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how long did you wait

Postby ekkotack » Mon Mar 31, 2014 7:57 am

to TTC after your miscarriage? Doc wants me to wait until after I have one normal cycle and then start trying. Well we did that last time, then it took us 3 months to get a BFP and now here we are with another loss. I was thinking maybe we just wouldn't wait at all?
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Re: how long did you wait

Postby BichonFrise » Mon Mar 31, 2014 11:17 am

First M/C: waited for 1 AF, got pregnant on 2nd cycle, ended up MC at 5 weeks.

2nd M/C: try right away and got BFP without A/F in between. DH & I decided to try right away since the 2nd MC is an early loss (5 weeks) and I expelled a lot of clots & tissues so we thought I have expelled all the remaining tissues from the 2 MCs. I ovulated 2 weeks late when I got the BFP.

My Dr actually wants us to wait until we've done all the testing after the 2nd MC. DH & I decided to give it one more shot before we are heading to fertility treatment. *knock on the woods* so far so good, it's been a text book pregnancy so far.
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TTC #1 since June 2013. Married for 10 years.

BFP #1: 10/01/2013 MC: 10/15/2013 (7 weeks)
BFP #2: 12/24/2013 MC: 01/01/2014 (5 weeks 1 day)
BFP #3: 02/08/2014 Ethan was born 6 lbs 9 Oz on Oct 17th, 2014.

TTC #2 since November 2015

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Re: how long did you wait

Postby AussieMumma90 » Mon Mar 31, 2014 5:02 pm

We tried straight away. We didn't wait until :af: came. I also ovulated just over two weeks later and I got my :bfp: yesterday
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Re: how long did you wait

Postby ekkotack » Mon Mar 31, 2014 6:44 pm

Yay!! congrats on your BFP!! Glad to hear there are others who didn't wait. I was a good girl after my D&C because I was so worried about risk of infection after that procedure. This time around, taking the Cytotec, I feel a bit more comfortable just going for it. My big concern is how will I know if my BFP is for real or if it's just old HCG hanging around? My bHCG on Saturday was 60,000...
Me: Ekko, newly 35 and AMA on the front of my chart :(
DH: Jamie, 33
Mommy to Ellis Mae, born 10/26/12
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Oct 2013 d&c
April 2014 d&c

BFP 8/22/14 grow baby, grow! !
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