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New to the site. ttc#2 cycle 10

Postby dwmomma » Thu May 14, 2015 2:02 pm

Hi everybody! I just turned 30 and have been ttc #2 for 10 cycles now. I have long cycles which vary between 30-40 days. I have gone back and forth with charting to opk. I finally got a positive opk this month and am on cd8.
Not really having any symptoms and am losing hope. My first is 6 and I am losing hope she will ever get to experience that sibling relationship and that a 2nd just isn't on the cards. Not sure what else I can do :(
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Re: New to the site. ttc#2 cycle 10

Postby Kikibebe » Sun May 17, 2015 8:36 pm

Hi there, I'm ttc #3 my first 2 babies came easy, but this... Hard work, and lots of tears! Don't loose hope, it's been 18 month for me, and I've had two chemicals, it's been hard but it will be SO worth it! Best wishes :) x
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Re: New to the site. ttc#2 cycle 10

Postby prayhard0401 » Mon Sep 14, 2015 8:45 am

Me too ttc #2 for the past one year. Seeing the blood every month make me feel like a failure. Why is my surrounding getting pregnant with #2 or #3 or easily but why am I going through the difficult phrase again from my #1 too.
Any mummies here can share or give me some positive success story
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Re: New to the site. ttc#2 cycle 10

Postby BKB273 » Wed Oct 14, 2015 2:52 pm

Hello, I know how you are feeling. TTC #2 for a while now, started Dec 2012 ...took a couple breaks here and there, but we are at around our 28th cycle .... gotten things checked out and everything looks good. Just timing I guess? It's been a struggle. DS will be 7 yrs in 3 weeks. We really want to give him a sibling but I do feel like it's never going to happen. Everyone says relax and it will happen, but it's so hard to do that. It was so easy getting pregnant with him, he was a surprise! My first pregnancy we got pregnant on the first try, that ended in M/C, but then got pregnant with DS 4 months later. Well, I am on CD39 right now, so hoping this is it! All BFNs but no sign of AF yet either .....
Me: 37, DH: 38, DS: 7yrs
TTC #2 over 3 years

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