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Any thoughts on surrogacy?

Postby CelineM » Sat Jul 29, 2017 6:01 am

Hi ladies,
I've been TTC for a while and recently I was diagnosed with unexplained secondary infertility. I'm 47 years old and it seems I can't carry a baby anymore.
I'm thinking of going for surrogacy. However I'm not quite sure about it. There are many issues and risks to consider.
I would love to know your opinions.. specially if any of you had done it before..
Thanks
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Re: Any thoughts on surrogacy?

Postby mimimama » Sun Jul 30, 2017 6:51 am

No dir experience, but If I were in your shoes, I would consider IVF with donor eggs or IVF de combined with PGS NGS, that usually works in case of unexplained secondary infertility.
Me 31, DH 40. TTC 5 years. Unexplained infertility.
December 2015- IVF #1 BFN
May/June 2016- new doctor, IVF consultation in Gdansk Poland
October 2016- IVF #2 Invicta BFP!!!
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Re: Any thoughts on surrogacy?

Postby Nessa05 » Wed Aug 30, 2017 1:03 pm

Hi OP! I'm looking in the same thing. I'm not able to carry a baby. After multiple MCs I decided it's time to look for another option. So now I'm searching for surrogacy information. How are you doing now? Any progress or news? There is much info in the internet, but it kind of confusing. It would be nice to talk to someone with surrogacy experience.
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Re: Any thoughts on surrogacy?

Postby Kennedy024 » Mon Dec 11, 2017 5:12 am

Hey everybody, how are all of you? I have normally imagined 2 times. Both the circumstances I have 2 young men. I am so happy and fortunate to have them. I would love to bring forth infant young lady. Little girls are the special case who remain by side in maturity. I need a young lady now. Specialists recommended PCO's. I don't realize what should I do now. Would it be a good idea for me to go for IVF? I am excessively stressed. Anybody here in a comparable situation? I would be grateful for the assistance.
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Re: Any thoughts on surrogacy?

Postby Mommy2B? » Thu Dec 14, 2017 6:50 pm

I am currently serving as a surrogate. I recommend using an agency to help guide you- especially through the legal contracts.
Here is a link to my blog if you want to see how our journey has progressed. Sadly, even surrogates have miscarriages (which I had never suffered before when building my family).
https://monikamusings.wordpress.com/201 ... ates-side/
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Sage Elise made a fast and furious entrance into the world and directly into our hearts on Dec. 20th at 9:04 am. She was born in the water, all 10 lbs and 22 inches of her! Woah! And she has red hair and dimples! All three of us love our little girl!
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