Third cycle after miscarriage

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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby GWTW » Wed Dec 11, 2013 8:33 am

No testing for me! I had a few months of thinking I was preggers and all BFN, so I will only test when AF is late which is 17 DPO!
When I did get my BFP, I tested at 18 DPO which I realize is a long time to test. Damn long LP! But on teh plus side, it wasn't a squinter...it was darker than the control at that point and came up instantly.

I just find it too stressful and disappointing when I get BFN...and then I start to reason how it could still turn into a positive (maybe tested too early) only to be disappointed again with AF....
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby B Michaelson » Wed Dec 11, 2013 9:15 am

I was thinking the same thing. I can handle the BFNs because I expect them, but the squinter will freak me out again, I am sure. I think part of me feels like I need to see it get dark so I can tell if there might be a problem.

I suppose it had been a miscarriage maybe this fear wouldn't be as prominent. Before my bfp I was so afraid of an EP and losing my tube but I never thought it would actually happen. I think I have pretty much convinced myself there will be another battle.

Plus I have a crapload of tests hanging around lol.
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Babybear16 » Wed Dec 11, 2013 11:23 am

well ladies af ended early this morning I guess she left with a Big Bang! we finally bd... thank goodness I was gonna go insane lol sry tmi! well ladies so excited to began my 2 ww gotta get some opks tho! hopefully this is our month!
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Ladybug&babybugs » Wed Dec 11, 2013 10:21 pm

CD 13 and no ovulation yet. My cycles have been long since the mc around 35 days. According to an online predictor I'll ovulate the 20th next week. Seems forever to wait.
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Babybear16 » Wed Dec 11, 2013 10:25 pm

hey I'm suppose to ovulate the 19th maybe we'll get lucky n ovulate the same day :) can't wait ladies so excited!!!!
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Ladybug&babybugs » Wed Dec 11, 2013 10:27 pm

Would be so cool if we both get our bfp's!!
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Babybear16 » Thu Dec 12, 2013 2:46 am

I know!!! lol we've been bding like crazy... we're at the ntnp mode so it's takin some of the stress off of us and let me jus say since then (cuz we decided last month) it's been amazing lol tmi ik but damn I'm thinking maybe we should of done the ntnp mode awhile ago lol :).....it's reconnecting me and dh and why we fell in love and besides he more prone to wanting to bd more so a benifit for both of us! I'm so praying this is our month! I really hope to see alot of us getting our bfp! I'm so ready for it to happen!!!!!
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby B Michaelson » Thu Dec 12, 2013 6:30 pm

That is awesome bear! I have a good feeling for you!

Some months DH and I are really able to connect but others we are both just tired. We keep timing and tracking but in Sept it was our 1 yr anniversary so I skipped temping and only used a couple opks. We knew I would O during our vacation so we just enjoyed it and BD a lot. That was my bfp month. I hope you have the same kind of luck with ntnp! It would be wonderful to see a bfp!
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Babybear16 » Thu Dec 12, 2013 6:35 pm

I pray we all get our bfp! I just want more then anything to give our little girl a baby bro/sis.... we're not going to use opks or anything this month just gonna pray that this is out month and were given the best gift of all! ladies good luck to us! keep in contact it's keeping me sane! lol
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Ladybug&babybugs » Thu Dec 12, 2013 11:59 pm

CD 14 today and I may have gotten a positive ovulation test. I'm using dollar store brand and until today was only getting very faint test lines. Today the line was almost as dark as the control. Not sure if that's a positive because it says the line must be as dark or darker than the control. We BDed and I'll test again tomorrow. We shall see! Good luck to us all! Babybear I conceived my second child the same way you are describing. Not preventing, not trying. Got my bfp after only 4 mos. First baby was a year and a half of really trying. Number three we tried for eight months. Finally on month seven I tried Lydia Pinkham and conceived that month. Number for was my first miscarriage just this post September. Hoping SMEP gives me a bfp for Christmas!
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Babybear16 » Mon Dec 16, 2013 1:22 am

how's all my ladies doing?!
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby B Michaelson » Mon Dec 16, 2013 5:28 am

Just waiting for AF. A couple days to go.
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Babybear16 » Mon Dec 16, 2013 10:40 am

stay away af! stay away lol
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby B Michaelson » Mon Dec 16, 2013 8:09 pm

How r u bear?
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Babybear16 » Mon Dec 16, 2013 9:44 pm

doing great bding like crazy got a good feeling this month! how are you? any news? I hope we all get bfp!
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