I understand. its frustrating when everyone tells you 'not to stress' and 'it'll happen if you relax'...my mother says it, but then she never went through a loss so she has NO idea what i'm feeling.
I recently (like last weekend) lost my 3rd pregnancy. I was really relaxed, i thought 'what are the chances of it happening again?' and enjoyed a cup of coffee here and there and even before i took my positive pregnancy test did a skydive - i don't know how much more relaxed i could have been!!
needless to say it didn't help. i still lost the pregnancy.
I don't really have any advice...just i know how you feel. part of me is so scared to try again. i NEVER want to go through another miscarriage, and in the back of my mind i know that if i fall pregnant it is a possibility.
With each pregnancy my body also changes, my boobs grow and then i lose them, they grow, and i lose them. I have stretch marks on my boobs now and i'm only 23!
i also hate when i'm told how young i am...like THAT has helped so far?! and if they don't know about the m/c's then its even worse 'isn't it time he had a sibling?' 'you should start trying for another one now'
just thought i'd sympathise...