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pregnant at 44, very worried though

Postby annie42 » Wed Sep 08, 2010 11:49 am

Hi ladies just thought i would update you on my news, found out i was pregnant the other week but kept havin bits of bleedin so thought it was coming away, but went for an early scan today and there was a heartbeat.
Still very worried as i have had two missed miscarrages in the past two years and know how easy it can all go wrong...i sit here with legs crossed.
I am 8 weeks 4 days.
Good luck to all of you and hope this gives you hope that it can happen still.
I will keep you informed of any news good or bad.
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Postby Vanezah01 » Wed Sep 08, 2010 12:57 pm

That is fantastic I sure understand what you mean when you say about being scared. I am glad that you saw the heartbeat that is fantastic. :jump: :jump: I am glad that you are so far along. I am wishing you a happy and healthy nine months.
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Postby momin2011 » Wed Sep 08, 2010 1:32 pm

Congratulations on your pregnancy! I'm crossing my fingers and legs for you too! Stay in there baby! Stay baby Stay!
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Postby JulieS13 » Wed Sep 08, 2010 4:29 pm

Yay!!! Awesome news!!! That makes this 43 year old smile!!
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Postby sari » Sun Sep 12, 2010 8:55 am

Great news keep it up!!!!!!!!!!
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Postby momin2011 » Sun Sep 12, 2010 10:34 am

Just wondering if you conceived naturally.
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Postby annie42 » Sun Sep 12, 2010 2:52 pm

Hi yes it was natural, I live in the UK and clinics wont treat women after 40, unless you go private. (not an option for me)
I took 1 asprin a day and that was it, not sure if it helped.
I see the midwife tomorrow to book in but ive been there before and didnt get past 12 weeks,
Thats the trouble with having had several miscarrages, you lose any piece of mind. Its just stressful all the way.
But we cant give up :lol:
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Postby momin2011 » Sun Sep 12, 2010 5:49 pm

I was reading today that an aspirin a day has shown to help fertility. Never heard that before but it's amazing how much there is to learn about how to get pregnant. I've spent so many years preventing it.

Good luck with the midwife and let's us know how it goes.
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Postby annie42 » Mon Sep 13, 2010 2:19 pm

Hi ladies went to see the midwife today, went quite well, i told her about my losses and she said she would try to find the babys hearbeat on the doppler,
just to reasure me, well she couldnt find it!! and then quickly backtracked and said its too early!
Does anyone know the earliest a hearbeat can be heard through the tummy?
I am 9weeks 1day.
Least she still booked me in for dating scan so think she still got the faith lol.
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Postby JulieS13 » Mon Sep 13, 2010 2:28 pm

Annie42-My OB/GYN only attempted to find the HB at 10wks because I made him; he said 10-11weeks is too early. I'm sure all is fine, hang in there. When is your next u/s?
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Postby annie42 » Tue Sep 14, 2010 11:44 am

Hi thanks for the info Julie feel a lot better now, I am booked in for my 12 week scan so will be about 3 weeks time.
Will just take each day as it comes...well try lol
Good luck with everyone else tryin. fingers crossed for you all xx
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Postby JulieS13 » Tue Sep 14, 2010 11:59 am

Annie-do they not do weekly u/s for high risk there? When I was pregnant this last time I went in every week beginning at week 6; relieved a lot of my worry...well, until the m/c :cry:
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Postby annie42 » Tue Sep 14, 2010 12:11 pm

No Julie they only gave me one scan just to check and when every thing looked fine they just booked me in for the usual dating scan.
I would love a weekly scan.
I could go private but the scans are very expensive here. so i wait lol xx


I was sorry to read about your miscarrage, i know how you felt :(
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Postby Vanezah01 » Tue Sep 14, 2010 2:56 pm

annie: I think 9 weeks is too eary to hear it n the doppler I know they can go us and with me my insides are tilted so everything takes more time.
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Postby momin2011 » Wed Sep 15, 2010 2:52 pm

Hi Annie,
Hope you are well. Started a new cycle and added aspirin. I hope your luck rubs off on me this month.
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