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When will the bleeding start?

Postby Miss406 » Tue Feb 17, 2015 7:29 am

Had betas on Thursday 12th 8pm : level 31
Betas on Saturday 14th at 12pm : Level 24.

Tests on Sunday evening looked negative.
Test today (Tuesday) looks faint.

When will the bleeding start? Can I have any hope that perhaps it was twins and I lost one which is why the HCG went down?

All the doctor said was test in 2 weeks and if it's positive seek help. No idea on when I will start bleeding and quite frankly, It's making it worse. If I could bleed I would probably accept the fact I am miscarrying.

Any advice please? I really can't cope, I feel like I am going to go into deep depression.
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Re: When will the bleeding start?

Postby LeahsMom » Wed Feb 18, 2015 1:51 pm

Hi hun,

So sorry for your loss. When did the bleeding typically start in the past? When I had a chemical, AF started about 2 weeks late.

Are you taking any medications or anything like that prescribed by your doctor to try and prevent future MCs? Some doctors can be so heartless and uninformative.

Sending you lots of positive vibes. Hope you get your sticky baby soon!
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Re: When will the bleeding start?

Postby Miss406 » Thu Feb 19, 2015 3:00 am

Thank you, Usually I just start bleeding, I've never had betas before!
No meds or anything..

Weirdly, I now have symptoms and I swear my tests are getting darker!
I woke up at 4am with bad heartburn and the occasional sickness.
Doesn't explain my 'sore cervix' last night whilst BD though :(
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Re: When will the bleeding start?

Postby LeahsMom » Thu Feb 19, 2015 7:02 am

Awww I'm so sorry again.

Do you doctors know that you've M/C 8 times? Or since they've never taken blood tests, they don't have a record?

I believe I took my blood on a Monday and it was 41, bleeding started that Saturday. My doctor took extra precautions during my second pregnancy and I only had one loss..
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Re: When will the bleeding start?

Postby Miss406 » Thu Feb 19, 2015 9:04 am

The doctors don't care, as far as they're concerned this is ''natures selection'' and because between my MC's I have had healthy babies they just don't care. I think if I have 3 in a row they may investigate.

I just feel so sad, I just want my baby back. I want him to be clinging on in there and I want to be an exception of the rule and that I will get a baby out of this, I love him so much already. I had a feeling he was a boy, I just had a feeling.

I really don't want to face up to the reality. Not at all.

I also don't want another D and C, I have a feeling because I haven't bleeding yet that the miscarriage will be 'missed', my body wants the baby and won't let him go. :( Just don't know what to do at the moment or who to turn to, even my Fiance is staying to stop obsessing. :(
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Re: When will the bleeding start?

Postby skye skye » Thu Feb 19, 2015 11:51 am

Miss, I'm with you on this. DH and I found out two days ago that baby stopped developing at 6.5 weeks (I would be 9.5 weeks today)...had absolutely NO signs of mc what so ever and STILL have not started bleeding or cramping. When will this end? It's like my body don't want to let go. I've never had this happen before - I've had 2 previous mc's, one last July and one about 7 years ago with my ex. Both of those mc's I just started bleeding and miscarried. There was no waiting game. I'm sorry you're going through this too girl - it sucks, horribly. I am insisting that my doctor do bloods and u/s right away when I get another BFP. I even had an early u/s at 6wks this pregnancy and it showed a healthy baby with a heartbeat. I wonder if bloods would have showed there was an issue and they could have prevented this? All I know is next time my doctor will be doing more to monitor - I refuse to do this again! I think you should find another doctor girl if they aren't being helpful.

We'll get through this :hugs:
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Re: When will the bleeding start?

Postby Miss406 » Thu Feb 19, 2015 3:13 pm

Aww bless you xxx I'm sorry for your loss too.

I'm really surprised they didn't scan me to check for ectopic really, the pains I had on the Thursday may have been further implantation in my right tube! I want to fight for further tests, think I will be going to A and E tomorrow evening.

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