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Frustrated after lap

Postby Ready4it » Sat Nov 29, 2014 12:15 pm

I just have to say I am sooo frustrated. :angry: I seriously can't believe I am on my 3rd cycle after my lap and still ttc. I have been trying now a total of 21 cycles. Why can't this just happen?! Is there anyone out there that conceived naturally after their lap? Stories of hope welcome :wink: Or anything that they think did the trick for a BFP?

Thanks for the support ladies!
TTC since July 2013
Cycles vary from 24-28 days. No BFP's AT ALL!
Lap done 9/9/14- Stage 1 endo behind uterus and one blocked tube- but cleared after HSG.
10/22/14 First cycle after lap- BFN :(
11/17/14 Second cycle after lap- BFN
Update 2/15/15- tried femera last cycle and no luck. On 6 month after lap TTC.
Feeling hopeless
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Re: Frustrated after lap

Postby Danaa » Wed Feb 04, 2015 12:19 pm

Hi there Ready im in the same situation as you I had an laparoscopy in October that cleared some adhesions and unblocked my right tube plus ovarian driling,this is my 4th month after my lap and I still haven't conceived,im waiting for AF now to start clomid!:(I would also like to hear success stories after the lap!!My doctor told me that after 6 months after the lap I haven't got pregnant I should start worry,did you doc told you something like that Ready?Why did you had surgery Ready?
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Me 29
DH 31
After 3 years in which we tried everything we are doing IVF in Greece with Iakentro Athens.
Short Protocol with Bemfola and Cetrotide
19mature eggs and we have 9 day5 blasto.
FET#1 ended in a loss around 5 weeks
FET#2 ended in a loss at 22w due to IC,my boys will be forever in my heart .
FET#3 ?
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Re: Frustrated after lap

Postby cake for breakfast » Wed Feb 04, 2015 6:54 pm

Did they find endometriosis?
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Re: Frustrated after lap

Postby Ready4it » Sun Feb 15, 2015 6:50 am

Hi All! Sorry I haven't responded - took a break from the forums for a few months to try and "take it easy" - didn't work for me lol. Nothing happened and still feeling very frustrated. I had the surgery done b/c we were trying for a while, all the bloodwork came back, but I always had issues with painful bowel movements- which the dr said that could be endo. So we went for the surgery, she found a bit behind my uterus- nothing major and removed it. I am so frustrated because I know the next step is to go to the Fertility doc- but we spend so much money last year on the surgery and dr's appointments that I am just at a loss. I found out too, when scheduling the appointment with the fertility doc, that he wants to do a semen analysis again AND all my labs. It's like- I went through all of that already, really?! It just seems like obstacles keep coming my way. Please feel free to vent on here ;) I just found out that my best friend is pregnant with her 2nd, wasn't even trying but 5months maybe?!
TTC since July 2013
Cycles vary from 24-28 days. No BFP's AT ALL!
Lap done 9/9/14- Stage 1 endo behind uterus and one blocked tube- but cleared after HSG.
10/22/14 First cycle after lap- BFN :(
11/17/14 Second cycle after lap- BFN
Update 2/15/15- tried femera last cycle and no luck. On 6 month after lap TTC.
Feeling hopeless
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Re: Frustrated after lap

Postby smaTTC » Sun Apr 26, 2015 9:53 am

Hi Ready4it. I havent been trying as long as you but I have to agree... it seems super unfair when people barely try (or they dont want kinds at all or arent trying) and they get prego! Hang in there.
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Re: Frustrated after lap

Postby Ready4it » Fri May 08, 2015 3:03 pm

Hi there!! I know =( I just went to the Fertility Specialist a few weeks ago, they ran all my tests and my husbands. Everything WAS GREAT of course- only have low vitamin D which I am taking supplements for and hoping start next month with IUI's.... I am definitely NOT getting my hopes up. I am trying to stay positive but eh, its hard these days. Have you done any fertility treatments yet? It's so insane how expensive it is!
TTC since July 2013
Cycles vary from 24-28 days. No BFP's AT ALL!
Lap done 9/9/14- Stage 1 endo behind uterus and one blocked tube- but cleared after HSG.
10/22/14 First cycle after lap- BFN :(
11/17/14 Second cycle after lap- BFN
Update 2/15/15- tried femera last cycle and no luck. On 6 month after lap TTC.
Feeling hopeless
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Re: Frustrated after lap

Postby Danaa » Fri May 08, 2015 3:15 pm

Hello Ready,I had 2 cycles of injectables,they didn't work of course,now im getting ready for ivf in the next few months!!
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Me 29
DH 31
After 3 years in which we tried everything we are doing IVF in Greece with Iakentro Athens.
Short Protocol with Bemfola and Cetrotide
19mature eggs and we have 9 day5 blasto.
FET#1 ended in a loss around 5 weeks
FET#2 ended in a loss at 22w due to IC,my boys will be forever in my heart .
FET#3 ?
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Re: Frustrated after lap

Postby Ready4it » Fri May 08, 2015 5:36 pm

I hope the IVF works for you!! How long have you been trying now??
TTC since July 2013
Cycles vary from 24-28 days. No BFP's AT ALL!
Lap done 9/9/14- Stage 1 endo behind uterus and one blocked tube- but cleared after HSG.
10/22/14 First cycle after lap- BFN :(
11/17/14 Second cycle after lap- BFN
Update 2/15/15- tried femera last cycle and no luck. On 6 month after lap TTC.
Feeling hopeless
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Re: Frustrated after lap

Postby Danaa » Fri May 08, 2015 5:46 pm

Over 2 years!!i hope everything will work out eventually!
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My Ovulation Chart
.
Me 29
DH 31
After 3 years in which we tried everything we are doing IVF in Greece with Iakentro Athens.
Short Protocol with Bemfola and Cetrotide
19mature eggs and we have 9 day5 blasto.
FET#1 ended in a loss around 5 weeks
FET#2 ended in a loss at 22w due to IC,my boys will be forever in my heart .
FET#3 ?
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