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12dp3dFET need a glimmer of hope

Postby Eavesjd » Wed Mar 02, 2016 10:13 am

Hi! I think I just need some type of hope or to know if there is none. I have taken 6 HPT (FRER) all being BFN. We transferred out only two 3 day embies and I am about to go into the black hole of depression. We have done two stim cycles with one egg retrieved and fertilized each cycle. I did have some brown mucus discharge on Monday that I was praying would be implantation bleeding and some cramping but still BFN's. My BETA is on Friday but I am not optimistic at this point. Anyone else have similar stories?
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Re: 12dp3dFET need a glimmer of hope

Postby Sunshinetex » Wed Mar 02, 2016 4:26 pm

Sorry eavesjd. I don't have a similar story, but wish you luck on Friday.
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BF - 39
TTC #1 - Sept 2012

Hsg October 2014 - blocked tube. Straight to ivf
Ivf #1 - feb 2015 - bfn
Ivf #2 -may 2015 -
5/7 - 10 eggs retrieved, 9 fertilized
5/12 - et. 5 day transfer - 1 blastocyst and 2 morulas - bfn
7/2 - surgery to remove/repair tubes - tubes cauterized
Ivf #3 - sept 2015
9/10 - 13 eggs retrieved, 10 fertilized
9/15 - et 5 day transfer 3 blastocysts....
9/24 beta 152 9dp5dt
9/28 2nd beta 248 13 dp5dt
9/30 beta #3 468 15dp5dt
10/3 beta #4 1672 18dp5dt
10/9 u/s 1 baby
10/19 u/s 1 baby with heartbeat of 140. Due June 3, 2016.
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Re: 12dp3dFET need a glimmer of hope

Postby Danaa » Thu Mar 03, 2016 3:59 pm

I'm writing to give you a little hope,it is possible to get a later bfp,a while back I read a story,this girl poas before her beta and it was negative but when she went for beta around 14days past transfer her beta was positive,I know the chances are low for that happening but it can.Hugs to you.
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19mature eggs and we have 9 day5 blasto.
FET#1 ended in a loss around 5 weeks
FET#2 ended in a loss at 22w due to IC,my boys will be forever in my heart .
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Re: 12dp3dFET need a glimmer of hope

Postby ABelle » Thu Mar 03, 2016 6:42 pm

I don't have any words of advice but good luck on Friday. Keep us posted!
Me {Anne}- 33 :hi: (Hypothyroidism, Single A1298C MTHFR, Endometriosis, ANA neg)
DH- 42. (amazeballs) :wiggle:
Married since 2005. TTC 60 months before finally getting our positive!

2 Lap Surgeries, 3 HSGs, 4 rounds of Clomid, 3 IUI's, 1 IVF cancelled (cysts) = all :bfn:

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Re: 12dp3dFET need a glimmer of hope

Postby Eavesjd » Fri Mar 04, 2016 1:59 pm

We just got the call. BETA was less than 1. It's so frustrating because the cards are already stacked so high against us. We did two stim cycles and only retrieved and fertilized one egg each time
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Re: 12dp3dFET need a glimmer of hope

Postby Danaa » Fri Mar 04, 2016 2:01 pm

Im sorry.What are ur next steps?
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Me 29
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After 3 years in which we tried everything we are doing IVF in Greece with Iakentro Athens.
Short Protocol with Bemfola and Cetrotide
19mature eggs and we have 9 day5 blasto.
FET#1 ended in a loss around 5 weeks
FET#2 ended in a loss at 22w due to IC,my boys will be forever in my heart .
FET#3 ?
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Re: 12dp3dFET need a glimmer of hope

Postby Eavesjd » Sat Mar 05, 2016 8:36 am

We need with the doctor on Wednesday to discuss our next steps. We are cash paying customers so we were able to negotiate a great deal on a two stim cycle before the retrieval but will try for probably 4 this time because of my low AMH (.109) we only yielded two 3 day embies and I want them to go to 5 days this time.
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Re: 12dp3dFET need a glimmer of hope

Postby Danaa » Sat Mar 05, 2016 9:41 am

Good luck and I hope is going to work this time.
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Me 29
DH 31
After 3 years in which we tried everything we are doing IVF in Greece with Iakentro Athens.
Short Protocol with Bemfola and Cetrotide
19mature eggs and we have 9 day5 blasto.
FET#1 ended in a loss around 5 weeks
FET#2 ended in a loss at 22w due to IC,my boys will be forever in my heart .
FET#3 ?
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Re: 12dp3dFET need a glimmer of hope

Postby elbee » Wed Mar 30, 2016 10:02 pm

I'm so sorry that you haven't had success yet. If you only have a couple of embryos I wouldn't push for a day 5 transfer. They really do better in mommy, because while the lab is a close second it really is not quite as good as the natural environment they need to thrive. I am a poor responder also and have a 3.5 yo dd from a three day transfer of two embryos, a 5-cell and a 6-cell. It is likely that they would not have made it to day 5, and then we would not have our precious DD! I hope for the best for you!
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July '10-Me-high FSH, DH-<2% motility + ASA

IVF #1 Jan '11-3 mature eggs, 1 fertilized w/ICSI but did not divide, 1 zygote transferred on day 3-BFN
IVF #2 March '11-8 eggs, 4 mature, 0 fertilized w/ICSI :cry:
IVF #3 July '11 cancelled-converted to IUI-BFN
IVF #4 Sep. '11-7 retrieved, 3 mature, all 3 fertilized with thawed TESE sperm.
Transferred 2 beautiful embryos on day 3 :) BFP :D Beta#1=256 (15dpo) Beta#2=568 (17dpo) Beta#3=1864 (20dpo)
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