VENT RANT = BFN 12DPO

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VENT RANT = BFN 12DPO

Postby achievabledreams » Fri Apr 26, 2013 5:42 am

hi everyone

tested today friday 26th bfn I think I'm 12dpo period due mon I've a 29day cycle thought dtd a few hours before ovulation pains including the night before would of done the trick but no tested with one of those up to four days early hpt

had a shitty letter from someone today too

shall try next month should that not be a bfp shall have a few months off to detox unstress lose weight!
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Re: VENT RANT = BFN 12DPO

Postby Enthusiasm4life » Fri Apr 26, 2013 7:53 am

Hey there! 10dpo here and bfn this morning with fmu. No symptoms at all (unlike other misleading months) ugh! Next month I am signed up for an hsg, hoping it'll do the trick. I've been waiting too long. 5 yrs ttc. Need a miracle ;-( so depressed today
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Re: VENT RANT = BFN 12DPO

Postby Enthusiasm4life » Fri Apr 26, 2013 8:42 am

My period is due Tuesday, I am starting to wonder what could be wrong with me. It sounds like we're on the same schedule! Your welcome to private message me anytime and we can follow our cycles together :-)
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Re: VENT RANT = BFN 12DPO

Postby NeonKity28 » Fri Apr 26, 2013 11:55 am

I feel ya ladies 12dpo today negative test last night AF is due Sunday. I had stabbing pains last night but got a BFN.. Feeling pretty down right now. I also used a hpt test 5days before missed period..
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Re: VENT RANT = BFN 12DPO

Postby achievabledreams » Fri Apr 26, 2013 1:09 pm

hi 2ww gang

its ultra depressing isn't it I want baby no 2 to be in my womb right now all snuggly but those bloody early hpt's which tell you nothing is horrible I feel guilty for being the teeniest bit mad when I read bfp on 12dpo for others on the home page I realize how distressing this can be for those who don't get their bfp early

why did I fall pregnant just before my 40th in one attempt? tbh haven't really ttc properly on the exact right day or night whatever that is before but thought we did this month

don't want to try other methods just naturelamente

I'm 44 husband is 38

does a bfn 12dpo = bfp in a couple of days

should it not be a bfp we should all try next month giving each other tips before during ovulation including in the 2ww

I'm due on 29th who else is meant to be getting af next week give your cycle length including whether its baby 1 2 3 or 20 ha which cds did you dtd

don't understand the ovulation stitch type cramps I had cd15 they were ultra painful woke me up in the early hours!

lots of baby sparkles to everyone
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Re: VENT RANT = BFN 12DPO

Postby 10thtimearound » Fri Apr 26, 2013 8:35 pm

I am so sorry for your BFN:( HVe you done much research on ttcing after 40? There are a few tests you can do to see where your Hormon "levels" are at as well as charting with Basil body thermometer to confirm if you are Acually Oing or not. www.fertilityfriend.com is a great site to learn about that. I am just turned 43 last month and currently seeing a RE and on ovulation meds to help make more eggies for more targets. I had my last baby at 40 and been ttcing for almost a year now for #10. I wish you the best and hope this info helps :)
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Re: VENT RANT = BFN 12DPO

Postby achievabledreams » Sat Apr 27, 2013 9:58 am

wow ttc no 10 youv'e been busy

had blood sample done last year for ovulation which was normal might phone drs to do the day 21 test next month

I had good cm this cycle have regular cycles too

the fun of ttc been told to de stress!

shall try
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