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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Ladybug&babybugs » Mon Dec 16, 2013 10:59 pm

How are all you ladies doing? I hope your holiday season is going great! I think I for sure ovulated today. We BD'd every day for the last 4 days. Tried tonight but hubby was tired and couldn't finish. I hope that dosen't affect our chances. Will probably try again tomorrow. We are both just so stressed I think. I've made up my mind that if I don't get pregnant this cycle i'm gonna stop trying. Won't use any opks or anything. Just BD when we feel like it and call it good. I'm so tired of it all. I know I might change my mind but this is how i'm feeling now and how i've been feeling really this whole cycle so far. Last month I thought for sure was our month. I dunno I just feel like i'm probably already out. I feel I can't trust my own feelings and intuition because ive been so wrong every time. Sorry i'm being such a downer. I really hope you all get your bpf's! What a lovely Christmas present that would be! Sending love and light to you all!
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Babybear16 » Mon Dec 16, 2013 11:19 pm

hey ladybugs! we've been bding like no other since af ended there's only been 2 days we took a break so I'm praying this is our month and I totally understand about being tired about it all! I've reached that point more then once and it's a sad feeling! I agree we're already in the not trying not preventing spot so it's taken a lil stress off of us but dh got a new job working 6 days a week 12-13hours a day so I don't blame him for being tired! I still have my fingers crossed and you and everyone in my prayers that we get our bfp! merry Christmas ladies lots of love and babydust! keep us posted
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby GWTW » Tue Dec 17, 2013 6:31 am

I got my AF this morning, 3 days early. Guess my cycle is still a bit different after my m/c. At least the wait is over. On to next month!

Good luck to the rest of you :)
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Babybear16 » Tue Dec 17, 2013 7:58 am

oh no I'm so sorry keep your chin up! atleast you got more bding to go at :) I bet next month you'll get your bfp! ill keep you in my prayers!
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby B Michaelson » Tue Dec 17, 2013 8:06 am

I am expecting AF tomorrow. I am ok with it right now. It's been a tough couple of months. I kind of stopped caring about taking care of myself while I was waiting so I feel like this was not a good cycle for me to get a bfp anyways.

I missed a bunch of my meds and now I am super cranky :shock: whoops. I am sure that along with pms and other things, its making me a real awesome person to be around atm lol. I feel bad for DH but he is totally getting on my nerves and I just seem to want to be left alone alot. I know my family sees it too but I can't pretend to be cheerful when I feel like this.

I hope next cycle I can get back to where I was before the loss, mentally.

Sorry about AF GWTW.

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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby GWTW » Tue Dec 17, 2013 8:12 am

I know what you mean about not taking care of yourself! I have been in a funk since my m/c and let myself eat and veg like a couch potato for a whole month afterwards (and counting). I have not been eating well at all and barely moved! Now that I have AF, I promised I will start exercising moderately and eating more fruits and veggies and drinking more water (less wine).
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby B Michaelson » Tue Dec 17, 2013 8:16 am

Omg, me too. I feel awful and it makes me feel worse. It's a downward spiral for me so I need to get out of it. I have had many weekends of laying in bed the entire weekend avoiding my life. My life is fine, not bad at all, but my energy levels and motivation completely fell away.

I got on the treadmill last night for half an hour so that was a start. I think I just need to pick a task everyday and do it. Once I get back into the swing it will be easier.
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Babybear16 » Tue Dec 17, 2013 5:31 pm

ladies I pray we all get our bfp's soon! keep up the good work and sometimes we all get off track but were human we can only handle so much at once so I don't blame any of u ladies for hitting a low peak but you'll stand back up stronger and better then before! I know you'll all get your bfp's! and soon I can feel it! wishing all you ladies the best and tons of babydust! merry Christmas ladies ill keep checking in on you ladies!
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Ladybug&babybugs » Tue Dec 17, 2013 6:08 pm

I'm sorry ladies. It seems we are all feeling the blues. I hope we all get lots of love and light this holiday season and maybe if the good Lord wills, our bfp's
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby B Michaelson » Tue Dec 17, 2013 6:09 pm

:) me too
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Babybear16 » Wed Dec 18, 2013 2:36 am

well ladies needless to say I think I will take a break from ttc get back on my birth control for awhile I found some pretty revealing things in dh web history n I'm devastated n crushed... ladies I just want to tell you all you have been a amazing support group n friends to me I will pray everyday for all you ladies and your all strong big hearted women! I know those pink lines will come in perfect timing for all of you god has bigger plans for all of us especially all you ladies ill check in from time to time to see how your all doing babydust and love to you all!
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby B Michaelson » Wed Dec 18, 2013 5:10 am

Bear, I am so sorry to hear this. :hugs:

I hope you are holding out ok. Stay strong because you will get through this.

Please stay in touch.
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Ladybug&babybugs » Wed Dec 18, 2013 11:30 pm

I'm so sorry bear :( Prayers for you! Keep in touch, we would love to still be able to support you, whatever your journey.
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby Ladybug&babybugs » Wed Dec 18, 2013 11:31 pm

B. Michaelson, has AF showed or did you get a bfp?
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Re: Third cycle after miscarriage

Postby B Michaelson » Thu Dec 19, 2013 7:47 am

My temp dropped this morning so either today or tomorrow AF will be here. I am just glad I won't have it during Christmas.

I did miss my hsg opportunity this month because my OB said any later than Dec 18 and she will be on vacation but I am not too upset, because I suspect she wanted to do it during AF which, to me, is a no-no.
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