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Is this what miscarriage looks like?

Tue Jan 26, 2016 3:03 am

Hi all
Sorry to everyone that's in this group if what I'm certain is happening to me is happening/happened to you am so so sorry its so so unfair!!

I have had brown spotting for the last 10 days only when I wipe it's started last Sunday morning I panicked as I was 10 weeks and 2 days this come from no where.

I went to the EPU and had both internal and abdomen scan its showed my beautiful baby only measured at just over 6 weeks (no heartbeat just sack) I told her my period date i was certain of because it's exactly 3 years to the day I missed my period with my 1st born. She told me it looks like my baby had died but legally she had to give me 2 weeks a chance for my baby to grow if its going to she sent me on my way with nothing not a clue what to think other than my baby had died cause I would be a miracle if my baby was to be alive at scan on 2nd Feb

Pure devastated I cried and cried I have been through hell, my husband come home from working away expecting the worst.

I gained a little hope I was just being awkward that this is just a phase and my baby would be ok even the hope even had me sitting down working my dates out I could make them match if I forgot about my period date,the 1st I think 9 pregnancy test were so so light (first response too) I put my sample at my doctors it came back inconclusive, a week later I got a positive from my doctors and a 1-2 weeks ony clear blue I thougbt I would neatly 6 weeks but this put me at 3-4 weeks (that give me abit of hope)

I have never has the blood in my knickers I don't even have to wear a pad (I do if I leave the house) on Friday my blood turned bright read and was in the toilet (not a lot) then it went brown with in 20 mins ans was gone I had another brown spot then nothing for about 19 hours then it was brown but never ever loads.

Today is the 1st morning I have woke up and knew I would have it and felt it there (first time) it was back red was in the toilet it's not clotting its quite watery I'm certain this is the day we will say goodbye to one of the people in my life I will love the most my baby no matter how big or small or what people will say or think I love my little trouble maker I hope it spends the rest of this pregnancy terrifying me but comes out in August not January/February.

I even convinced myself it could be placenta previa cause my little boy was breech so I had a c section.

I get the blood spots about 3 (4 at a push times a day always after I wee. The worst of the day is always after I empty my bowl I have attached the one from today I know it's not what you ladies want to see but you are the expexts I just hope some one can tell if this is what a miscarriage looks line, the brown blood started 10 days ago I can go hours with out any thing I barly have cramp at all and if I do it doesn't feel like it's from my uterus it's always higher I can go hours without any thing the longest is 19 hours 2 days ago

Re: Is this what miscarriage looks like?

Tue Jan 26, 2016 3:10 am

Sorry this picture is pretty graphic

This is a couple of days worth of blood it's bigger than spotting I know but after 10 days I thougbt it would be aleast more than when I wipe

The bigger 2 are after I empty my bowls

Sorry this is too much I'm pretty desperate now
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Re: Is this what miscarriage looks like?

Tue Jan 26, 2016 3:11 am

2 of the picture in the are the same as what's attached
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Re: Is this what miscarriage looks like?

Tue Feb 02, 2016 6:25 pm

I'm sorry hun but yes that looks like an MC. I hope that you're feeling ok xx

Re: Is this what miscarriage looks like?

Wed Feb 03, 2016 12:05 pm

I'm so, so sorry. I had a miscarriage in August (found out at 11 weeks that baby stopped growing at 8.5 weeks, with no heartbeat). I had bleeding off and on for a month and ultimately had to have a d&c. It's really tough but you'll get through it. I found it really helped to talk about it instead of pretending like it never happened, even if it makes other people uncomfortable.

Re: Is this what miscarriage looks like?

Thu Feb 04, 2016 5:05 pm

Yes that's what my mc looked like. I'm so sorry. I just went through one in December. I promise it does get easier, just allow yourself to heal. I've read that you are extra fertile after a mc. I hope you get your rainbow soon. Sending you lots of hugs

Re: Is this what miscarriage looks like?

Fri Feb 05, 2016 7:40 am

Hi ladies you were right it was and have to have medical management to help get my baby moving Offically having a miscarriage

Sorry for your losses hope you get your rainbow soon

Re: Is this what miscarriage looks like?

Sat Feb 06, 2016 9:04 am

Oh no, I'm really sorry! I hope you heal quickly and get your rainbow asap. Stay strong, it will happen! Hugs and prayers sent your way....

Re: Is this what miscarriage looks like?

Sat Feb 06, 2016 10:15 am

Thank you if the baby did leave meit left Thursday still getting a positive pregnancy test (I know it's early) I will never ever forgot my baby just want to get passed this now xx
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