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2 weeks post D&C

Postby Stardancer8764 » Tue Jul 15, 2014 10:22 am

I am two weeks post D&C after a loss at 11weeks. Just looking for others in the same boat, and looking to pass the time for a few weeks till we get the all clear to TTC again. Reaching out to see who else is out there with a similar situation. It sucks for sure.
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DD: Baby#1 :future baby girl: 04.26.13 :bfp: 08/12/12 :hb: 169bpm 9/10/12
:angel: Baby #2 due 1/15/15 :hb: 140bpm - 06/28/14 missed m/c and D&C at 11 weeks.
DS: Baby #3 :future baby boy: 08.11.15 :bfp: 11/23/14 :hb: 165bmp 12/23/14
:angel: Baby #4 :bfp: 10/18/17 CP 10/24/17
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Re: 2 weeks post D&C

Postby noahsuperman » Tue Jul 15, 2014 4:19 pm

Sorry for your loss...I just had my D&C today d/t a blighted ovum. I'm not really having any bleeding...I have some cramping, but my RE put me on methergine. this pregnancy was a natural surprise after many many fertility treatments. I doubt we'll be "trying" again...we won't prevent anything ever again, but i'm not optimistic about ever conceiving again.
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Re: 2 weeks post D&C

Postby Stardancer8764 » Wed Jul 16, 2014 7:47 pm

Noahsuperman- Hello! Uh I am so so so so so sorry for your loss. You must be so heartbroken. I am so sorry. I was in a really really awful place after my D&C. It will get better- i promise. But it takes time. It's been 18 days post op for me and I actually can get through my day without crying. Actually, I lied....I cry daily still- most days. The first week I don't think I even got out of bed.

I had minimal bleeding too. Then a week later I bled for 5 days and passed really gross, large clots. Like they missed stuff almost! The doc SWORE it was first AF but I doubt that. Spotting today. I want to TTC LIKE NOOOOWWW! Uh, but the doc said no TTCing till I get one "normal period" after my FIRST period post op. So, I was hoping this last bleed was AF- which means I could start next period. But my HCG tests are still positive...so that probably wasn't a period. Which means it still may be 3-6 weeks for that- and then another 2-3 until another. Maybe October ish? It's torture to wait. I want to start now- not to replace this baby- but to move on and heal. AND to feel close to my hubby. This is such an isolating time.

Why aren't you optimistic about conceiving? Because of the loss? the failed IVF's? All of it? Something in particular? Just curious. It looks like you have been through a lot. But you are Chirstian it appears- I am too. I am trusting God. It's hard when this happens- but I also believe in prayer and His promises.
Myself: 32
DH: 35
Married: 10/18/08
DD: Baby#1 :future baby girl: 04.26.13 :bfp: 08/12/12 :hb: 169bpm 9/10/12
:angel: Baby #2 due 1/15/15 :hb: 140bpm - 06/28/14 missed m/c and D&C at 11 weeks.
DS: Baby #3 :future baby boy: 08.11.15 :bfp: 11/23/14 :hb: 165bmp 12/23/14
:angel: Baby #4 :bfp: 10/18/17 CP 10/24/17
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Re: 2 weeks post D&C

Postby ekkotack » Thu Jul 17, 2014 6:09 am

Stardancer i'm just a week ahead of you in this waiting game and it sucks! I think i'm ovulating right now but can't do anything with it since I haven't had that first "normal period" boooo!!!!! I want to cheat so bad and just try to get pregnant anyway, but over the last year I've gone against my OB's advice too many times and 1) they were right and i was wrong and 2) i probably couldn't handle it if this next pregnancy didn't stick because my uterus wasn't ready. SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO we wait.

and Noahsuperman, i'm so sorry for your continued struggles! What a journey you have had. It is hard to stay positive and i've only been TTC #2 for a year now. There are a lot of miracles reported on here, though, so that helps.

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Re: 2 weeks post D&C

Postby Lecksy » Sun Jul 20, 2014 5:03 pm

Hi Star

I am here :( 2 weeks since we said good bye to our angel.

Now waiting for my body to heal and hcg to go to zero.

Feeling very down today :(
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DH 44
SDD 20
SDS 18
DS 15
DD 7
DS 6
DS 4** :angel: twin lost at 8 weeks
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:bfp: June 2014 - twins - mc @ 7w 4d :angel: :angel:
:bfp: October 2014 - due 8 July 2015

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Re: 2 weeks post D&C

Postby Stardancer8764 » Fri Aug 01, 2014 10:13 am

Sorry Lesky - I remember you from the preg board. How are you feeling today?

Just checking in. Sorry I was away in Ohio. Feeling much better lately. I think I don't even want to TTC. I am seeing a therapist to help me figure out what I want
Myself: 32
DH: 35
Married: 10/18/08
DD: Baby#1 :future baby girl: 04.26.13 :bfp: 08/12/12 :hb: 169bpm 9/10/12
:angel: Baby #2 due 1/15/15 :hb: 140bpm - 06/28/14 missed m/c and D&C at 11 weeks.
DS: Baby #3 :future baby boy: 08.11.15 :bfp: 11/23/14 :hb: 165bmp 12/23/14
:angel: Baby #4 :bfp: 10/18/17 CP 10/24/17
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