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Feeling alone

Postby lauren4363 » Thu Sep 12, 2013 10:34 am

I have been ttc almost 2 years now..ive been on clomid & femara nothing is working...we have had 3 iui's ...nothing
my dh has 1 son from another person and we have 1 son togehter! i dont get what the problem is and because i already have DS everyone keeps telling me, just be patient, it will happen! DS just started school and almost everyone there has a lil brohter or sister or their mom is very pregnant!
i feel so isolated and alone and all i want is to give DS a younger sibling who is with him full time, he really struggles that his step brother is only with us 24 hours a week :/
anyone feel the same?
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Re: Feeling alone

Postby randapanda » Thu Sep 12, 2013 2:48 pm

Well I can sort of feel your psin. We have been ttc #2 since February and nothing. We have a 4.5 DS and really want
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Re: Feeling alone

Postby randapanda » Thu Sep 12, 2013 2:49 pm

A sibling for him.

Hows it going
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Re: Feeling alone

Postby becbaf » Thu Sep 12, 2013 10:50 pm

I can also kind of relate. We have a DS who is 6 and desperately want to give him a sibling. I'm feeling lost today and don't really know how I'm going to continue this TTC journey. What do you think your next step will be?
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Re: Feeling alone

Postby randapanda » Fri Sep 13, 2013 6:58 am

Well I dont like to admit it but I might have to go see a doctor to find out why we are not so easily getting pg. prob since I am overweight but some people have gotten pg and they are the same or weight more than I do.

Its just so depressing and I really just want to just keep trying and whatever happens does but we also dont have insurance to go see a doctor on a whim.

We just moved and its crazy as it is.
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Re: Feeling alone

Postby randapanda » Fri Sep 13, 2013 7:09 am

Sorry just venting a little. So people make it sound so easy to get there and its not.
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Re: Feeling alone

Postby lauren4363 » Mon Sep 16, 2013 6:30 am

well i have gone to an RE and have been working closely with her for about a year....she thinks our next step is IVF but its 100% not covered by insurance
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Re: Feeling alone

Postby lauren4363 » Tue Oct 08, 2013 12:10 pm

finally finally finally BFP!!!!!!!!!!
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Re: Feeling alone

Postby randapanda » Tue Oct 08, 2013 4:34 pm

Yay that's awesome lauren! :-)
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Re: Feeling alone

Postby rachaelfoster1 » Sat Oct 12, 2013 1:07 pm

Amazing news Lauren! Did you end up going with IVF or did it happen for you on your own?
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Re: Feeling alone

Postby TTsmommy » Sat Oct 12, 2013 9:32 pm

Congrats hun. Awesome reading this thread and seeing you get a bfp. What symptoms did you have
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Re: Feeling alone

Postby lauren4363 » Sun Oct 13, 2013 8:15 am

Back to back iui not Ivf...honestly no symptoms ..I was actually very confident af was coming
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