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surrogacy after 6 MCs

Postby Nessa05 » Sun Aug 27, 2017 3:39 pm

Hi everyone! Need some info on surrogacy. I had 6 miscarriages in last 8 years. Doctors don’t know the reason why I can’t carry a baby. I’m scared to try again. It’s unbearable to loose children. I’m not sure I’ll cope with another loss. I think the best option for me is if surrogate mother carries our baby. Surrogacy is illegal in my country. That means we have to find solutions abroad. First question is how and where to find surrogate mother? I know there are many agencies but their fees are so high. Maybe there is other ways to find surrogate mother. Will it be ok to look for her in the internet? I saw many girls who propose services of surrogate mother. Do we need a lawyer? I have no idea how to make everything in the right way. Second question is what are prices? How much should we pay and who states the price. What will we have to pay for? Any info will be great! Thanks in advance!
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Re: surrogacy after 6 MCs

Postby Nessa05 » Tue Sep 19, 2017 9:19 am

Hi everyone! I'm so sad to see no replies. I'm still looking for information on surrogacy. Last few days were really hard for me... I've been thinking about my life, about my fertility, about my MCs. I know that feeling sorry for myself won't give nothing and won't fix the situation. But sometimes I just can do nothing with my feelings. I still hope you will share your experience with me or give some advices where to start and what to do. I wish everyone all the best!
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Re: surrogacy after 6 MCs

Postby Danaa » Tue Sep 19, 2017 10:13 am

Im sorry to see no one replied,probably they don't know what to post,there is a site called FertilityFriends where you will find a ton of information on surrogacy,clinics etc.
Im really sorry to hear about your misscariages....my heart breaks for you and your partner.
Have you been checked for blood clotting?Nk cells from blood and uterus?!Ur thyroid levels?!
Have you had a histeroscopy to make sure there is nothing in ur uterus to cause the misscariages?!
I wouldn't go into this process of surrogacy without a legal contract,too many things can go wrong.
Is best to pay a bit more money and be sure that in the end everything will turn ok than pay less and have the uncertainty....In the end is ur choice.
I wish you good luck!!
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Re: surrogacy after 6 MCs

Postby Nessa05 » Wed Sep 20, 2017 11:41 am

Hello Danaa! Thank you so much for your reply! I'm so happy to see words of support. It's so nice to talk to someone who understands and can comfort. Thank you for your advice! I will definitely visit the site recommended. I hope I will find all information I need. Time passes by and I don't want to waste it. Really want my journey to start. I hope it will help me to distract from thoughts of being childless. My husband and I have done all possible tests and checks. This whole situation is so exhausting. I'm so tired from feeling depressed all the time. You are so right about the price! Yes we want to save some money but of course we will do a thorough search to find professional center.
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Re: surrogacy after 6 MCs

Postby Danaa » Wed Sep 20, 2017 1:17 pm

Ttc and dealing with multiple losses can be hell!!'
I know how you feel !!
I hope you see ur dream come true soon!!
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Me 29
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After 3 years in which we tried everything we are doing IVF in Greece with Iakentro Athens.
Short Protocol with Bemfola and Cetrotide
19mature eggs and we have 9 day5 blasto.
FET#1 ended in a loss around 5 weeks
FET#2 ended in a loss at 22w due to IC,my boys will be forever in my heart .
FET#3 ?
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