A Christmas miracle!FET December buddies!!

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Re: A Christmas miracle!FET December buddies!!

Postby johnnyswifey » Sun May 07, 2017 8:33 am

Amen to that Danaa! You ladies have been my rock! I think you have a doctor that can do the job to get you pregnant! But also need a doctor that can be more attentive to subtle signs that may cause issues later. Not saying your doctor was not being attentive, but now they know to pay closer attention!!!!! I think next time, no matter if one or two transferred, you will be successful and carry to term!!!
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12/19/16: BFP!!! MC 01/12/17
04/15/17: BFP!!! MC 05/11/17

Let’s go 2018!!!!!!

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Re: A Christmas miracle!FET December buddies!!

Postby Danaa » Sun May 07, 2017 9:26 am

Thank you Toni.
Some days I don't even want to think about another pregnancy like today...I find everything so unfair,if I do try again and get pregnant I won't be able to enjoy the pregnancy,I won't buy anything and I won't tell anyone until we reach viability...I will have to have a stitch and spend my time on bed rest,is just fucking unfair and im hurting.
As for my doctor,I thought he was very cautious during my pregnancy,he saw me pretty often always checked my cervical length,he didn't told me to stop progesterone and he always advised me to take it easy,I don't know what else he could've done during the pregnancy to prevent this....Im not happy and not at peace that I lost amniotic fluid,I was put under to get a stitch so I can't know if he messed up or it was my body,that is what bugs me,I want to believe that a doctor that does his job with so much passion wouldn't have messed up but anything is possible...Is hard being in a foreign country and not speaks the language properly....
Oh well Life.....
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After 3 years in which we tried everything we are doing IVF in Greece with Iakentro Athens.
Short Protocol with Bemfola and Cetrotide
19mature eggs and we have 9 day5 blasto.
FET#1 ended in a very early loss,chemical pregnancy.
FET#2 ended in a loss at 22w due to IC,my boys will be forever in my heart .
FET#3 MMC at the 10 weeks ultrasound.
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Re: A Christmas miracle!FET December buddies!!

Postby johnnyswifey » Mon May 08, 2017 8:34 am

Ugh Danaa! Your pain is very real and is the only way you should be feeling right now! I can totally understand you not wanting to get pregnant at the moment as the devastation is just too much right now!!! I had no idea the Dr was checking your cervix often and that is scary to know it all happened so quickly for you! I hate to ask, but it sounds like you're saying you were losing your fluids and they put you under for the cerlage and then your body delivered on its own?? That's fucked up!!! And my soul hurts everyday for you. You may not be ready for another pregnancy but maybe they can do the cerlage earlier next time when you are ready??
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09/26/16: BFP!!! Preg in unknown loc 10/12/17
12/19/16: BFP!!! MC 01/12/17
04/15/17: BFP!!! MC 05/11/17

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Re: A Christmas miracle!FET December buddies!!

Postby johnnyswifey » Mon May 08, 2017 8:40 am

AFM I have been bleeding off and on constantly since my last appt. I've been taking it easy and staying home from work. Saturday morning I woke up to heavy bleeding that tapered off within an hour. Then last night, before showering, I had heavy bleeding that was dripping down and then tapered off to nothing within an hour and nothing by this morning. I am cramping on and off tho, especially when I have to pee.
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Angel babies 9-22-09, 10-12-16, 1-12-17, 5-11-17

09/26/16: BFP!!! Preg in unknown loc 10/12/17
12/19/16: BFP!!! MC 01/12/17
04/15/17: BFP!!! MC 05/11/17

Let’s go 2018!!!!!!

01/14/18: BFP!!!! Chem 1/22/18
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Re: A Christmas miracle!FET December buddies!!

Postby Danaa » Mon May 08, 2017 8:52 am

Toni im really sorry to hear ur bleeding still,I think some vaginal or oral progesterone can help with that and also maybe stop the blood thinners for 2days?
I wasn't losing fluid,at my anatomy scan the doc saw my cervix was a bit open and I went to the hospital to get a cerclaj and while the doctor tried to give me one I lost amniotic fluid bcs the sac ruptured and after that i woke up and they induced labor wich happened the next days.
The doc said I should get a cerclaj at 11w next pregnancy.
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Short Protocol with Bemfola and Cetrotide
19mature eggs and we have 9 day5 blasto.
FET#1 ended in a very early loss,chemical pregnancy.
FET#2 ended in a loss at 22w due to IC,my boys will be forever in my heart .
FET#3 MMC at the 10 weeks ultrasound.
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Re: A Christmas miracle!FET December buddies!!

Postby johnnyswifey » Mon May 08, 2017 3:33 pm

Oh my gosh! I'm so sorry!!
I agree with what you said I'd like to not take my blood thinners but they won't let me. My PIO is now at 1.5cc and my last progesterone levels last Tuesday, at 5w5d, was 39.5 and my hcg at that time was 23,838. I feel like my progesterone should have been higher with those hcg levels but everywhere I look says 17-49 at that stage is good. I'm just so lost with this on and off bleeding its wrecking my nerves!!! I don't know what to think. If it's another mc, I wish it would just hurry up and end and not keep me in this limbo. I hope I can make it to Thursday because that's my next scan and maybe we can see what is going on. Even today I am spotting brown and dark almost black discharge. I just want this to go away so I can enjoy this for once.
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Angel babies 9-22-09, 10-12-16, 1-12-17, 5-11-17

09/26/16: BFP!!! Preg in unknown loc 10/12/17
12/19/16: BFP!!! MC 01/12/17
04/15/17: BFP!!! MC 05/11/17

Let’s go 2018!!!!!!

01/14/18: BFP!!!! Chem 1/22/18
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Re: A Christmas miracle!FET December buddies!!

Postby Danaa » Mon May 08, 2017 4:25 pm

Toni ur progesterone is fine!!
I know what you mean about the bleeding,I had it for my whole first trimester.
I really think you should get some vaginal progesterone and see if that helps with the bleeding.
I don't know why but bleeding in Ivf pregnancy is really comun.
I think you should be on bed rest as well,just in case.or spend as much time as you can in bed laying down not standing on ur bum,that puts pressure on ur uterus...I don't know what to say to help out.
If this is an sch does ur doc have any idea why do you get them?can they be avoided in the future?
I noticed lots of women get them without any reason and the doctors can't give an explanation...
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After 3 years in which we tried everything we are doing IVF in Greece with Iakentro Athens.
Short Protocol with Bemfola and Cetrotide
19mature eggs and we have 9 day5 blasto.
FET#1 ended in a very early loss,chemical pregnancy.
FET#2 ended in a loss at 22w due to IC,my boys will be forever in my heart .
FET#3 MMC at the 10 weeks ultrasound.
FET#4 2018
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Re: A Christmas miracle!FET December buddies!!

Postby johnnyswifey » Mon May 08, 2017 6:24 pm

Well, my last scan at 5w5d the re said there wasn't any blood to be seen but two days later I passed 2 decent sized clots and after that they tested me again instead of doing another scan in fear of disrupting anything and my levels rose to 45,445 (3 days later) so now I have this heavy bleeding that came Sat and Sun for an hour or two and so far nothing really today and I hope it stays that way. I've had cramping off and on regardless of bleeding, so hopefully I make it to Thursday and everything is fine. Ill be sure to stay off my feet. And I hope they'll add the extra progesterone.
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Angel babies 9-22-09, 10-12-16, 1-12-17, 5-11-17

09/26/16: BFP!!! Preg in unknown loc 10/12/17
12/19/16: BFP!!! MC 01/12/17
04/15/17: BFP!!! MC 05/11/17

Let’s go 2018!!!!!!

01/14/18: BFP!!!! Chem 1/22/18
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Re: A Christmas miracle!FET December buddies!!

Postby furbabymom » Tue May 09, 2017 3:18 pm

Hi ladies!

Dana - is there another doctor you can at least meet with to just chat? I can only imagine the emotions you'll be feelings if you go through another cycle and having full trust in your doc will be super important. Not that I'm implying your doctor did anything wrong. But it sounds like you maybe (rightfully so) questioning him right now. Just a thought.

Toni - how are you? I know how scary bleeding is, and I agree with Dana - bedrest as much as possible. With both my pregnancies I have ended up with a sch- doc can't explain it. With my dd I had 2 bleeding episodes and at one point bled for 3 weeks straight (13-16 weeks) and was out of work on doctor ordered bed rest. Hopefully they can find the cause on Thursday!

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Re: A Christmas miracle!FET December buddies!!

Postby Danaa » Tue May 09, 2017 3:38 pm

Fur i think there is another doctor at the clinic,he performed the transfer last time bcs my doc wasn't there.
Im questioning my doctor and i think is just a natural feeling at this point,i have nothing to say regarding his work before the tragedy,he did his job very well,I got pregnant twice with his helps,I think im more bothered by the fact that he will remind me of my loss and that he couldn't do anything....once im ready to go see him for the post partum check up I will see how my feelings are but for now I'm not ready to see him,im starting to feel better and I'm 80% back to myself.
I have not seen an update form Ana.
How are you feeling?!
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Me 29
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After 3 years in which we tried everything we are doing IVF in Greece with Iakentro Athens.
Short Protocol with Bemfola and Cetrotide
19mature eggs and we have 9 day5 blasto.
FET#1 ended in a very early loss,chemical pregnancy.
FET#2 ended in a loss at 22w due to IC,my boys will be forever in my heart .
FET#3 MMC at the 10 weeks ultrasound.
FET#4 2018
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Re: A Christmas miracle!FET December buddies!!

Postby johnnyswifey » Wed May 10, 2017 9:25 am

Hi ladies.
Danaa it is so good to know that you are addressing your feelings and being honest with yourself. I think that has caused your healing gprocess to go much better than most! It makes my worry less for you. Do what you need to do and what makes you comfortable when you're ready! Kisses!!

Fur I'm much better today. No bleeding or spotting yet for the day while h is encouraging! I am just praying my baby is alive in there and I can hear the heartbeat. That's my new anxiety; although I've already prepped myself for the worst, because with me, you just never know!!!

I had a bout of nausea, then indigestion then vomiting last night. I felt so much better after throwing up. I peed almost every hour last night and felt sick when I woke up to pee. Since waking up, I've had no bleeding and no sickness. So, maybe it was something I ate earlier in the day or maybe my stomach was empty because the last time I ate a snack was around 7p and I threw up around 11p- idk. Then I had the craziest vivid dream too! Maybe I'm hoping too hard.
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Angel babies 9-22-09, 10-12-16, 1-12-17, 5-11-17

09/26/16: BFP!!! Preg in unknown loc 10/12/17
12/19/16: BFP!!! MC 01/12/17
04/15/17: BFP!!! MC 05/11/17

Let’s go 2018!!!!!!

01/14/18: BFP!!!! Chem 1/22/18
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Re: A Christmas miracle!FET December buddies!!

Postby furbabymom » Wed May 10, 2017 4:48 pm

Dana - I completely agree, and think everything you are feeling is normal. When you're ready see how you feel around him and go from there.

Toni - good luck tomorrow! I think the nausea is a good sign!
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ER 2/17/15 16 eggs retrieved, 13 fertilized, day 5 transferred one EBAA 5 frosties
FRER 2/27 5dp5dt BFP
Beta 1 3/4 207.5
Beta 2 3/6 537

It's a girl! Everleigh Rose born 10/20/2015

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Re: A Christmas miracle!FET December buddies!!

Postby Amouna87 » Thu May 11, 2017 7:50 am

Toni- hope the scan goes well!

Dana, hope you are doing as well as can be expected, I read in your other group about the argument you had with DH, I hope everything is okay now, words are said that aren't meant in hard times especially men sometimes they don't know how to deal with their feelings and it comes out in bitterness. Your flight had zero to do with anything, you don't get an incompetent cervix from flying abroad so don't even let that enter your head, what happened was a devastating tragedy and nothing that you did or didn't do, and I am sure your DH knows this its just the hurt coming out. I get what you mean about seeing the same doctor, maybe see the other one as well and see how you feel. The fact you were under must make it so much more frustrating for you because you still don't know exactly what happened. May God bless you with your take home baby very very soon. Hugs

Shannon- what's new with you? Any closer to transfer? Hope all is good

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Re: A Christmas miracle!FET December buddies!!

Postby johnnyswifey » Thu May 11, 2017 10:36 am

Hi ladies. I miscarried at around 2:30 this morning
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Angel babies 9-22-09, 10-12-16, 1-12-17, 5-11-17

09/26/16: BFP!!! Preg in unknown loc 10/12/17
12/19/16: BFP!!! MC 01/12/17
04/15/17: BFP!!! MC 05/11/17

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Re: A Christmas miracle!FET December buddies!!

Postby Danaa » Thu May 11, 2017 10:42 am

johnnyswifey wrote:Hi ladies. I miscarried at around 2:30 this morning

This news....a knife just went trough my heart,that is how I felt when I read it!!
Oh my God Toni!!!!!Nooooo Fucking f**k,this life is just not fair!!!!!
Im really sorry,take all the time you need to heal and then return to us!!!
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After 3 years in which we tried everything we are doing IVF in Greece with Iakentro Athens.
Short Protocol with Bemfola and Cetrotide
19mature eggs and we have 9 day5 blasto.
FET#1 ended in a very early loss,chemical pregnancy.
FET#2 ended in a loss at 22w due to IC,my boys will be forever in my heart .
FET#3 MMC at the 10 weeks ultrasound.
FET#4 2018
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