Trying to Conceive Forum

10 times · by **Kcc_summers** » Wed Mar 13, 2013 9:12 am

Thanks everyone for your thoughts! Im doing much better now. I just keep telling myself that it's like my normal period, but it was just late. :/ I hate to think of it as a loss, especially since it was so early and nothing had really formed yet. This is the second time it has happened to me in the past 11 months. I have an appt with my doctor next Wednesday and I'm going to discuss seeing a OB specialist in Austin. Thanks for your suggestion Rosie! I'm definitely wanting to get EVERYTHING checked out before I even start considering any kind of fertility treatments, which is what my doctor has already offered :/ KT- I had several BFPs after I had already missed my period and got it confirmed by blood test last Tuesday. That night, after already blabbing our news to our parents, I started bleeding. The next day I went to the doctor, got an ultrasound and blood test and they said I had already lost it. Even though it was super early (5-6wks), it is still considered a miscarriage and was still very emotional for me. I've started taking some vitamins and I'm hoping it'll help. I don't know what else to do. I had a csection with my daughter and all I can think is that the egg is implanting on my scar and it doesn't thrive there??? I knew having a csection would royally mess me up!

I hate it and when I do finally get pregnant again I want to try a VBAC!

51 times · by **KTBrown** » Wed Mar 13, 2013 9:52 am

stay positive...I too had two m/c's and it is ok; your body can conceive, and while c-sections messed up my cycle's and hormones, also hindering me from losing weight, I was able to conceive again. I am sorry for such a let down, and I am not doubting you at all; so hard to have to go through the explanation of it all...after the second m/c I learned to stay quiet until I gave it more time, but I wasn't always like that because I didn't worry about a miscarriage.

14 times · by **Silvermist** » Wed Mar 13, 2013 11:03 am

Sorry to hear about your news. Even though there wasn't much there, that little cluster of cells forming inside you had a DNA strain from conception that contained every detail and feature of your little one. I agree with KT, it's best to wait for the little bean to stick before telling people. I didn't realize this was necessary because mc was never an issue with me, until last month.

10 times · by **Kcc_summers** » Wed Mar 13, 2013 11:40 am

Yep I totally agree! I told my sister I'm going to try and hold out as long as possible next time. It was just so hard this time bc it has been almost a year of TTC and it was confirmed by the doctor.

another question to you ladies that have been through an early miscarriage... is it normal to still have strong pregnancy symptoms a week after??? I'm still extremely tired, nauseous, with sensitive breasts and smell...

60 times · by **WantToBeASingleMom** » Wed Mar 13, 2013 12:11 pm

So sorry to hear about your sudden excitement and then all too sudden loss. :cry:

10 times · by **Kcc_summers** » Wed Mar 13, 2013 10:31 pm

Thank you

65 times · by **care327** » Thu Mar 14, 2013 9:54 am

hi i miscarried monday =( i was about 6 weeks.. i feel absolutely TERRIBLE about it. i just wanted to address your one questions about feeling symptoms.. i know its only been 4 days but i still feel nausea, hungry n tired all the time. my boobs still hurt n even my stomach is still a lil poked out which in my opinion makes this whole thing that much worse. my heart goes out to u n hopefully u find some answers in the future. <3

60 times · by **WantToBeASingleMom** » Thu Mar 14, 2013 1:45 pm

care327 wrote:hi i miscarried monday =( i was about 6 weeks.. i feel absolutely TERRIBLE about it. i just wanted to address your one questions about feeling symptoms.. i know its only been 4 days but i still feel nausea, hungry n tired all the time. my boobs still hurt n even my stomach is still a lil poked out which in my opinion makes this whole thing that much worse. my heart goes out to u n hopefully u find some answers in the future. <3

Oh no!!

I'm so sorry. I liked seeing the green line in your chart!

14 times · by **Silvermist** » Thu Mar 14, 2013 2:43 pm

KCC, symptoms can linger for a while. Depends on how much hCG was in your system. At the most I had 36 hCG, and I only had tender boobs for a week, and then nothing. I counted the bleeding as CD1 and I O'd around CD 21-22, which is normal for my typical 35 day cycle. So I'm happy my system was back to normal right away.

60 times · by **WantToBeASingleMom** » Thu Mar 14, 2013 3:02 pm

Silvermist wrote:KCC, symptoms can linger for a while. Depends on how much hCG was in your system. At the most I had 36 hCG, and I only had tender boobs for a week, and then nothing. I counted the bleeding as CD1 and I O'd around CD 21-22, which is normal for my typical 35 day cycle. So I'm happy my system was back to normal right away.

We have similar cycles.

10 times · by **Kcc_summers** » Fri Mar 15, 2013 8:37 am

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss Care. I was also 5-6wks. Has this happened before? I'm still feeling symptoms and it's been 10 days. I have an appt on Wednesday and in my crazy head I'm wishing that I'm still pregnant and the loss was a "vanishing twin". I know that it's not likely, but a girl can only hope. :/ otherwise we are still currently trying with no waiting. I hope you are too and we both get our BFP asap!

65 times · by **care327** » Fri Mar 15, 2013 9:39 am

thanks kcc n im sorry for you as well. this was my first pregnancy ever =( and so my first mc as well. today is the first day i havent felt nauseous all day and my boobs are still sore a little but not as much. i went to my dr wednesday n he said my cervix is closed n uterus is back to normal size but he suggested waiting 3 months. which feels like a lifetime! but my husband leaves in 3 weeks to go to school out of state n comes back end of may. so by then it will be about 9 weeks n i think we are gonna start trying again then. i wish u all the luck in the world!! have u had any prior mc?

65 times · by **care327** » Fri Mar 15, 2013 9:40 am

WantToBeASingleMom wrote:
care327 wrote:hi i miscarried monday =( i was about 6 weeks.. i feel absolutely TERRIBLE about it. i just wanted to address your one questions about feeling symptoms.. i know its only been 4 days but i still feel nausea, hungry n tired all the time. my boobs still hurt n even my stomach is still a lil poked out which in my opinion makes this whole thing that much worse. my heart goes out to u n hopefully u find some answers in the future. <3

Oh no!! I'm so sorry. I liked seeing the green line in your chart!

thanks sweety!

10 times · by **Kcc_summers** » Fri Mar 15, 2013 10:11 am

Oh well atleast you won't have any temptations to since he will be gone. I'm sure you'll get pregnant again soon. I hope to hear of your success soon!

I haven't been able to talk to my doctor yet. She was out when my miscarriage happened and is out this whole week for spring break. I had to see another doctor at their office. I see MY doctor on Wednesday. I don't know what she'll do. The nurse said I should be back to normal by 2 weeks and never said to hold off on TTC. I'm still extremely exhausted, nauseous, sensitive boobs and smell, and having some headaches. I believe this is the second time this has happened so early...the first time was never confirmed.