HELP, I need something encouraging to hold onto

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HELP, I need something encouraging to hold onto

Postby tiredofpain » Tue Dec 22, 2015 3:27 pm

I have been through so much this year. Mu husband and I went through IVF #1 and had a BFP, ended in miscarriage in June 2015. We had IVF#2 and had a BFP, ended in 2 emergency surgeries for ruptured twin ectopic pregnancies (one on my left ovary and one on the lining of my stomach). IVF 2 loss happened the night of the wake for my brother in law. Through the two surgeries, they removed my fallopian tubes and some endometriosis, then did a D&C.

I was told that I am now in the best position for IVF to work. IVF 3 is a FET and we had the transfer at 1:30 last Tuesday, December 15, 2015. I know some people are against POAS, however with my last cycles, I got positives on 5dpt5dt.

This third cycle, we did the FET and had 2 embryos (hatching)transferred. Today, I am now 7dpt5dt (as of 1:30 pm CST). I just did a HPT and it was NEG (BFN). I am devastated as this was the only thing I had left to look forward to.

Is all hope lost?
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Re: HELP, I need something encouraging to hold onto

Postby Sunshinetex » Wed Dec 23, 2015 5:14 am

Tiredofpain, I am so sorry for all you have been through. Hang in there - it could be too early. My only bfp and current pregnancy came on my 3rd fresh cycle, after having my tubes cauterized. Good luck on your journey. It will be worth it!
Me - 41
BF - 39
TTC #1 - Sept 2012

Hsg October 2014 - blocked tube. Straight to ivf
Ivf #1 - feb 2015 - bfn
Ivf #2 -may 2015 -
5/7 - 10 eggs retrieved, 9 fertilized
5/12 - et. 5 day transfer - 1 blastocyst and 2 morulas - bfn
7/2 - surgery to remove/repair tubes - tubes cauterized
Ivf #3 - sept 2015
9/10 - 13 eggs retrieved, 10 fertilized
9/15 - et 5 day transfer 3 blastocysts....
9/24 beta 152 9dp5dt
9/28 2nd beta 248 13 dp5dt
9/30 beta #3 468 15dp5dt
10/3 beta #4 1672 18dp5dt
10/9 u/s 1 baby
10/19 u/s 1 baby with heartbeat of 140. Due June 3, 2016.
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Re: HELP, I need something encouraging to hold onto

Postby Nickysy » Thu Dec 24, 2015 1:33 am

I am sorry to hear that you had to go thr so much. Sending prayers your way that you get your bfp soon! 7dpt can still be very early. So just try and hold on to. Fx, u will soon hear what yoy want
My Ovulation Chart

Me(33), DH (31), Ttc#1 since Sep 2015
Mild endometriosis and PCOD diagnosed feb 2015, DH: Slightly low morphology, great counts.

Nov-Dec 2015- Clomid plus trigger- BFN
HSG-Feb 2016: Tubes perfectly clear
March 2016 IUI: Clomid+Estrogen+ HCG trigger+ Progesterone: BFN
Feb and March 2017- IUI ( Clomid + Hcg Trigger+ Progesterone)- BFN

IVF#1- May-June 2017: 6 embabies frozen on day 3. No fresh transfer.

FET#1- Oct 2017: 3 embabies * day 3 Transferred. Chemical pregnancy.
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