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9 DPO waiting for first AF after MC

Postby purple rain » Thu May 07, 2015 11:41 am

Any ladies want to join me, feel free too jump on here.
A little bit about me, ive been ttc for 13 months now, got my first BFP in march using soy iso and sadly lost my little bean at 5 weeks 1 day. My world fell apart.

Im waiting on my first AF since my mc. Im now 9 DPO, i think!! Well i had a positive opk 9 days ago. And its been 32 days since the mc so 9 DPO sounds about right,
Going to get the pee sticks out on mon/tue. So far my symptoms are very much none, so im not feeling too hopefull this time. But i wouldnt be too sad il just be happy too see AF so i can start again on a fresh cycle :)
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Re: 9 DPO waiting for first AF after MC

Postby PhDer » Thu May 14, 2015 5:12 am

I'm happy to wait with you although I have a bit further to go until AF I'm sure. I had a missed miscarriage with a d and c about a week ago.

I usually have a 29 day cycle so am expecting AF the first week in June.. Going to probably be trying for an Easter 2016 baby.
Me: 31 ( normal fertility)
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Married 23/03/2013
TTC #1 since 1/2015 (on break since Sept 2015)
BFP 11th April 2015 @10DPO/ cycle #3 (SMEP); M/C @7w3d. Angel Baby was due Christmas Eve 2015
BFP # 2 3rd July 2015 @10DPO; Betas: 145 @13DPO... 412@16dpo; MMC- 13w1d
BFP # 3 23rd March 2016 (3rd wedding anniversary): NTNP. Beta's at 10dpo (estimate) 13; 16DPO- 394 (doubling time 29 hours)
Cycle 29-33 days. LP: 10 days
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Re: 9 DPO waiting for first AF after MC

Postby mylammie04 » Thu May 14, 2015 11:35 am

Hi purple rain & PhDer,

I am so sorry to hear about both your losses :( *hugs to you both*

I will also join you in your wait. Hopefully AF shows up soon! I am exactly 1 month post-MC and I am also waiting for AF to come. Hopefully it comes soon! My cycles were always off due to PCOS, but metformin helped regulate me up until I got my BFP in March. We'll see if it'll work its magic again and regulate me until our next BFP.

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Re: 9 DPO waiting for first AF after MC

Postby purple rain » Fri May 15, 2015 11:49 am

Hello ladies thankyou for joining this post,
Im sorry for you losses i know its a very hard time to be in :( but heres too hoping for our rainbows.
Its been 40 days since my mc and still NO af.
Im starting to feel very sad.
I just want to try again. And af is holding me back.
I hope you ladies are feeling ok. Sending hugs xx
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Re: 9 DPO waiting for first AF after MC

Postby PhDer » Sun May 17, 2015 5:26 am

Any updates purple? Me and DH cracked today and DTD only 9 days after D and C. We are not preventing atm but I am still testing positive so think it's probably not likely I will conceive anyway
Me: 31 ( normal fertility)
DH:33 (male factor fertility: 20% motility, 3% morphology)
Married 23/03/2013
TTC #1 since 1/2015 (on break since Sept 2015)
BFP 11th April 2015 @10DPO/ cycle #3 (SMEP); M/C @7w3d. Angel Baby was due Christmas Eve 2015
BFP # 2 3rd July 2015 @10DPO; Betas: 145 @13DPO... 412@16dpo; MMC- 13w1d
BFP # 3 23rd March 2016 (3rd wedding anniversary): NTNP. Beta's at 10dpo (estimate) 13; 16DPO- 394 (doubling time 29 hours)
Cycle 29-33 days. LP: 10 days
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Re: 9 DPO waiting for first AF after MC

Postby purple rain » Sun May 17, 2015 1:31 pm

Hey, from what i know, your hcg has to be back to normal before you can get a negative test, i tested 14 days after and it came back neg, when your hcg has gone back to normal you will ovulate. :)
No news from me im afraid, CD42 and still no AF.
Im so fed up i just want her here now!! Ive felt like she has been on her way for about 4 days now but nothing yet x
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Re: 9 DPO waiting for first AF after MC

Postby PhDer » Sun May 17, 2015 4:21 pm

Yeah it's only been around 10 days now. I got -ve on internet cheapies but +ve on FRER so I am guessing my HCG levels are lowish but not down to zero quite yet so who knows I may yet ovulate in the next few weeks.

Probably going to go to the doctors though and request bloods as I am just one of those need to know sorta people!
Me: 31 ( normal fertility)
DH:33 (male factor fertility: 20% motility, 3% morphology)
Married 23/03/2013
TTC #1 since 1/2015 (on break since Sept 2015)
BFP 11th April 2015 @10DPO/ cycle #3 (SMEP); M/C @7w3d. Angel Baby was due Christmas Eve 2015
BFP # 2 3rd July 2015 @10DPO; Betas: 145 @13DPO... 412@16dpo; MMC- 13w1d
BFP # 3 23rd March 2016 (3rd wedding anniversary): NTNP. Beta's at 10dpo (estimate) 13; 16DPO- 394 (doubling time 29 hours)
Cycle 29-33 days. LP: 10 days
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Re: 9 DPO waiting for first AF after MC

Postby purple rain » Mon May 18, 2015 1:06 am

I would say frer are really sensitive and pick up very low HCG i would deffo get a doc to draw some bloods and see where you are at the min, good luck
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Re: 9 DPO waiting for first AF after MC

Postby mylammie04 » Mon May 18, 2015 9:41 am

I agree with purple rain -- I would go to the Dr and get some blood work done. I waited about a week and did a test on a cheapie test and it came back negative. I used Sure Predict.

Keep us posted PhDer!

Purple rain - have you tried to go see if the doctor will give you provera to induce the period? After my 1st MC, I didn't have af for 100+ days. I finally talked to my OB about it and she gave me provera to start my period and I also started metformin at the same time for my PCOS. Since then I was fairly regular. After this last MC, I just got af exactly a month after. Hopefully af comes soon for you!

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Re: 9 DPO waiting for first AF after MC

Postby PhDer » Mon May 18, 2015 6:29 pm

I went to the doctor today and am getting blood drawn tomorrow . I couldn't face it today as I just felt faint for some reason- my BP was fine

I took a test called pregnosis last night, I'm in Australia so not sure if you have that brand. It was diluted evening urine but came back BFN!! :D , took an internet cheapie that also came back BFN. Have started tracking for O, took an IC OPK last night which was had faint second line but the clearblue digital was negative (big O) this morning so no signs of ovulation just yet. I have had the O pains though so I am thinking maybe end of the week/weekend

thanks for the hugs , right back a ya :D
Me: 31 ( normal fertility)
DH:33 (male factor fertility: 20% motility, 3% morphology)
Married 23/03/2013
TTC #1 since 1/2015 (on break since Sept 2015)
BFP 11th April 2015 @10DPO/ cycle #3 (SMEP); M/C @7w3d. Angel Baby was due Christmas Eve 2015
BFP # 2 3rd July 2015 @10DPO; Betas: 145 @13DPO... 412@16dpo; MMC- 13w1d
BFP # 3 23rd March 2016 (3rd wedding anniversary): NTNP. Beta's at 10dpo (estimate) 13; 16DPO- 394 (doubling time 29 hours)
Cycle 29-33 days. LP: 10 days
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Re: 9 DPO waiting for first AF after MC

Postby purple rain » Fri May 22, 2015 2:32 pm

Hello ladies, how are you doing? Any updates?
No updates from me. Still no AF im on CD47 soon to be CD48 as its 10.30pm here.
Im going to phone the doc next week and get some blood work done. Im going crazy its so unfair!!.
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Re: 9 DPO waiting for first AF after MC

Postby mylammie04 » Tue May 26, 2015 11:43 am

Hi ladies!

Ugh! I know it's frustrating purple rain! Hopefully your doctor can give you some answer soon.

Nothing new here...onto a new cycle. AF just finished a few days ago, so we'll see how it comes this time around. I finish my last bag of Chinese Medicine tomorrow, so here's to hoping for good things to happen!
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Re: 9 DPO waiting for first AF after MC

Postby PhDer » Tue May 26, 2015 7:05 pm

Hey all

Updates from me. Pretty sure I'm in TWW now. Got an almost positive OPK and then got PMS symptoms after (sore bbs etc) so expecting AF June 4 (CD29) will be testing that day just to try and rule it out before I see my gynae for post D and C follow up. Not meant to be trying anyway according to my GP :S
Me: 31 ( normal fertility)
DH:33 (male factor fertility: 20% motility, 3% morphology)
Married 23/03/2013
TTC #1 since 1/2015 (on break since Sept 2015)
BFP 11th April 2015 @10DPO/ cycle #3 (SMEP); M/C @7w3d. Angel Baby was due Christmas Eve 2015
BFP # 2 3rd July 2015 @10DPO; Betas: 145 @13DPO... 412@16dpo; MMC- 13w1d
BFP # 3 23rd March 2016 (3rd wedding anniversary): NTNP. Beta's at 10dpo (estimate) 13; 16DPO- 394 (doubling time 29 hours)
Cycle 29-33 days. LP: 10 days
Supplements: Vitex, B6, Vit D, Prenatal Multi-Vit (Me), Menevit (DH)

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Re: 9 DPO waiting for first AF after MC

Postby mylammie04 » Wed May 27, 2015 9:40 am

FINGERS CROSSED PhDer! Here's to hoping that you'll have your rainbow baby and this time it's a sticky bean! <3
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