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I'm sad to be posting here

Postby Lecksy » Sun Jul 20, 2014 4:45 pm

Hi girls

I miscarried 2 weeks ago. I was 7wks 4days. At the u/s the sac measured 5 wks 3days and there was only a yolk sac , no fetal pole. There was a second sack that was already collapsing :(

This is my first tru misscarriage. I lost my sons twin at 8 weeks but my angel stayed with me until delivery since I was still pregnant with Matthew.

Today I'm really irritable, angry and sad. Not helped by the fact I was hoping today's frer would be negative. Nope. Still a faint line :( last weeks hcg was 17.

I just want the spotting to go and have bfns so we can move on. I'd like to ttc as soon as my body allows it.

I'm sorry for all your losses and that we are in this group.

God bless you all xxx
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SDS 18
DS 15
DD 7
DS 6
DS 4** :angel: twin lost at 8 weeks
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:bfp: June 2014 - twins - mc @ 7w 4d :angel: :angel:
:bfp: October 2014 - due 8 July 2015

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Re: I'm sad to be posting here

Postby Stardancer8764 » Sun Jul 20, 2014 8:37 pm

Les- I think you were in Feb DDC right? I was in Jan. I sucks to be on this side. So sorry for your loss. And super frustrating about your HCG. I am almost 20 days post m/c (d&C and STILL testing positive...) blah!
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Re: I'm sad to be posting here

Postby Kandy » Mon Jul 21, 2014 5:00 am

Hey ladies... Im also pretty sad to be coming on this board :( i was also a february due date!! :( missed miscarriage found out at 8w 4d baby only measured 6w2d :( still waiting for the bleeding to stop and also still testing positive but i only just passed a majority of the stuff 3 nights ago.
Anyone else agree that besides the emotional part of this, the worst part is waiting for everything to be over and pass so you can just wipe the slate clean and get back to the point where you feel ready to try again?
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Re: I'm sad to be posting here

Postby ekkotack » Mon Jul 21, 2014 5:35 am

yes that is certainly one of the worst parts! and each miscarriage is different so there are no real answers about how long it will take for your body to get back to a regular cycle. hugs to each of you!
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Re: I'm sad to be posting here

Postby Kandy » Mon Jul 21, 2014 5:46 am

Hugs back :)
We will all get there eventually!
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Re: I'm sad to be posting here

Postby Stardancer8764 » Thu Aug 14, 2014 8:38 pm

Same boat. It's been over 6 weeks since my D&C. Maybe because you went naturally your body will regulate more quickly. Fx. I am so very sorry. This sucks.
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DD: Baby#1 :future baby girl: 04.26.13 :bfp: 08/12/12 :hb: 169bpm 9/10/12
:angel: Baby #2 due 1/15/15 :hb: 140bpm - 06/28/14 missed m/c and D&C at 11 weeks.
DS: Baby #3 :future baby boy: 08.11.15 :bfp: 11/23/14 :hb: 165bmp 12/23/14


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Re: I'm sad to be posting here

Postby Lecksy » Thu Aug 14, 2014 9:18 pm

Everything is finally back to normal. 5 weeks later :( I just finished first Af at the mc. Before that end up with a nasty infection. Because I have had 4 csections. They were not keen on giving me a d&c even though I still had product and a blood clot of 15mm. I was expecting to see that all come out during Af but no.

Dh are getting funky with it tonight and hopefully this will be our ttc again. Fingers crossed we don't have to wait too long for a Bfp. This one took 1.5yrs :(

Good luck girls. I hope you all heal quickly and that God graces you with a rainbow baby really soon xxx
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DH 44
SDD 20
SDS 18
DS 15
DD 7
DS 6
DS 4** :angel: twin lost at 8 weeks
**placenta Accreta Survivor**
:bfp: June 2014 - twins - mc @ 7w 4d :angel: :angel:
:bfp: October 2014 - due 8 July 2015

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