Not sure if I am going through a MC or not

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Re: Not sure if I am going through a MC or not

Postby blooop » Mon Jan 04, 2016 6:48 am

Omg you guys. So I tried to make an appointment with an ob/gyn. I've told you guys I'm from Canada, I moved to the US pretty recently so I don't have insurance here yet. The ob/gyn treated me liked GARBAGE, transferred me to four different people including BILLING. I told them repeatedly I have no problem paying. They told me it would take four weeks to see me. WTF. I called a different one and got an appointment at 2:15 after I had to insist NO I DO NOT NEED TO GO TO A CHARITY CLINIC I NEED TO GET IN TODAY. I can't F-ing believe it. I will update you guys after my appointment. I wish I could just fly home and get proper medical treatment but I can't leave the US on my stupid visa right now. I can't believe this.

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Re: Not sure if I am going through a MC or not

Postby southernbelle » Mon Jan 04, 2016 7:11 am

Oh no, that's awful! Hope everything's well at the appointment.

I haven't had anymore spotting since last night, but I think I'm going to go in for betas anyway. I'm just a little paranoid and want to know what to prepare for. Hopefully they can get the results back to me this afternoon.
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Re: Not sure if I am going through a MC or not

Postby blooop » Mon Jan 04, 2016 7:33 am

I'm glad it stopped!! Let me know how everything goes...
My bleeding seems to have stopped as well and I still am not having cramps. The hardest part is not knowing if things are over or not. I could accept it and move on if I knew, but not knowing is awful.

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Re: Not sure if I am going through a MC or not

Postby Danaa » Mon Jan 04, 2016 7:50 am

I have been quietly stalking and fxing for you but ur problem with the gyno made me angry as f**k!I thought US is the best at everything but in my time here i realized is not the case!Im in Romania and I'm so happy I can go whenever I want for blood tests or doctors as long as I pay,with insurance you need a referral!!!I hope this other doc will willing to help you!
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Re: Not sure if I am going through a MC or not

Postby blooop » Mon Jan 04, 2016 10:31 am

Yeah totally, I thought it would be no big deal moving here, but it's so hard! I think if I am still pregnant I will just go back to Canada to give birth lol. Thanks :(

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Re: Not sure if I am going through a MC or not

Postby southernbelle » Mon Jan 04, 2016 1:29 pm

So my spotting may have been due to a low progesterone issue. Betas came back at 2100, prog 30. Increasing progesterone and will know more Friday at my scan.
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Re: Not sure if I am going through a MC or not

Postby blooop » Mon Jan 04, 2016 1:37 pm

SB - I am glad they caught the problem, hopefully this will fix any issues and you will be just fine. Praying for you. I hope everything looks just peachy on Friday... I know the days seem SO long when you're waiting for answers.

My appointment went super well. The baby is fine, I saw the heart beating! They put my due date back four days to August 22nd, I might have got my O date wrong anyhow because I was really lazy with temping that month. But it's also really hard to measure a blob on the screen so who knows lol.

They gave me an u/s, bloodwork and pap smear for $200.. and they were really nice.. I didn't ask for a discount or anything. I'm kind of shocked it was so inexpensive but so relieved. I'm just so thankful that everything is just fine. Thank God. I can't wait for second trimester. The doc didnt seem too concerned about the bleeding. She didn't even say to do bedrest or anything like that, she said moderate exercise is fine. Like I'll be doing that LOL.
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Re: Not sure if I am going through a MC or not

Postby southernbelle » Mon Jan 04, 2016 4:54 pm

Wonderful news bloop!!! :) How many days left? lol
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Nov 2015 500mg Metformin, Baby Aspirin, 150mg Clomid cd 3-7, Follistim cd 8-11, Ovidrel
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Re: Not sure if I am going through a MC or not

Postby blooop » Mon Jan 04, 2016 6:23 pm

Too many!!!

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Re: Not sure if I am going through a MC or not

Postby Danaa » Mon Jan 04, 2016 6:36 pm

Grt news!Im happy for you!!
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Re: Not sure if I am going through a MC or not

Postby blooop » Mon Jan 04, 2016 7:49 pm

Thank you :D

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Re: Not sure if I am going through a MC or not

Postby johnnyswifey » Wed Jan 04, 2017 2:59 pm

Hi Bloop! I'm just seeing your post. What part of Canada are you from. I was born and raised in Ont and moved to the states a long while ago. I must say, healthcare here and healthcare at home are DAY and NIGHT!!!! I will be going home for birth too!! LOL.................

Excuse me for butting in here a year later :shock: , but I am currently going through the same thing. I am 5 weeks 4 days and measuring 5 weeks 2 days as of this morning. Yesterday I had a BM (straining hard) and then I started to spot brown blood. About 2 hours later when I got to work, I was leaking fresh red blood, then it tapered to a red wine colour and then I had gushes of blood flowing out. I passed two large clots and then 2 more when I got home. By then time I was home passing the other 2 clots, the bleeding tapered off. Since then it has been back and forth from nothing to brown. The difference between you and I is that I now have cramping with minimal bleeding.

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