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Postby peaches118 » Fri Jun 24, 2011 6:36 am

How could we have dtd the day before the day of and the day after, even ovulated on my own on cd 14. Had nice high temps...but I'm out...how can you have such a nice chart and not be pregnant! I'm just so sad today:( Oh, well on to next cycle!!
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BFP on September 11 2014!! :) One cycle off the pill! Really?!

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Postby dimac » Fri Jun 24, 2011 6:59 am

Sorry peaches! :( I feel your pain. I had a textbook chart a couple months ago and thought for sure I had a BFP, but nothing. Charting can cause so much stress sometimes.

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Postby MyMoodyMuse » Fri Jun 24, 2011 8:13 am

Aw. That happened to me too the cycle before this one. I was so disheartened. I just didn't see what I could do differently to insure I would get my BFP. I thought if it didn't happen with everything being so perfect, then how could it happen?

Because I was so discouraged, I didn't think I had to heart to try again this month. But we did and I got my BFP!

The only thing we did differently is I used OPKs so I knew FF was getting the O date right. I also felt we were going too long between when AF would start and we would start BDing again, like we needed to BD earlier in my cycle to keep the boys fresh. So we did and I think it helped. Also, we switched up positions a bit. When all was said and done we had a lot of fun and I felt better. The BFP was such a beautiful surprise.

My point is, it will happen! Maybe change things up a bit? Sending mountains of baby dust your way!!! :D
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Postby Mac8 » Sun Jun 26, 2011 12:09 pm

:( I know what you mean. My last cycle was what I thought would result in a BFP because of what I was feeling and how my chart looked, and nothing! So this is what is making me take a break from temping this month and just going with what my body and CM are telling me. The "lying in bed waiting for that moment when you look at the number on the thermometer" really kills you sometimes.

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Postby peaches118 » Wed Jun 29, 2011 1:06 pm

Thanks ladies!! I appreciate it. :) Baby Dust!
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DD (Jaiden)- 6 born (Oct. 22, 05) After 3 regular cycles
DS- (Ashton)-2 born (Dec. 18, 09) After 11 irregular cycles and 3 regular cycles thanks to SOY!!:)

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Postby dimac » Wed Jun 29, 2011 1:31 pm

I'll be your cycle buddy this month Peaches~ I'm on CD3 today. We can obsess over our charts together! lol
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Postby peaches118 » Sat Jul 02, 2011 5:05 pm

Aw! Thanks Dimac!:)
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DS- (Ashton)-2 born (Dec. 18, 09) After 11 irregular cycles and 3 regular cycles thanks to SOY!!:)

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Postby Susy07 » Sun Jul 03, 2011 8:44 pm

Sorry hun. :( Even with the best BD timing ever, there's still only a 20% chance per cycle. And I've had gorgeous triphasic charts and not been pg, and bfp charts that looked like absolute crap.
There are just so many many things that have to go just perfect in order to conceive. Sometimes I wonder how any of us get pregnant at all!
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Postby colorfulcarla » Mon Jul 04, 2011 2:16 pm

Bummer :-( Sending you baby dust for next cycle though!!!!!
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Postby StefStaf » Tue Jul 05, 2011 6:02 pm

i understand! Like Susy said, you only have a 20% chance every month. We tried for 2 years with #2. We had so many months of doing it at the right time and nothing. This time around, i wasn't paying attention and of course that's when it happened. Stress plays a part (i know, how can you not stress!?). :luck:
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Postby CaseyB » Wed Jul 06, 2011 11:19 pm

I'm sorry... that's really disappointing. Have you tried pre-seed? I can't say for sure, but I think it really helped me conceive.
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Postby peaches118 » Sat Jul 16, 2011 12:13 pm

No, I might have to try that. Thanks! Good luck ladies!:)
DH (Juan)-28
ME (Ash)-30
DD (Jaiden)- 6 born (Oct. 22, 05) After 3 regular cycles
DS- (Ashton)-2 born (Dec. 18, 09) After 11 irregular cycles and 3 regular cycles thanks to SOY!!:)

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Postby jack520 » Fri Jul 29, 2011 3:07 am

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