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Re: Looking for Buddies- Springtime IVF

Postby mglupe1979 » Thu Aug 30, 2018 2:04 pm

Great to hear this update. Happy nine month hpuseteri.
As for me just waiting for rf now. To be honest with you all Im so scare to try again and fail :( just to think about it it saddens me so much tries come down just thinking about it.
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Re: Looking for Buddies- Springtime IVF

Postby banana78 » Thu Aug 30, 2018 5:27 pm

Valancy it never feels good to be a pain in the @ss but honestly people get so complacent in their jobs. Stay on them!

MG I have tested. 6dp5dt and nothing yet. I feel optimistic though there's lots of sensations going on down there. Wishing you luck on your next cycle
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Re: Looking for Buddies- Springtime IVF

Postby mglupe1979 » Fri Aug 31, 2018 5:56 am

Banana lots of baby dust going your way. Sticky vibes sticky vibes. Come on little emby get comfy in your moma. Did you use a fren? There are pretty sensitive. I dont trust the chepies when testing early
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Re: Looking for Buddies- Springtime IVF

Postby Hpusateri » Sat Sep 01, 2018 9:39 am

All you need is 1 strong egg, that’s what you told me Mglupe! Be optimistic, I’m keeping my fingers crossed for both you and banana
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1/31/18: unsuccessful HSG
2/21/18: Hysteroscopy, polypectomy, and D&C
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21 eggs collected, 13 mature, only 1 fertilized :?
Eggie frozen 6/12/2018
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Beta #1 8/17/2018 (couldn't wait 2 weeks :wink: ): 469
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Re: Looking for Buddies- Springtime IVF

Postby banana78 » Sat Sep 01, 2018 11:30 am

Feeling very down today. 8dp5dt and still the familiar white BFN. I imagined this morning that maybe an evap line in certain angles could be something. FRER thinks otherwise. Unmistakably white. I know some day not to test yet but it seems to me the vast majority have bold BFPs by now. I'm just so familiar with disappointment and this experience is starting to taste the same.
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Re: Looking for Buddies- Springtime IVF

Postby mglupe1979 » Sat Sep 01, 2018 12:50 pm

Ahh banana so sad to read that your test are not given you hope. Its true we read on the internet all these women 4,5,6 depot getting strong positive but we are not all the same. It could be a late implanter, i know i dont want to give you any false hope but you are in until rf shows up.
In the other hand i now how you are feeling, on my first transfer i tested everyday hoping to see something, i move the test in every angle posible anf fern did not lye it was white. Hang in there. We will be bless. My doct keeps telling me that he will continue with me side by side as long as am willing to keep trying. Being unexplain is so hard not to know why we cant consive. I have my days that i just want to jump right in and i have other that im feeling i dont want to continue being heart broken.
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Re: Looking for Buddies- Springtime IVF

Postby banana78 » Sat Sep 01, 2018 4:34 pm

MG you are a true sweet heart. Thank you for your encouragement. This battle isn't easy for anyone. Its hard not to get run down some days.
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Re: Looking for Buddies- Springtime IVF

Postby banana78 » Mon Sep 03, 2018 5:25 am

10dp5dt and I basically give up. One more cheap test for tomorrow. Then I'm saving the FRER for the morning of my blood work to mentally prepare. Not sure what the next step would be. I can't afford IVF again. I'll ask the clinic for IUI. My husband's numbers were too low before. He had surgery and the retest was the same. But sometimes it takes time so I'm hoping that it's better more. Otherwise I'm out of options.
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Re: Looking for Buddies- Springtime IVF

Postby Hpusateri » Mon Sep 03, 2018 7:11 pm

Oh banana, I’m so sorry. Maybe your beta will say something different, hpt gives false negatives all the time. When is your beta?
Me 34 DH 35
Initially both F/M factors
1/31/18: unsuccessful HSG
2/21/18: Hysteroscopy, polypectomy, and D&C
3/7/2018: successful HSG
now just severe male factor
6/6/2018 ER
21 eggs collected, 13 mature, only 1 fertilized :?
Eggie frozen 6/12/2018
FET 8/7/2018
Beta #1 8/17/2018 (couldn't wait 2 weeks :wink: ): 469
Beta #2 8/21/2018: 3454
9/7/2018: 7 week u/s, HB 157
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Re: Looking for Buddies- Springtime IVF

Postby banana78 » Tue Sep 04, 2018 2:37 am

My beta is Friday, 14dp5dt. Unfortunately if a FRER isn't showing positive by 11dp then I imagine there isn't enough HCG to support a pregnancy. I'm angry and depressed. I don't have the money to do this again. I'm 40 and I've run out of options. I just have to accept the reality that being a mother is an experience I'll never get to live.
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Re: Looking for Buddies- Springtime IVF

Postby Danaa » Tue Sep 04, 2018 4:55 am

I’m sorry Banana.
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FET#2 ended in a loss at 22w due to IC,my boys will be forever in my heart .
FET#3 MMC at the 10 weeks ultrasound.
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Re: Looking for Buddies- Springtime IVF

Postby mglupe1979 » Tue Sep 04, 2018 2:40 pm

Im so sorry banana, i really hope that the surgery did make a difference in his swimmers and maybe iui will work. Have you both talk about sperm donor, maybe that is something you can think off. It will be an option and less expensive. I really dont know what to tell you its a sensitive topic. You obviously produce follicle it will be your egg being fertilized carried in your womb. This is a stuff desicion. I also have one more emby and i dont want to give up but the money is an issue on my end to. I just finish paying the loan i took for my ivf procedure my hubby might be very upset if i invest that much again.
As for me rf showed her face today cd 27 very early as espected since i ovulated on cd12 very early. So i did call the office to see if they will like me to give it a go and im schefule for ultrasound on Thursday cd 3 not sure what he is planing on this one. Could be a natural cycle or a medicated will see. Im scare to death and worried
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Re: Looking for Buddies- Springtime IVF

Postby banana78 » Tue Sep 04, 2018 4:20 pm

To be honest I don't want to have a baby unless it's his. I think it would hurt him too much. I dunno. Maybe I'll get a puppy. Is it strange that I think a dog is too much work? Lol. I know a baby is much more. I'll stick to my cats. I suspect my husband will want to try again. It just seems like a fool's mission because I've become jaded. I guess we'll cross that bridge eventually. If not maybe I need a hobby. I've let this consume my life for years.

I hope this is the cycle for you MG, you deserve to be a mother. We all do.
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Re: Looking for Buddies- Springtime IVF

Postby Valancy21 » Wed Sep 05, 2018 5:56 am

I'm so sorry, Banana. I would probably feel the same way (and I've honestly had that thought about getting a dog, too! They are work, just a different kind!). Hence I've always stuck with cats. Although my first baby, my kitty of 12 years, passed away yesterday. Still struggling with that one.

Anyway...know you're not alone. And I know this is expensive and frustrating. :hugs:
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IVF #1 - Nov 2013, 2 embryos BFN (10 embryos frozen)
FET #1 - Jan 2014, 2 embryos BFP @ blood test, Beta 1: 5, Beta 2: 4.4...chemical
FET #2 - April 2014, 1 embryo BFN
FET #3 - July 2014, 2 embryos BFN
IVF #2 - Sept 2014, 2 embryos BFP @ 9dp2dt!!! Beta 1: 168, Beta 2: 1447 ...Baby girl born @40w2d, 8 lbs 2 oz (15 embryos frozen)
FET #4 - Dec 2016, 2 embryos BFN
FET #5 - May 2017, 2 embryos BFN
FET #6 - Aug 2017, 2 embryos BFN
FET #7 - Oct 2017, 2 embryos BFP @ 9dp2dt!! Beta 1: 478, Beta 2: 4685 Twins!!! ...Miscarriage at 13wks, boys
FET #8 - May 2018, 1 embryo BFP @ 8dp2dt! Beta 1: 15, Beta 2: 11...Chemical
FET #9 - June 2018, 1 embryo BFP @ 8dp3dt! Beta 1: 279.9, Beta 2: 843.6
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Re: Looking for Buddies- Springtime IVF

Postby banana78 » Wed Sep 05, 2018 7:43 am

Sorry for your loss Valancy.
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