Need some hope after 2nd M/C

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Postby Possum » Sun Aug 05, 2012 6:12 pm

Oh Kari - nooooooooo! I am heartbroken for you. I will pray for you both. There is hope - definitely. Counting the chemical pregnancy, we had three miscarriages -- one was a little girl with trisomy 18. But now we are about 25 weeks along and all signs are good. I just turned 43. You can do this, though I know your heart is broken right now. Don't lose hope!

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Postby Janovich » Mon Aug 06, 2012 2:32 am

Just popping in to offer a shoulder to lean on while you recover from your recent loss... :( ,.. sending my love to you..

I'm not well up on all the procedures you're going through/been though, but just couldn't not answer your thread to wish you well in the future and hope the D & C well and truely cleanses and brings you fertile times. :)

Halifax and others on here are such an inspiration and ray of hope to all us 'over 40's' ladies, so that's what keeps me trying...

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Me: 46
OH: 44
Chemical - January 2013
TTC since Feb 2012, naturally
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Postby ready2Bmom » Mon Aug 06, 2012 5:45 am

Thanks so much ladies -
Possum, I'm so glad to hear that things are progressing well for you. I understand now why you were so tentative when you got your BFP this time...!
But yes, things are getting better for us. We are relaxing on vacation this week and looking forward to next steps (transfer the 2 frozen embryos we have from the 1st IVF cycle). Have to wait another month or so.

Thanks for all the love and positive thoughts!
Me: 43 DH: 45 (all good, just age)
Natural PG: M/C 7/2011 :angel: Trisomies 5 & 15
IVF1, 5/2012: M/C 8wks :angel: Trisomy 11
FET: 10/8/12 (2 embryos) BFP!
:angel: (D&C @13wks, 12/2012) Trisomy 21
IVF2: April 2013, w/ PGS
ER = 13, 8 mature, 7 fert. w/ ICSI, 3 blasts w/ PGS (all 3 abnormal)
IVF3: June 2013, w/PGS
19 ER, 11 mature, 7 fertilized w/ ICSI, 3 blasts for PGD testing 1 NORMAL, 2 Abnormal
IVF4: July 2013, w/ PGS
9 ER, 7 fertilized w/ ICSI, 5 Blasts PGS tested, 1 NORMAL
FET: Sept 2013, 2 embryos
BFP! 13dp5dt BETA 2000, 15dp5dt BETA 4700, 18dp5dt BETA 18,000
1st U/S, 6wks,4days: TWINS! heartbeats: 122 & 125

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