BBT rise then EWCM

[NewMrsB]

Hi everyone

It's so nice to read everyone's comments and stories, as I feel so alone in my quest to a BFP (still learning the lingo too )

My and my partner are newly married, but stopped using contraception 2 years ago and have not conceived. Had fertility tests and they didn't find anything wrong with either of us - "primary unidentified subfertility"

I am 32 and DH 35 and we'd like a large family so I started charting this month. The gyn told us not to and just BD twice a week throughout cycle, but we forget, or we're not in the mood, at least having an idea of my fertility cycle will help us to time it right.

Anyway, so I got EWCM for 2 days this cycle and timed BD accordingly, however, my BBT shift came at the same time, so FF has said I ovulated before my EWCM came. So now I am worried that is why we re struggling. If I don't have fertile CM around O then I'm never going to get pregnant. Anyone else have this problem?

[pinknow]

Cheer up hon, I've seen a lot of women get preggers without a visible fertile cm . Fx for you

[Rosie-o]

You can get preg without EWCM. I used to take 3x evening primrose oil capsules a day from AF until O day to increase mine though. I know a lot of people who have had success with preseed as well.

Don't give up hope!! Have you tried acupuncture at all? It helped me conceive my first after being on birth control for 10 years straight.

[mrsh03]

I have seen BFP charts w/o ewcm too. It's possible, but I do recommend EPO and Preseed too. Worked for me!! GL hun!!

[KJ511]

Lots of women don't have EWCM!!! But I'm with the other ladies--Preseed is fabulous. I don't know if it was the magic trick that helped us, but we got our BFP the first month we tried! Just helps everything move along more... swimmingly.

[NewMrsB]

Oh I'll definately get pre seed then and take EPO next cycle. We BD'd when we saw EWCM this cycle but think it was too late as my temp rise happened the same day meaning I O'd the day before.. Will keep trying