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BFP After 2 Years of Trying

What I will tell you worked for me and not to say that it will work for everyone but it's what worked for us. We tried for about two years and finally just when we decided to give up because I got accepted to Nursing school, got a bfp! We are so happy and thank God everyday for our blessing because God always knows when the time is right. I know it sounds crazy how I will do school and baby, but we will do it. So first things first: this is my 2nd child, first child was from previous marriage. This is his first child. We both got checked and I was fine, he had low morphology but his count was good and so was his motility. In June he was put on clomid 25 mg tab daily for 3 months. We also began eating healthier and losing about 10-15 pounds each. We no longer worked night shift, instead switched to morning shifts and slept better, felt more energized and happier. I used the app period tracker to try and help me better understand my irregular cycle. For the most part I would usually get my period every 32-33 days. Around ovulation ( I only knew when I would ovulate because of the ovulation kits, I never had ovulation symptoms. Usually around day 15-17) time we would do the BD 2-3 days before, the day of and 2 days after. We used pressed for lubrication and instead of getting up right away to wash, I decided to lay there for an hour or more. No legs up in the air, just lay flat or on my side. And every tww was torture because very month I thought this was the month. I'd have every symptom of early pregnancy and then in a week or two my period would arrive. One day I bumped into an old friend of the family and she asked about my mom and my family and asked when we were going to add a new addition. I began crying and told her we just gave up because we tried home remedies, clomid, dieting and changing our sleeping cycle and overall had a healthier lifestyle and still nothing. (Ladies please understand this worked for me I'm not saying to try this but it won't hurt) She told me in Spanish to "warm my womb". She said I needed to clean and warm my wind so the the sperm and egg could meet and finally attach itself to my uterine lining. So here is the remedy: about 9 days before your next period, every morning drink a cup of hot milk. Just plain regular hot milk, hot enough that you could resist but not to scald yourself. In addition take two eggs and either boil or steam it only until the yolk is cooked but not hardened something like sunny side up/ egg Benedict and on top of the eggs sprinkle about a tea spoon of cut up Rue plant leaves. For 9 days every morning. Originally rue plant was used to clean the uterus after miscarriages back then. This can not be consumed if you are pregnant or already actively on your tww, wait until the next month to try. So I tried this in October and had a BFP for November. Was this an old remedy that worked for me? Maybe. But in the end if it did or did not, I strongly believe it was everything as a whole. It was God who made it happen. To me it was God who made that the lady and I bump into to each other, it was probably the clomid that finally kicked in to my husband's body, it was our change of eating habits and lifestyle change as well. It was also us not trying so hard and stressing about it but just keeping it mind while still enjoying ourselves intimately as a couple. I am currently 11 weeks today and feeling so blessed. Please keep your faith and prayers to God. HE listens and will bless all of you!

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Great story and thank you for sharing what worked for you! :)

Thanks for sharing! So it's 9 days before your period? Or before O? And where do you get the rue leaves? I want to try this! I love a good old wives tale!

great story, congrats. JoseeK its 9 days before AF. Baby dust to all

Hello ladies and thanks for your comments. I live in Miami so I purchased the Rue plant in a botanica. I think they are sold at nurseries or where plants are sold. Check online to see if the plant can be sent to your home. It's 9 days before your next period. It's a cleansing of the uterus which allows for the next month to be the month you conceive. So the month you do this will be the month that your period and old blood leave the uterus. It's an old wives remedy.

Hello ladies and thanks for your comments. I live in Miami so I purchased the Rue plant in a botanica. I think they are sold at nurseries or where plants are sold. Check online to see if the plant can be sent to your home. It's 9 days before your next period. It's a cleansing of the uterus which allows for the next month to be the month you conceive. So the month you do this will be the month that your period and old blood leave the uterus. It's an old wives remedy.

Oh, wow... What an amazing and inspirational story... Thank you, Nancy! I live in Houston, TX, and I cannot seem to find the Rue plant/leaves... I have about 20 people looking for it... :-D I definitely want to try it! THANK YOU. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY FOREVER!

Congradulations ! That was truly fatw and a blessing. Like u were saying a hige lifestyle change can also make ALL the difference!  I will definayely try this remedie even if I don't get preggers roght away, my uterus can use a reset. I suffer from pcos so weight and hormones are my biggest problem. This year I've lost 30lbs and af is pretty regular. Weve been trying so long 4plus years so I'm still hoping for my miricle. Please have a happy healtht pregnancy!

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