Of course! It really is comforting to swap shared experiences of something as emotional as ttc. :-) I don't think you are being selfish at all. It's not good to dwell on anything really, but your feelings are not selfish. Letting go of control is a big thing though, and something I really struggled with during our ttc journey. I can't say I let up a ton- but- when I focused more on my husband instead of getting pregnant, I felt so much better. Also, I don't know if this is what did it or not, but we tried the SMEP (sprem meets egg plan) the cycle we conceived. You bd every other day from when your period stops to the two days before ovualation. Then you bd two days before, one day before, and the day of, then every other day for the rest of your cycle- or however long you wish after O. The biggest part is the three days over ovulation...anyway, that's my two cents.
And thank you for the congrats!!
Me- 25, DH- 27, started TTC #1 in January 2012
1st BFP ever July 19, 2012!
September 7, 2012 Saw heartbeat and pictures of baby! Measuring big!
October 24, 2012 19 weeks It's a GIRL!!
OLIVIA GRACE born April 1, 2013