First pregnancy, first miscarriage

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First pregnancy, first miscarriage

Postby Mrs.Stacy3343 » Sat Jan 28, 2017 8:57 am

8 months it took my husband and I to get pregnant. 8 months of worry that we would be unable to get pregnant. 8 months wishing for a positive. Finally after 8 months, we got our positive. We have never been so excited. We knew about our baby for one week and two days before I had a miscarriage. I was only 5w 1d into the pregnancy but I already loved that baby. I've never felt so heart broken in my life. It was my first pregnancy and it ended in miscarriage. I feel so sad and so angry that this happened. Has this happened to anyone else on their first pregnancy and then they were able to have a healthy pregnancy after that?
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Re: First pregnancy, first miscarriage

Postby Danaa » Sat Jan 28, 2017 9:32 am

Im sorry for your loss,I have been trough one myself and I'm now 9 weeks pregnant!!It will happen again and u will have a healthy pregnancy!!Good luck to you!!
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Re: First pregnancy, first miscarriage

Postby Mrs.Stacy3343 » Sat Jan 28, 2017 9:37 am

I'm glad to hear that. I have this huge fear now that it's not going to happen. I'm sorry to hear about your loss as well but I'm glad you are 9 weeks now.
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Re: First pregnancy, first miscarriage

Postby mimimama » Sun Jan 29, 2017 9:07 am

I am sorry for yr loss. Unfortunately women might experience mcs or cp. A few friends of mine have experienced mcs as well. One lady conceived naturally a few months later. The second friend decided to see a doc, who advised her to do additional tests. As it occurred she had chromosomal issues, so she combined her treatment with pgs ngs procedure, and finally got pregnant.
Me 31, DH 40. TTC 5 years. Unexplained infertility.
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May/June 2016- new doctor, IVF consultation in Gdansk Poland
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Re: First pregnancy, first miscarriage

Postby EvilSockLady » Sun Jan 29, 2017 11:33 am

Mrs. Stacy, I'm sorry for your loss and I hope the time since then has helped with the healing.

I wanted to tell you that a dear friend of mine and her husband were trying for several months before they got their BFP. And unfortunately she ended up having a miscarriage just a few weeks later. But a few months after that she got another BFP. Yesterday I attended their little girl's first birthday party. She destroyed that cake!

My cousin had three miscarriages before she finally got her rainbow baby... and then last month they welcomed their second baby (whose conception was a total surprise until she was 10 weeks!).

Anything is possible. :)
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Re: First pregnancy, first miscarriage

Postby Mari Mo04 » Tue Jan 31, 2017 9:23 am

So sorry about your loss! They are so hard. I have had seven losses while TTC, but have also had 4 successful pregnancies! You should definitely keep hoping for that sticky babe. And don't let anyone stop you from grieving. That baby was yours and the pain and hurt are legitimate feelings. Hugs!
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Re: First pregnancy, first miscarriage

Postby Nina Ahrichi » Fri Jul 06, 2018 6:39 am

Hi, MCs are a bad thing. They affect you. You will be able to solve our problems. I want you to get the best out of everything. I wish you all the best for your future. I hope all your problems get solved.
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Re: First pregnancy, first miscarriage

Postby rozianaa » Thu Aug 09, 2018 11:05 pm

I am really sorry to know about this. Don't be upset. All will be fine. I really understand your situation. My friend had gone through an accident. She had a miscarriage and after that news, she was shattered. That she cannot concieve again. But her husband support and love made her strong. Nowadays infertility is not a big problem. With the advancement of science. Many solutions are available. The method of surrogacy guarantees success. This is the reason she chose it. My best wishes to all women out here. Dealing with such issues. Prayers are with you. And believe me, it's not your mistake at all. Just handle this situation calmly. Better things are surely on their way. Sending you lots of love dear. Take care of yourself.
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Re: First pregnancy, first miscarriage

Postby lillyP28 » Fri Aug 10, 2018 10:42 am

Hey, I am very sorrowful for you. Miscarriages are so worse. losing an unborn baby is very hard to overcome. But, you should not lose hope. You should try again. I would suggest you choose the best clinic for yourself. I was a sportswoman. I was infertile. I was suffering from fatigue injury. I was trying to conceive. My family was not supporting me. I lost all my hope. But, my husband supported me a lot. Then we went to an awesome clinic. I have a baby now. It feels awesome.
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Re: First pregnancy, first miscarriage

Postby emma228 » Fri Aug 10, 2018 11:14 am

Hello. I am so sad for you. I know it would be extremely painful for you. Miscarriage is so difficult to face. Some lady faces miscarriage after the first child. I also faced miscarriage due to uterine polyps disease. So I chose to go for treatment. It didn't go successfully either. I was so disappointed and discouraged that what might be next. I chose to go for surrogacy. We were somewhat confident about it. We faced no trouble in discovering surrogate. Today I am a happy mother. Surrogacy is a blessing indeed. I hope it would be helpful for you too. Stay blessed.
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Re: First pregnancy, first miscarriage

Postby barbara5 » Wed Aug 15, 2018 6:14 am

Hey. Hope you ate well. And in your good health. It is okay. We never fall into situations we can't handle. You are stronger than this. And you know how to cope with it. Just deal with it. And show it to the world. I know how losing someone is devastating. But you deserve parenthood. And you will get it. Your patience is being checked. Find good fertility clinics. Don't go for Lotus. I did and I regret it. They are the most unsupportive and unresponsive people. I just want you to stay safe from any bad experience. Help yourself out. Be careful. Good luck.
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