TTC at 40

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Re: TTC at 40

Postby Twacky » Mon Mar 12, 2018 11:51 am

Sorry for the bfn. Hope you get rid of that yeast soon! It sounds dreadful. I used to get yeast and cystitis lots in my twenties and thirties, hardly ever now, touch wood. Tomorrow is 10dpo and I will likely do a test first thing. Have to be up 4am this week which really sucks!
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Re: TTC at 40

Postby Kawanmk » Wed Mar 14, 2018 7:06 pm

Hello Momof9treasures, MercyMe, Blooming88 and Twacky!

Sorry about the BFN Momof9. Praying for a better outcome next time.

Twacky and MercyMe, I'm tired as I type this. No idea how I'm going to have a little one! I guess I'll add that to my list of things to figure out.

I'm 2dp5dt. My FET last November was a bust and I fell completely apart. I thought I would be able to hold it together, but I was sadly mistaken. This time I feel much better and added a few things to my protocol.
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Re: TTC at 40

Postby MercyMe » Thu Mar 15, 2018 10:25 am

Kawanmk what do those abbreviations mean? Those are new for me. Glad you are in a better place now.

Going crazy over here because my boobs are tender and I've had EWCM for 5 days straight. Wondering if I'm pg but truly think k I just ovulated yesterday (CD20)!? This is my first cycle since I weaned my daughter so I'm wondering if my hormones are batty.
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Re: TTC at 40

Postby Kawanmk » Thu Mar 15, 2018 1:23 pm

2dp5dt. Means I am 2 days past a 5 day transfer.

FET means frozen embryo transfer.

I have the EWCM as well. I want to test, but I know it’s very early. Some people have reported a positive a 4dp5dt.
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Re: TTC at 40

Postby Kawanmk » Sat Mar 17, 2018 5:17 am

Congrats SEL! We got out BFO also! I am 5dp5dt!
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Re: TTC at 40

Postby MercyMe » Tue Mar 27, 2018 12:13 pm

Cycle day 33, nothing but bfn. Period due tomorrow and feeling bummed! Every month feels like maybe and then bfn. I just keep staring at these stupid sticks imagining I'm seeing something!
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Re: TTC at 40

Postby Momof9treasures » Tue Mar 27, 2018 12:32 pm

So sorry. That just sucks. Cd 12 here. I had an inconclusive opk two days ago. We had dtd the night before. Then Sunday we got in a fight so I didn't test anymore. I was just kinda like "piss on it. I don't care anymore." We'll see but pretty much zero hope for this month. Again.
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Re: TTC at 40

Postby MercyMe » Tue Mar 27, 2018 4:49 pm

It happens often at our place too that the moment I test positive a big fight and we are not dtd for my whole window. I just keep trusting that when it's the right timing it will happen. Any luck with the yeast?
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Re: TTC at 40

Postby Momof9treasures » Tue Mar 27, 2018 5:29 pm

I had it gone (tea tree oil straight up there!), then we dtd and back to chunky yuck. Went to the doctor and they tested for bv but results aren't back yet. On antibiotics, probiotics, and more tea tree oil.
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Re: TTC at 40

Postby MercyMe » Tue Apr 03, 2018 10:37 am

Well I was days and days late and so hopeful but nope. Back to cycle day 2. Momof nine I keep hanging on, your story gives me hope. Going in for labs today to check levels. Considering surgery for endometriosis. Anyone have experience with this?
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Re: TTC at 40

Postby Momof9treasures » Tue Apr 03, 2018 11:26 am

Well, I'm 8 or 9 dpo. Have been having tiny spotting since 3dpo. Like, not even a full drop a day. I'm experienced enough to know it probably means nothing and I still have zero hope for this month but it seems there's always something to get me googling!
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Re: TTC at 40

Postby MercyMe » Tue Apr 03, 2018 11:37 am

Google should be banned for all TTC.
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Re: TTC at 40

Postby Momof9treasures » Tue Apr 03, 2018 1:06 pm

Absolutely
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Re: TTC at 40

Postby Momof9treasures » Thu Apr 05, 2018 11:11 am

Turns out I can imagine a line on anything. Bfn, which I knew.
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Re: TTC at 40

Postby MercyMe » Thu Apr 05, 2018 11:25 am

Right!??? Sorry friend. 100% chance next month. I just got my fsh and estradiol levels checked and all looks normal. So keep trying we will.
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