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False positive? Losing hope :(

Postby MissEleonora » Tue Feb 13, 2018 3:49 pm

I have been having a lot of pregnancy symptoms Ive been feeling unusually light headed and dizzy, feel so nauseous and emotional and I even had a very strange back cramp. I also have very vivid dreams including sleep paralysis idk if that’s a symptom? So I took a Sainsburys test at 10dpo I knew it was a bit too early considering my period is due tomorrow and I’m currently 12dpo but I did it anyway and It was negative at first and I’m kind of pessimistic about these things so I just threw my test in the draw but I looked at it again 15 mins later and it was a full on positive well a bit faint but positive and I know that the test doesn’t count after 10 mins so i didn’t get excited but decided to test with first response the next day and it was negative.... I heard a lot about these Sainsbury’s tests and I feel so gutted that it was a false positive or a very blue Evap Line.. I took another first response test today and I thought I saw a line a very very faint line but I think it’s just an indent. I feel so depressed because I feel like it will never happen for me. I’ve been trying for nearly a year and I have regular cycles (35) my period is due tomorrow xx
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Re: False positive? Losing hope :(

Postby JemimaK » Wed Feb 14, 2018 2:44 am

Hi there! I just wanted to say don’t be discouraged, it took us a year to get our first who’s now 2, I thought I’d die by the end if I didn’t get my bpd- then we did :)
During that year I had two false positives, gutting but they happen.
Two things I did differently for my bfp, started taking Macca, and used SMEP.
Would strongly suggest seeing your doc if your worried too.
I’m sorry I don’t have a better answer, but wanted to offer some encouragement and not read and run :)
Good luck!
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Re: False positive? Losing hope :(

Postby JemimaK » Wed Feb 14, 2018 2:46 am

Also- if AF hasn’t shown you’re not out ;)
Sorry when I replied I was thinking about my own 11 day leutal lol.
Plenty don’t get their bfp until post AF.
Lost of luck! Would love to hear how you go x
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Re: False positive? Losing hope :(

Postby MissEleonora » Sun Feb 18, 2018 7:44 am

Well af is 5 days late now and 2 days ago I had brown spotting and tmi mucus like yellow gooey cm when I wiped but then it hasn’t happened again! I had very very slight cramps but not painful on and off but still no af and I haven’t got any tests because I run out and I’m broke atm I get payed at the end of this month :/ thank you for all your kind words any updates with you? Xx
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Re: False positive? Losing hope :(

Postby beckybenson » Mon Mar 19, 2018 5:23 am

Hi. Hope you are doing good. Please just relax. Don't lose hope already. You said you saw a faint line right? MAybe it was too early to test. The line tends to get darker with each passing day. I think you shouldn't give up already. Keep testing for a couple of days more. The line might darken now.
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Re: False positive? Losing hope :(

Postby BettyJames » Mon Mar 19, 2018 12:01 pm

Hey there. How are you doing? I hope its all great. I am really sorry to hear about your problem. It's really sad that you have to go through this. Waiting and trying so much makes you depressed. I know because I have experience. However, it best that you don't lose hope. Don't lose your strength. If you are strong everything will happen. A little positivity is all you require. I am not an expert but I have seen similar people. These symptoms happen to them too. However, they kept trying and succeeded. I wish you good luck. I wish everything goes as you want. I hope to hear more from you. Take care.
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Re: False positive? Losing hope :(

Postby cindywoolfe » Mon Jul 09, 2018 1:38 pm

Hey, there. Hope you're okay. Don't lose hope, please. That's the worst thing you can do. Keep trying, it'll happen, eventually. Keeping the faith is so important! Good luck to you!
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Re: False positive? Losing hope :(

Postby Janeen1 » Tue Jul 10, 2018 12:03 pm

Hey, honey. Don't worry, please. Worrying never helps. Keep the faith. Don't lose hope, at all. You can do this, okay? Good luck to you. You're in my prayers.
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Re: False positive? Losing hope :(

Postby Ameliabrown » Sun Aug 12, 2018 3:02 am

Hey Dear, hope you are doing well. I am so sorry dear. Please dont be upset. These strip tests are not that reliable. I myself had tried these tests and faced disappointment. I am an infertile too. I can relate to your situation. I am TTC for 10 years now. I live in Ireland and have tried many treatments I am now considering surrogacy. I have heard that Biotexcom clinic is soon arranging an event. Where the head of their English department, Anastasia, will come along to discuss various treatments. They will also give a chance to sign treatment contract. I am waiting for that event eagerly. You should also try to attend this event. Otherwise you should definitely consult some good doctor.
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Re: False positive? Losing hope :(

Postby Mindy123 » Sun Aug 12, 2018 9:31 am

Hi Miss, I hope you are doing good. This is so sad. I can feel your pain. This is so difficult to get all this. You should visit a good doctor. Dont ignore these things. Dont lose hope please. Get all your tests done. I have also faced this issue. Later I was diagnosed with endometriosis. I even tried IVF but it didnt worked. I faced failure 2 times. Now I am waiting for an event where a clinic is coming to discuss infertility treatments in detail. Anastasia, head of English department, will come to discuss plans and give a chance to sign treatment contract. I am so looking forward to attend this event.
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Re: False positive? Losing hope :(

Postby barbara5 » Thu Aug 16, 2018 7:22 am

Hey. Hope you are doing well girl. It happens to everyone. We are all in this together. And you will come through. Just have hope. Consult good professionals. Instead of sulking in bed all day. Don't give up. You have yet to achieve a lot. Just be careful while choosing clinics. Go for the best ones. And don't get attracted to those who claim a lot but are not supportive at all. Like Adonis. They are the worst. They gave me hope. But did not cooperate after that. I lost all confidence. And I regret ever coming across them. I hope you don't too. And nobody does. Good luck. You are going to get through this. Cheers.
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Re: False positive? Losing hope :(

Postby julietrocks » Thu Aug 16, 2018 7:33 am

Hello! How are you? Hope you are doing okay! I am sad after reading your post! But Don't lose hope! It happens with almost everyone! I was also an infertile! I am suffering from a heart disease called Mitral Stenosis! Due to which I cannot conceive! Which is really heart breaking for me! My DH love kids like anything! We finally decided to go for surrogacy! We went to a clinic in Ukraine! They provided us with a god surrogate mother! She was really sweet! Now we are parents of a cute baby girl! So miracle happens and God make the ways! Be strong and face the reality! Much love!
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Re: False positive? Losing hope :(

Postby martha j » Sat Aug 18, 2018 3:20 am

I hope the best for you. just stay positive. You don't have to lose hope. there are a lot of options for you. just try to choose an appropriate team for yourself for consultation. I really suggest you that. This is what I personally did. Best of luck! my prayers are with you!
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Re: False positive? Losing hope :(

Postby natallia » Sat Aug 18, 2018 5:14 am

martha j wrote:I hope the best for you. just stay positive. You don't have to lose hope. there are a lot of options for you. just try to choose an appropriate team for yourself for consultation. I really suggest you that. This is what I personally did. Best of luck! my prayers are with you!

I agree with you. There are many well-known fertility clinics now. You should choose for them deliberately. I also have visited one in Europe. It was a very productive visit. Best of luck t you. I hope everything goes well.
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Re: False positive? Losing hope :(

Postby pakky » Sat Aug 18, 2018 8:09 am

"Hello there. I am very sorry to see that your experience with the clinic didnt end well. I have seen more and more comments lately and all are about the non professional conduct of these clinics. It is frustrating to get your hope high and then start to wait for nothing. But please dont be upset. There are many good clinics which do respond to the clients messages. I had an amazing experience of surrogacy with Biotexcom and recently I heard they are arranging an event to provide open consultation to everyone. i wanted to share it with you. They will have Anastasia, their head, with them. They will also provide the facility of signing contracts at the spot. I dont remember the dates exactly but you can always ask them on their mail. So i urge you to try them out and get registered asap. It is too good an opportunity to miss. I would have loved... Good luck!
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