Bye Bye little one

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Bye Bye little one

Postby dreamingofbab » Fri Jan 10, 2014 2:22 am

So.. like many of you ladies I knew the odds were high and I expected I would deal with it all a lot better than I am... But until it happened, I had no idea I could feel pain or such loss.

I started to spot at 6 weeks. It was such a tiny amount, and only brown, I really wasn´t worried. 2 days later, however, and I had an awful feeling in the pit of my stomach that something was wrong. It was Christmas Day.
Off we went to the ER, had a scan, had bloods, had the worst Christmas in history :( I was absolutely devastated!!! Why was it such a teeny amount of only brown CM? Was the baby already gone? Or is it only gone when you start bleeding?

I only started bleeding 5-6 days later.
It is now over 2 weeks later and still spotting.

Emotionally I feel better. Some days. Today is not a good one. My poor husband is desperate for some BDing but I honestly feel like sex is the last thing I could deal with.

Guess I just needed to get that off my chest. Doc said to wait 2 cycles before we try again.
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Re: Bye Bye little one

Postby BichonFrise » Fri Jan 10, 2014 8:24 pm

I am so sorry for your loss.
I hear you about some days are better than the other.
Hang in there.
Me (39) DH (41)

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BFP #1: 10/01/2013 MC: 10/15/2013 (7 weeks)
BFP #2: 12/24/2013 MC: 01/01/2014 (5 weeks 1 day)
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Re: Bye Bye little one

Postby B Michaelson » Sat Jan 11, 2014 9:04 am

I am sorry for your loss. :hugs:
Me - 36
Hashimotos, JHS/EDS, ANA negative, 1 Fallopian tube
DH - 41
TTC #1 Aug 2012 - May 2014
DS - Born Jan 2015
TTC #2 since Aug 2016
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