Trying to Conceive Forum

by **MRS.K80** » Mon Jun 19, 2017 9:17 am

Ugh, I hear ya.... I feel like its my fault that we havent conceived yet. I also got a BFN this morning as well. My boobs have also started to het tender on the sides which is an af symptom for me... I dont understand why this is so hard... my brother in law has had 6 kids in the last 8 years and they were all accidents!!! Why cant I manage 1???

by **hmContine16** » Mon Jun 19, 2017 1:46 pm

I know someone that is pregnant with their 3rd right now. She's the lucky type that got pregnant with every baby on her first cycle of trying each time. I can't even fathom that.

by **MRS.K80** » Mon Jun 19, 2017 2:56 pm

I know! I wish it was that easy for me! I am only in cycle 5 right now and I see some of the girls on here that have been trying for years and its just so disheartening.
I work in a jail and it seems like every girl there is prego or has five kids that they could care less about and I just dont get it. Why is life so cruel like that?

by **hmContine16** » Tue Jun 20, 2017 2:45 pm

Next cycle will be cycle 12 and I just did not want to reach that point. They fertility clinic called and rescheduled DH's SA for Monday morning. I had another VFN this morning. Last night I had the WORST indent ever on a FRER. It really had me excited at first. I hate those things sometimes.

Oh, and I still don't have any sore boobs. This was a weird cycle.

by **MRS.K80** » Wed Jun 21, 2017 3:35 am

Im sorry its taken you so long... just dont give up though!
My cervix is still high and soft. My boobs are sore now and I have been crampy. I fear that af may be on her way. My temp went up to 97.9 rhis morning but I am tryin not to look into that too much. There is still time for it to drop.

How long until DHs appt? I Hope It goes smoothly for you guys! And I reeeally hope you get your BFP sooner rather than later!

by **hmContine16** » Wed Jun 21, 2017 6:46 am

I still have no AF symptoms besides acne and being emotional, but those kinda hang around all the time. His appointment is Monday at 7:30am. They said it'll take a week to get the results back. I haven't been taking my temp so I don't know what it's doing right now. I'm expecting AF either Friday or Sunday. I hope you get your BFP soon!!!

by **MRS.K80** » Wed Jun 21, 2017 2:52 pm

Please keep me posted on how his appt goes!

As of right now, my boobs are tender but I no longer feel crampy. Just felt them this morning really. Nothing really seems to out of the ordinary so I am trying not to get my hopes up... i hate this waiting game!

by **hmContine16** » Thu Jun 22, 2017 6:39 am

Have you tested since Monday? I'm actually ready for AF to come now so I can get started on next month. I'll keep you posted on the SA! DH really isn't looking forward to it lol! But I told him it's a very small price compared to everything I've been through/will have to go through.

by **MRS.K80** » Thu Jun 22, 2017 8:55 am

A VERY small price!!!! Lol His turn to take one for the team!

And no I havent tested again. Just been keeping track of my temps and waiting on af. Im trying not to drive myself nuts by testing all thw time. This morning my temps were still up (98) but I had some major cramping. I think she may arrive tomorrow. :/

How are things on your end? You try testing again?

by **hmContine16** » Thu Jun 22, 2017 1:25 pm

Yes I did today. It was BFN. I know I'm out. I don't really know when AF will arrive. I have somewhat irregular (26-37 day) cycles and my LP is usually 15 days, but last cycle it was 13 days so I think it'll either be here tomorrow or Sunday. I've started cramping today so I expect her soon.

by **hmContine16** » Fri Jun 23, 2017 6:50 am

Temp drop today to 97.73 so I'm expecting AF any moment now. On to cycle 12! Any news on your side?

by **MRS.K80** » Fri Jun 23, 2017 9:27 am

Sorry about your BFN

I am still waiting on af. I am on cd 30 and I am still getting some stronger cramps, so I am sure af is right around the corner.

My temps are still up (97.9), boobs are still tender, and I have had diarrhea (tmi sorry!) and nausea.

I have somewhat irregular cycles too. From 28 to 32 days. I normally average around 30 most cycles though. Sucks not being able to KNOW exactly when af should arrive each month! Being a woman is just such a pain! Lol

by **hmContine16** » Sat Jun 24, 2017 7:18 am

AF started for me today. Well back to trying! Cycle 12 here we come

by **MRS.K80** » Sat Jun 24, 2017 12:16 pm

Oh no! I am so sorry!

I still have no af. My temps are still up (97.7) but I still am experiencing af like cramps. I talked to DH last night and he doeant want me to test until af is a week late. He is not a fan of the disappointing BFN. :/

I hope next minth works out better for you!