Feeling lonely & want to hear your experiences

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Feeling lonely & want to hear your experiences

Postby Jessiquoi » Mon Nov 27, 2017 10:58 pm

Two years of trying, four IUIs, a surgery, a near miscarriage, and finally today we found out the baby we've worked so hard for is still in there but its little heart has stopped beating. I'm sad, annoyed... frustrated. If you aren't shy I'd really love to hear your experiences right now, especially if it took you awhile. It's lonely.
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Re: Feeling lonely & want to hear your experiences

Postby Danaa » Tue Nov 28, 2017 4:03 am

I’m really sorry to hear about your loss....there is nothing I could say to make you feel better....after my loss I was very angry for a while and i didn’t felt like i was going to ever try again but as time has passed by I changed and right now I’m happy to say I’m 10w pregnant and praying to get to term and deliver a healthy baby.
My Ovulation Chart
Me 29
DH 31
After 3 years in which we tried everything we are doing IVF in Greece with Iakentro Athens.
Short Protocol with Bemfola and Cetrotide
19mature eggs and we have 9 day5 blasto.
FET#1 ended in a very early loss,chemical pregnancy.
FET#2 ended in a loss at 22w due to IC,my boys will be forever in my heart .
FET#3 MMC at the 10 weeks ultrasound.
FET#4 2018
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Re: Feeling lonely & want to hear your experiences

Postby 2mamasttc » Thu Jan 04, 2018 10:36 pm

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I am going on 4 months post miscarriage and still my heart feels raw. I'm not sure if i will ever get over it. Life goes on too quickly. There are times when I hear a baby cry and I automatically start to tear up.

We conceived our little boy Lucas on our 1 st try at iui. We felt so blessed to have this little being inside me. At 13th weeks I started to feel flutters and I was blessed enough to enjoy those little flutters for one more week. At the end of my 14th week I went into "labor" and miscarried. It's been a long and lonely 4 months. I ended up with rpoc and now chronic endometritis.

It looks like maybe by next month we may be able to try again. It's very hard and lonely, No one talks about it like it never happened. My manager at work won't even touch the subject never said sorry for your loss nothing. Please know that you are not alone. There are so many of us with similar pains and scars. We are warriors together. Lots of hugs and baby dust.
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Re: Feeling lonely & want to hear your experiences

Postby rozianaa » Thu Aug 23, 2018 7:58 am

Life is really unpredictable. Many up and downs come and pass by. But life goes on. I am so sorry to know about this. Handle the situation wisely and calmly. I like to share my sister experience with you. My sister was infertile. Now thought of choosing surrogacy. But she is really sad they are even not replying. There are some places like L***s clinic. That use the people for their own good. She is really stressed out. L***s is acting very unprofessionally. This is not expected from clinics at least. Clinics are hoped for the hopeless, light in the dark. But this is upsetting. Beware of these clinics guys. Pray for her, dear. Don't feel alone. This all is part of life. Life goes on. Just don't lose hope. Better things are surely coming. Handle this all patiently. Lots of love.
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Re: Feeling lonely & want to hear your experiences

Postby CheekiKat » Wed Sep 26, 2018 5:23 pm

Jessiquoi - You are not alone. We've been TTC for 5 years now, with 2 miscarriages. It's been almost 3 years since my second miscarriage and every month I POAS and hope to see two lines. When I get a BFN, I get in the shower and cry then get dressed and go to work and no one knows what I am going through except me and my other TTC sisters like you. One thing that keeps me going is that I know I am not alone. There are women like myself going through the same thing every month and we continue going, living, loving and staying strong. Even during our darkest hours we find the strength to dust off and try again. Don't give up, keep researching and TTC. I believe there is a sky full of baby spirits waiting to be born. Let's keep praying and supporting each other and hope one of these little baby spirits will answer our prayers ;)
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Re: Feeling lonely & want to hear your experiences

Postby Xenia » Wed Dec 12, 2018 10:06 am

I am so sorry, honey. It's really sad that you had to go through this. My prayers are with you. I can understand it must be so difficult. Please don't give up hope. These things are a part of life. Good luck to you, I hope you conceive very soon!
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Re: Feeling lonely & want to hear your experiences

Postby hannahdavid » Tue Jan 01, 2019 12:17 pm

I am very sorry to hear about your loss. This must have been really hard for you. However, don't worry I am sure things will get better. Just don't lose hope. I know so many people who had an MC and were later able to conceive. In fact, it is said that a woman is the most fertile after an MC. Soo good luck to you. I hope things go well.
-Low AMH and High FSH
-Poor Ovarian Reserve
-5 IUIs (failed)
-1 IVF (failed)
Life is a total mess
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Re: Feeling lonely & want to hear your experiences

Postby EstrellaS » Fri Jan 25, 2019 5:17 am

This broke my heart! I'm so sorry to hear about your experience. It reminded me of my own miscarriage. That was a difficult time during my journey. I don't think I would have moved on without the help of my DH. He helped me, and we managed to conceive in six months. I know, things seem gloomy, but they don't have to be that way! You can still do this. Good luck to you!
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Re: Feeling lonely & want to hear your experiences

Postby Connen006 » Wed Apr 03, 2019 3:05 pm

I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. Of course, it's very hard and difficult, but we, women, are very strong. I experienced a miscarriage and my dear husband was beside me every minute. If he had not supported me so much, I would never dare try to get pregnant again. Stay close to your loved ones, they give us strength!

God bless you!
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