured ectopic
Jan 2014 - Chemical

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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Ladybug&babybugs » Tue Dec 10, 2013 8:35 pm

Still no positive opk. Starting to get more stretchy mucous but not quite ewcm. I guess I'll have to wait.
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Babybear16 » Tue Dec 10, 2013 10:19 pm

well ladies af is still here :( cramping so bad not sure what's going on with my cycle I hope it'll end soon! I want to start my 2 weeks wait! wait for me ladies!! lol
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby B Michaelson » Tue Dec 10, 2013 10:25 pm

We will wait for you!! lol

Sorry about the cramps bear.

Ladybug, when do you normally O? You think you might in a few days?

GWTW, have you tested yet? I totally caved. Not sure why because I always know it will be a bfn this early. It's way too early. So hard to resist though.
Me - 36
Hashimotos, JHS/EDS, ANA negative, 1 Fallopian tube
DH - 41
TTC #1 Aug 2012 - May 2014
DS - Born Jan 2015
TTC #2 since Aug 2016
May 2017 :bfp:

:angel: Our Angels :angel:
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Oct 2013 - 6w6d ruptured ectopic
Jan 2014 - Chemical

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