March 2010 IVF, FET, with Betas 6 BFPs So far

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Who Got a BFP and Who got a BFN in the March Group?

Poll ended at Fri Apr 30, 2010 8:07 pm

BFN?
3
33%
BFP?
6
67%
 
Total votes : 9

Postby dharaksin » Fri May 14, 2010 7:44 am

Everyone must be busy on this board -- it's too quiet!

I had another beta done on Wednesday - it was 2458! At least my numbers are going up. Still "spotting" dark to bright red. Going in for 6-week sono next Friday.

Hope everyone is doing well.
Denise
Me 46
DH 44
TTC #1 since 1/03
MC x3
IUI x5 starting 7/2009 - all BFN
IVF - ET 2/10/10 - 1 blast - BFN
2nd IVF - ER 4/15/10 and ET 4/20/10 (2 embies) BFP 4/30; miscarried 6/1/10

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Postby Nicrye » Fri May 14, 2010 1:28 pm

Dhara-Yea this board was way busier when we were in cycle. I still like it the best though. The prego boards are kind of a mess lol! There isn't one board where our group chats. WE should make a March April May IVF BFP board over in the prego boards! Maybe Irish can do it she is genius on here!
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Postby irishsweetie2003 » Fri May 14, 2010 5:29 pm

Nic.... You could start one.... It's been crazy here. Working full time, going to school for my degree and volunteering for the court. Completely crazy!
But, I would definately drop by to chat with anyone who starts a chat forum. Start it and I will see if I can make it a perminent forum.
DH: 35  ME: 31 DS 12 DS 9 DS 1 (With DH) 3 miscarriages (1Chemical, 2 Blighted Ovums) #1 IVF 2008=BFP (Two 5AA Blasts 5dt) FET#1 March 17th 2010 Transfering 3AB and a 5AA Blast for ST PATTY's DAY!!!!!  LUCK OF THE IRISH!!!!! BFP on the 22nd!!!!BFP BFP BFP!!!!  Beta 12dpo (7dp 5dt)...  52..... Beta19dpo(14dp 5dt) 1302
Beta 23dpo (18dp 5dt) 9624...
8W Ultrasound: :hb: 163
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Postby fanwans » Sat May 15, 2010 7:02 pm

dhara- can you have another u/s earlier cos you can defiantely see hb by 6 weeks.

shannon
Me 29 DH 33 MFI
ttc since oct 2006
miscarriage dec 2006 11 weeks
ivf #1 icsi BFN
ivf #2 FET
ivf #3 icsi BFN
ivf #4 FET BFP!! Julianna born 11/4/2009
IVF # 5 FET BFP!! 1st beta 52 14dpo, 2nd beta 15dpo 70, 3rd beta 19dpo 526!! 4th beta 24 dpo 3604 yay edd 28/3/2011
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Postby dharaksin » Sun May 16, 2010 12:58 pm

Shannon - I am scheduled for my u/s on Friday. Hopefully we will see a heartbeat!

Denise
Me 46
DH 44
TTC #1 since 1/03
MC x3
IUI x5 starting 7/2009 - all BFN
IVF - ET 2/10/10 - 1 blast - BFN
2nd IVF - ER 4/15/10 and ET 4/20/10 (2 embies) BFP 4/30; miscarried 6/1/10

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Postby irishsweetie2003 » Sun May 16, 2010 2:50 pm

MY NT scan is the same day.... How kool is that? Make sure you post the pics of the little bean. :mrgreen:
DH: 35  ME: 31 DS 12 DS 9 DS 1 (With DH) 3 miscarriages (1Chemical, 2 Blighted Ovums) #1 IVF 2008=BFP (Two 5AA Blasts 5dt) FET#1 March 17th 2010 Transfering 3AB and a 5AA Blast for ST PATTY's DAY!!!!!  LUCK OF THE IRISH!!!!! BFP on the 22nd!!!!BFP BFP BFP!!!!  Beta 12dpo (7dp 5dt)...  52..... Beta19dpo(14dp 5dt) 1302
Beta 23dpo (18dp 5dt) 9624...
8W Ultrasound: :hb: 163
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Postby dharaksin » Thu May 20, 2010 5:54 pm

Spotting still comes and goes this week. Scheduled for u/s tomorrow. Scared to death and have a sick feeling in the pit of my stomach that they aren't going to see anything. Anyone else have that feeling?
Me 46
DH 44
TTC #1 since 1/03
MC x3
IUI x5 starting 7/2009 - all BFN
IVF - ET 2/10/10 - 1 blast - BFN
2nd IVF - ER 4/15/10 and ET 4/20/10 (2 embies) BFP 4/30; miscarried 6/1/10

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Postby irishsweetie2003 » Thu May 20, 2010 9:28 pm

Hun, I know how scary it can be.... Three losses has helped me develop empathy for others who are in limbo like I have been so many times. In my years of TTC and getting PG... I have been blessed to have seen miracles.... I was unfortunate, but seeing others turn out fine.... It gave me hope.
I will say a prayer for you... I go in for my NT scan tomorrow and I'm so cerbuious about them finding something. I don't think it would change anything. I would more then likely continue till the end... But each step... Each hurdle.... We drive ourselves with worry...
When they find the little bean.... Try not to drive yourself crazy worrying. Try to relax and enjoy the remaining 9 months...
DH: 35  ME: 31 DS 12 DS 9 DS 1 (With DH) 3 miscarriages (1Chemical, 2 Blighted Ovums) #1 IVF 2008=BFP (Two 5AA Blasts 5dt) FET#1 March 17th 2010 Transfering 3AB and a 5AA Blast for ST PATTY's DAY!!!!!  LUCK OF THE IRISH!!!!! BFP on the 22nd!!!!BFP BFP BFP!!!!  Beta 12dpo (7dp 5dt)...  52..... Beta19dpo(14dp 5dt) 1302
Beta 23dpo (18dp 5dt) 9624...
8W Ultrasound: :hb: 163
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Postby KrisClaire » Fri May 21, 2010 6:21 am

Denise, it might just be your age... My bff had spotting this last pregnancy really bad. She was flipping out all 36 weeks about it. She also had severe morning sickness. it was her 3rd pregnancy and she had twin (fraternal) girls. she was not doing ivf or iuis.. it happened naturally.. with all her problems and she had trouble staying positive it all worked out. I feel you are in the same situation.. if you need someone to keep you positive the whole pregnancy i will stand right by you. You're a sweetheart and you deserve this baby and its gonna happen. the little one wants its mommy.
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Me-39 DH-30
DH- SA 95% abnormal, 14.3% motil
ME - Prolactinoma with no cause (142.1 with no tumor - taking bromocriptine)
IUI #1 - 09/4/09 no good
IUI #2 - 9/29/09 ,9/30/09 no good
IUI #3 - 10/25/09, 10/26/09 no good
IUI #4 - 11/21/09, CD 14 no good
2-17 4 polyps found.. reason iui's didnt work.surgery 2-25
IVF#1 March 2010 - BFN
IVF#2 June 2010 - BFN

That is it.. we are done
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Postby dharaksin » Fri May 21, 2010 12:15 pm

Well, my feelings were right. My bleeding is due to a subchorionic hemorrhage above the gestational sac. They said the gest sac was much smaller than it should be and no heartbeat was seen. I will continue meds and go back on Monday to see if there is any change, but my RE is already talking D&C.
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DH 44
TTC #1 since 1/03
MC x3
IUI x5 starting 7/2009 - all BFN
IVF - ET 2/10/10 - 1 blast - BFN
2nd IVF - ER 4/15/10 and ET 4/20/10 (2 embies) BFP 4/30; miscarried 6/1/10

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Postby fanwans » Sat May 22, 2010 4:11 am

dhara,

dont give up yet! when i was coming on here years ago whilst trying ivf for my daughter one of the girls annmarie had a subchorionic haematoma (correct spelling?) during the whole pregnancy and it would make her bleed throughout her pregnancy but she gave birth to a beautiful baby even with it there the whole time. is it possible that the haematoma is just in the way of the sac and being able to see a h/b?? take care. i am praying for you.

shannon
Me 29 DH 33 MFI
ttc since oct 2006
miscarriage dec 2006 11 weeks
ivf #1 icsi BFN
ivf #2 FET
ivf #3 icsi BFN
ivf #4 FET BFP!! Julianna born 11/4/2009
IVF # 5 FET BFP!! 1st beta 52 14dpo, 2nd beta 15dpo 70, 3rd beta 19dpo 526!! 4th beta 24 dpo 3604 yay edd 28/3/2011
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Postby irishsweetie2003 » Sat May 22, 2010 9:01 pm

Unfortunately, the hemotoma wouldn't get in the way....

I feel your pain hun.... I went through 2 pregnancies where I went in and they couldn't find a fetal pole, a yolk, or a HB.... Two blighted ovums... We stalled and stalled, just hoping and praying to give them a few more days to form and perform a mericle.... I will pray for a mericle for your pregnancy.... mine may have ended in tragedy, but others were blessed.
DH: 35  ME: 31 DS 12 DS 9 DS 1 (With DH) 3 miscarriages (1Chemical, 2 Blighted Ovums) #1 IVF 2008=BFP (Two 5AA Blasts 5dt) FET#1 March 17th 2010 Transfering 3AB and a 5AA Blast for ST PATTY's DAY!!!!!  LUCK OF THE IRISH!!!!! BFP on the 22nd!!!!BFP BFP BFP!!!!  Beta 12dpo (7dp 5dt)...  52..... Beta19dpo(14dp 5dt) 1302
Beta 23dpo (18dp 5dt) 9624...
8W Ultrasound: :hb: 163
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Postby fanwans » Mon May 24, 2010 1:31 am

dhara- have you had another scan yet?? praying for you.,
shannon
Me 29 DH 33 MFI
ttc since oct 2006
miscarriage dec 2006 11 weeks
ivf #1 icsi BFN
ivf #2 FET
ivf #3 icsi BFN
ivf #4 FET BFP!! Julianna born 11/4/2009
IVF # 5 FET BFP!! 1st beta 52 14dpo, 2nd beta 15dpo 70, 3rd beta 19dpo 526!! 4th beta 24 dpo 3604 yay edd 28/3/2011
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Postby Nicrye » Mon May 24, 2010 1:49 pm

dhara-I hope all is well with you. Any news? You are in my prayers. Not that you want to hear this but I have been so sick that I told DH the next time I want a surrogate...just don't give up there are always options! *hugs*
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Postby dharaksin » Mon May 24, 2010 2:07 pm

Just got back from my RE appt. He couldn't even see the gestational sac today, all he could see was the blood clot. Beta level is 100. We are on our way out. Waiting to hear from my OB to see what he would like me to do.
Me 46
DH 44
TTC #1 since 1/03
MC x3
IUI x5 starting 7/2009 - all BFN
IVF - ET 2/10/10 - 1 blast - BFN
2nd IVF - ER 4/15/10 and ET 4/20/10 (2 embies) BFP 4/30; miscarried 6/1/10

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