9 dpo and not too hopeful

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9 dpo and not too hopeful

Postby Luvsdogs » Thu Sep 27, 2012 9:01 am

I am such a lurker and hardly post (had to redo my account with the upgrade). It has been so quiet around here with everyone waiting to O I thought I would post as I am in the tww. I started testing way too early of course at 6dpo because I just had to POAS! Now at 9 dpo with a bfn this am I am getting discouraged already. I do really feel I am out as all of my possible symptoms are unreliable. In my two previous pregnancies I had soreness under my armpits vs my boobs so and I don't have that. Wouldn't it be great if every pregnancy did feel the same? Then I would know that I was out for sure! I had such a strong feeling of nausea and a little dizzy last evening after waiting just a little too long to eat supper. I had some bread and it went away. Gosh I got hopeful for a minute!

Me 40
DH 39
Dd 12/29/2010
2 nd pregnancy late loss at 22.6 weeks baby boy with trisomy 18
Me 41
DH 40
DD Dec 2010
Baby Gavin went to heaven 21.6 weeks Trisomy 18
CP's Feb 2013, May 2013, Aug, 2013
Femara, Ovidrel, and timed bd cycles-
Oct= bfn follie sizes 18, 15, 3@14
Nov= 3 nice follies at 20, 22, 22 (also a 15 and 14) BFN :(
End Nov= follie sizes 20, 18, 16, 14.
BFP Dec 1 !!!!
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Re: 9 dpo and not too hopeful

Postby tiffanynp » Mon Oct 01, 2012 10:18 am

It is So hard to get bfn :(. And, I guess I look for same sx with next pregnancy too..I had no idea they could be different. Guess, I learned something. And, that is helpful..thanks!
Luvsdogs...how are you today? Anymore testing???
Me, Tiffany: 40. DH: 43. DD: 17mo's.
TTC#2 since June 2012.
Cycle #1: Chemical bfp June 2012 :(.
Cycle #4: Clomid 100mg cd3-7 Angel baby @ 9w1d on Nov 18, 2012 :(.
Cycle#5: Clomid 100mg cd3-7; BFN.
Cycle#6: Femara 5mg cd3-7; Angel baby#2 @ 5w4d on March 3, 2013 :(.
DIAGNOSED with MTHFR by RE on 4/8/13 as possible cause of mc...FX next preg is take home baby!!!
Cycle#7: Femara 5mg cd3-7, Ovaboost, Aspirin, and Foligard; BFP!!!!!!! :)
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DD conceived on first cycle of Clomid 100mg after 3cycles BFN on Clomid 50mg.
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Re: 9 dpo and not too hopeful

Postby Luvsdogs » Tue Oct 02, 2012 8:26 pm

Thanks for the replies ladies. And yes, I poas way too many more times! 14dpo today and no AF, no bfp. I am sure she will be here tomorrow. I even treated myself to a jalapeño blue cheese burger and a couple of beers tonight! Going to try to be less preoccupied with theninternet and forums at least for 2 1/2 weeks anyway! I am upset but really trying not to dwell. That is at least my coping mechanism, stay busy with my LO.
Me 41
DH 40
DD Dec 2010
Baby Gavin went to heaven 21.6 weeks Trisomy 18
CP's Feb 2013, May 2013, Aug, 2013
Femara, Ovidrel, and timed bd cycles-
Oct= bfn follie sizes 18, 15, 3@14
Nov= 3 nice follies at 20, 22, 22 (also a 15 and 14) BFN :(
End Nov= follie sizes 20, 18, 16, 14.
BFP Dec 1 !!!!
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Re: 9 dpo and not too hopeful

Postby tiffanynp » Wed Oct 03, 2012 7:19 am

So sorry about the "no bfp" :(. It is no fun. And yes, keeping yourself busy with LO makes it MUCH EASIER. HUGS to you and Good luck this cycle!!!
Me, Tiffany: 40. DH: 43. DD: 17mo's.
TTC#2 since June 2012.
Cycle #1: Chemical bfp June 2012 :(.
Cycle #4: Clomid 100mg cd3-7 Angel baby @ 9w1d on Nov 18, 2012 :(.
Cycle#5: Clomid 100mg cd3-7; BFN.
Cycle#6: Femara 5mg cd3-7; Angel baby#2 @ 5w4d on March 3, 2013 :(.
DIAGNOSED with MTHFR by RE on 4/8/13 as possible cause of mc...FX next preg is take home baby!!!
Cycle#7: Femara 5mg cd3-7, Ovaboost, Aspirin, and Foligard; BFP!!!!!!! :)
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DD conceived on first cycle of Clomid 100mg after 3cycles BFN on Clomid 50mg.
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