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Re: U/S results indicate threat to pregnancy

Postby KTBrown » Thu Jan 08, 2015 12:27 am

Thank you!! I'm wide awake now, wasting time feeling sorry for myself. I was asking for it going to dr. so early but I was only expecting blood work not a u/s.

I think I found the cause: Zoloft. I was back on it in October and it has been linked to bleeding. I stopped taking it three weeks ago but it can be in your system up to ninety days.

My husband says pray and I am but I do not believe God micro manages: he didn't force me to take Zoloft and he isn't responsible for it's side effects so when I pray it's hard to ask him to fix my screw up and believe he will; isn't prayer based on his will to be done. So any self centered request seems like it should be asked based on the concept that he sees a bigger picture then I.

Totally rambling now, I'll update when I get a number.
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Re: U/S results indicate threat to pregnancy

Postby jewel_pyt » Thu Jan 08, 2015 12:44 am

I believe that God gave you this pregnancy for a reason, be it to add a member (hopefully a girl) to your loving family, or for you to only experience whatever he has in store. I think that if you are asking for Him to fix your screw up, I don't think it was a screw up btw. It is within his power and NOT being selfish, asking for Him to stop the bleed and praying for a healthy pregnancy, isn't just for you, it's for you and Chad and the boys, AND the life growing inside you. Just thought I would throw in my two cents. :) I hope you find comfort in knowing that it isn't in your hands but in the hands of the All Powerful Creator.

I'm praying for you also.
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Re: U/S results indicate threat to pregnancy

Postby KTBrown » Thu Jan 08, 2015 4:10 am

Jewel thank you for that correction!! Your right it isn't just for my want but for this baby and for out family and God out this child within me to begin with so why would I offend him by a skin him to heal the bleed!! I got it!! Thank you.
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Re: U/S results indicate threat to pregnancy

Postby KTBrown » Thu Jan 08, 2015 4:11 am

Stupid auto correct on my phone; sorry guys for the mistakes.
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Re: U/S results indicate threat to pregnancy

Postby MiracleInside » Thu Jan 08, 2015 5:27 am

Answer: Of course, God cares about the little things in our lives, because everything is “little” compared to God! Luke 12:7 says, “Indeed, the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Don't be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows.” God takes the time to keep up with how many hairs we have—now that’s a God of detail!

Throughout Scripture, we see that God is interested in more than just the highlights of our lives as His children. He cares about every aspect of who we are, because we are His creation made in His image (see Genesis 1:27). He cares for all of His creations, including plants, animals, and the environment. Matthew 6:26 says, “Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?” If God even meets the needs of birds who are not made in His image, who have no will to choose Him or reject Him, how much more will he care for our needs in detail? Because of God’s care, we can trust Him: “Your Father knows what you need before you ask him”


Anything important to you is important to Him:) Totally agree with Jewel!
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Re: U/S results indicate threat to pregnancy

Postby Leilani1984 » Thu Jan 08, 2015 9:20 am

I'm so sorry you have to go through this KT. I took Zoloft for a little while and it did help me. I didn't like the idea of ttc with the drug in my system. I had no clue that it causes bleeding. We're you on a low dose? I read that a lot of women "have" to stay on it when pregnant. It's not a good thing, but many have gone on to have perfectly healthy babies. There's a lot of people keeping you and your lil bean in their prayers, myself included. Rest as much as you can, and please keep us posted.
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Re: U/S results indicate threat to pregnancy UPDATE Beta res

Postby KTBrown » Thu Jan 08, 2015 2:54 pm

Thank you; no I was on the highest dose. 200mg and as soon as I found out I went cold turkey to rush it out of my system. Apparently Zoloft is linked to abdominal, brain and uterine bleeding.

So my family dr. Tried to convince me to stay on it but logic says if you can only take tylonal and even that occasionally Zoloft is bad news.

So I'm taking DHA and DHEA with zinc my friend told me about this combo along with chromium pacolinate and to my surprise no anxiety issues!!

That being said my beta did come in a 4,235 so I see great potential and confidence baby did implant despite doctors doubts!!

Thank you for prayers!! I won't know for two weeks about the bleed but this number gives me new reason to have faith!!
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Re: U/S results indicate threat to pregnancy UPDATE Beta res

Postby Adventurer » Thu Jan 08, 2015 3:32 pm

Try not to be too hard on yourself. Even if Zoloft can lead to bleeding, you don't know for certain that this is the cause of your bleeding. There are many causes for SCH, which is more common in pregnancy than many realize. And even if it is, it's not your fault because you had a legitimate reason to be on the medication. Like Leilani said, some people need to be on the medication because the risk to the baby without it is greater than the risk with. If you can find a non-Zoloft method then that's great but the decision whether or not to take it should depend on how much you need it. Remember, if you're not healthy, it's not good for baby either.

I'm sorry your doc led you to a negative impression of the situation. What he or she should have said, IMHO, is that there is a very small bleed but it is away from baby (the sac) and despite that your chances of a healthy pregnancy are still very good. Of course, it's a watch and wait but then again, so is the first tri anyways. I'm glad that your beta was reassuring though. It's a very good sign. :)
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Re: U/S results indicate threat to pregnancy UPDATE Beta res

Postby KTBrown » Thu Jan 08, 2015 3:53 pm

MiracleInside I read your post and despite reading those scriptures many times before it didn't stick until I read it on your response.

Such a great confirmation that he does get involved in the little matters and that I can be confident he cares to help me through this !!!
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Re: U/S results indicate threat to pregnancy UPDATE Beta res

Postby MiracleInside » Thu Jan 08, 2015 4:34 pm

Glad your spirits have picked up;) Everything will be great!
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Re: U/S results indicate threat to pregnancy UPDATE Beta res

Postby Leilani1984 » Fri Jan 09, 2015 10:42 am

I'm so glad you found an alternative to treat your anxiety. Your beta # looks great! I'm sure your little bundle is super comfy in there and growing nicely.
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Re: U/S results indicate threat to pregnancy UPDATE Beta res

Postby KTBrown » Fri Jan 09, 2015 11:11 am

I'm so nervous waiting for dr office to call; my second beta was ran tiday
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Re: U/S results indicate threat to pregnancy UPDATE Beta res

Postby Kohaku » Fri Jan 09, 2015 11:21 am

Hi KT! I'm sorry you're dealing with this scare but I bet everything will be fine! I know two ladies who have had SCH and both went on to have healthy full term babies! Looking forward to your next update!
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Re: U/S results indicate threat to pregnancy UPDATE Beta res

Postby KTBrown » Fri Jan 09, 2015 11:34 am

I have had back pain for three days now; I have woken up to severe stomach pain that seems unrelated to a pregnancy and cramping but all of this has been elevated to a more dramatic moment because of the fear something is wrong!!

My nurse says I shouldn't have back pain yet and it's unrelated but the intensity makes me think it's a nerve pain or possibly how baby implanted. I did have back pain with Andrew but not like this shooting pain now.

Three weeks ago something was wrong with my belly button and oozing liquid. It healed up but I can't help but wonder if I'm developing a hernia.

The cramping feels like my period and can be expected with a normal pregnancy but with what if in my mind I of course am afraid it means I'm losing the pregnancy.

Sorry def. having another moment but it will pass; thank God for pregnancy symptoms that say I'm still carrying a life!!
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Re: U/S results indicate threat to pregnancy UPDATE Beta res

Postby Butterfly1013 » Fri Jan 09, 2015 11:54 am

I had a small bleed too and now I'm 28 weeks! It worried me to death when the tech showed me on the ultrasound and I did have major spotting after my first internal exam. I also had lots of cramping in the 1st trimester and just thought for sure I would miscarry. I'll say some prayers for you!
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